Chick Explains How Her Choice In Men Are Trash
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Duh....but seriously, Black folk talk way to much about relationships on social media
Piff Perkins
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White people talk about it as much as we do. Same with Hispanics. It’s a universal topic, not some topic black people are singularly obsessed with. Only difference is your media bubble is dominated by black shyt. If you were white you’d be seeing the same stuff, from white people.
Well yeah. If men and women are willing to do some sort of self reflection regarding continuously dating trash people, they'll find out the issue lies within themselves. Can't keep dating trash people if you're not accepting them into your life
Elim Garak
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Very true this is not just a female issue men are making poor choices living in the moment not thinking about 5-10 years down the line.Well yeah. If men and women are willing to do some sort of self reflection regarding continuously dating trash people, they'll find out the issue lies within themselves. Can't keep dating trash people if you're not accepting them into your life
Exactly. I remember someone made a thread on here about how every women he's dated was trash. When I said that's a reflection on you not them, he got defensive and said I was doing the blaming men thing, women are never wrong blah blah blah. I had to break it down how he clearly had a pattern of accepting trash women into his life and how he needed to figure out why that was then stop the cycle.
Come to find out the woman who inspired the thread kept lying to him, ignoring him but he kept dismissing it and kept extending himself to a woman he knew wasn't feeling him. Once he admitted she was using him he got exactly what I was saying and understood this wasn't all on her. He was accepting her bs and allowing it to happen
naw, I follow plenty of whites and latinos...they arent talking about relationships 24/7...
Browni3_Kri5
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I imagine all the comments are like "We?" "WHO IS WE?!". Thats the first thing I thought of when I read it.
DropTopDoc
Smokin my Opps like Patrick Mahomes pops
Accountability, it bothers people on both sides men and women, also admittance that we have been indoctrinated with we can do better/the grass is greener
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Treblemaka
President, BYNKRadio.com (Retired)
Let the record show I bolded that in my original post. I'm just highlighting, it takes two to tango.