Checking disrespectful women

Dameon Farrow

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Post about it on the Coli/Social Media. That's what 90% of dudes do. :mjlol:

On another note it depends. If she doesn't meant shyt to you just walk away from her...nothing gets a female's attention more than not giving her any. If she does matter to you then tell her what's up about her behavior and then walk away from her so she can stew in it. If you sit there going back and forth you lost even if you're right.:yeshrug:
 

Piff Perkins

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Agreed. Why even waste the time going back and forth with someone like that. You gain nothing. Also when I see anyone being generally rude or disagreeable I remove or reduce them from my life. You don’t even have to be rude to them in order to make it clear you don’t fukk with them. Just remove yourself. They’ll notice. Mutual friends will notice too.
 

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Don't trip tho. I'll aim higher than the foot.
 

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Disrespect means someone made a conscious choice to not respect boundaries. I acknowledge the disrespect and remove myself from the situation while making it absolutely clear that I'm not engaging in any conversation after this moment and I mean that.
 

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It just means she needs healing, be the kind of man that can provide a safe space for her to do that #healingin2024
 

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You calmly explain what they did, explain why you felt disrespected and reaffirm that you will not tolerate that again.
This, but I add an additional note reminding her of all the disrespectful family members that I've been unavailable to for years and how I have no qualms about putting her in that camp.
 
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