Chick just dropped some crazy news on me

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Bro, there is no need to rationalize here. Its one thing to have something like chlamydia or HPV (one of which is treatable, the other of which 70% of the sexually active population of the world has.) But Herpes is not only a life long disease its a PAINFUL disease, and places your future children at risk as well.

This woman I salute for being honest with you, and there is nothing wrong with keeping in touch. But you can't jeopardize your future and your potential children's future for a woman who you may or may not be with down the road. You wouldn't look like a bad guy for being forward and saying "You are an awesome person, but I cannot risk my health for anyone."

An i'm with @Emperor_ReinScarf on this one. You can't let your heart or your dikk end up fukking you over in the end. Herpes WILL fukk your life up, horribly.
So if they were to announce a cure for the herp today, would you change your opinion? I'm not trying to rationalize anything. It's just that I'm not going to automatically stiff arm a good woman because she has a disease that has no cure. Maybe I'm just one of these rare people that see goodness when the majority doesnt. If a woman gives birth that has any of those diseases that you listed, it could cause complications in the child. There is no right or wrong answer here.
 

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So if they were to announce a cure for the herp today, would you change your opinion? I'm not trying to rationalize anything. It's just that I'm not going to automatically stiff arm a good woman because she has a disease that has no cure. Maybe I'm just one of these rare people that see goodness when the majority doesnt. If a woman gives birth that has any of those diseases that you listed, it could cause complications in the child. There is no right or wrong answer here.
If you're willing to risk your health then I don't see why you're still posting in this thread. The general consensus has already been established yet you're still rationalizing to the contrary.
 

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So if they were to announce a cure for the herp today, would you change your opinion? I'm not trying to rationalize anything. It's just that I'm not going to automatically stiff arm a good woman because she has a disease that has no cure. Maybe I'm just one of these rare people that see goodness when the majority doesnt. If a woman gives birth that has any of those diseases that you listed, it could cause complications in the child. There is no right or wrong answer here.

please tell us how she is good?

All i remember you saying is she looks good
 

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So if they were to announce a cure for the herp today, would you change your opinion? I'm not trying to rationalize anything. It's just that I'm not going to automatically stiff arm a good woman because she has a disease that has no cure. Maybe I'm just one of these rare people that see goodness when the majority doesnt. If a woman gives birth that has any of those diseases that you listed, it could cause complications in the child. There is no right or wrong answer here.

1. They won't announce a cure, get your head out of the fukking clouds.
2. Its not a stiff arm, i didn't tell you to fukking skip town and never talk to her again. :what:

3. Its not a matter of seeing goodness, you sound like one of those self-destructive cats. You'd wife this girl up and get this sickness just so OTHERS could say "OOOH look at what a selfless guy @TV is!" That's bullshyt. And its selfish.

4. You can risk your health if you want too, and don't even put those two diseases in the same GALAXY as Herpes. Chlamydia can be cured by taking simple anti-biotics in a fukking DAY. And HPV can stay in your body for YEARS and not do a fukking thing to you...in fact in most cases it doesn't do a damn thing besides increase chances of cancer. So again you are trying to rationalize becoming a health risk to yourself, others and your future children and you want nikkas to cosign that...I'm call you a simp and leave it at that. shyt is fukking pathetic if you so wrapped up in her you'd risk what most people consider one of the most terrible diseases on the fukking planet.

This is the most illogical shyt I have seen on the the coli in months. :mindblown:
 

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1. They won't announce a cure, get your head out of the fukking clouds.
2. Its not a stiff arm, i didn't tell you to fukking skip town and never talk to her again. :what:

3. Its not a matter of seeing goodness, you sound like one of those self-destructive cats. You'd wife this girl up and get this sickness just so OTHERS could say "OOOH look at what a selfless guy @TV is!" That's bullshyt. And its selfish.

4. You can risk your health if you want too, and don't even put those two diseases in the same GALAXY as Herpes. Chlamydia can be cured by taking simple anti-biotics in a fukking DAY. And HPV can stay in your body for YEARS and not do a fukking thing to you...in fact in most cases it doesn't do a damn thing besides increase chances of cancer. So again you are trying to rationalize becoming a health risk to yourself, others and your future children and you want nikkas to cosign that...I'm call you a simp and leave it at that. shyt is fukking pathetic if you so wrapped up in her you'd risk what most people consider one of the most terrible diseases on the fukking planet.

This is the most illogical shyt I have seen on the the coli in months. :mindblown:

hes in a fog, its like a man posting i caught my girlfriend cheating on me I love her, she's still texting the other guy but I love her what do I do?

dump her

but she's a great girl man, heart of gold man, shes the greatest girl you just don't know her like I do

dump her

you hate women, dont you believe people deserve a second chance
 

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1. They won't announce a cure, get your head out of the fukking clouds.
2. Its not a stiff arm, i didn't tell you to fukking skip town and never talk to her again. :what:

3. Its not a matter of seeing goodness, you sound like one of those self-destructive cats. You'd wife this girl up and get this sickness just so OTHERS could say "OOOH look at what a selfless guy @TV is!" That's bullshyt. And its selfish.

4. You can risk your health if you want too, and don't even put those two diseases in the same GALAXY as Herpes. Chlamydia can be cured by taking simple anti-biotics in a fukking DAY. And HPV can stay in your body for YEARS and not do a fukking thing to you...in fact in most cases it doesn't do a damn thing besides increase chances of cancer. So again you are trying to rationalize becoming a health risk to yourself, others and your future children and you want nikkas to cosign that...I'm call you a simp and leave it at that. shyt is fukking pathetic if you so wrapped up in her you'd risk what most people consider one of the most terrible diseases on the fukking planet.

This is the most illogical shyt I have seen on the the coli in months. :mindblown:
You didn't answer my question. Furthermore, I'm not waiting on a cure. I'm just saying that I'm open to consider a relationship with a woman that I've known for awhile that has this and I wanted to know if other people were blindsided before by someone telling them this same news. I don't know if you've read this whole thread but a lot of guys were basically saying to stiff arm her and keep it moving, no matter the circumstances. I wasn't saying you suggested that.
 

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You didn't answer my question. Furthermore, I'm not waiting on a cure. I'm just saying that I'm open to consider a relationship with a woman that I've known for awhile that has this and I wanted to know if other people were blindsided before by someone telling them this same news. I don't know if you've read this whole thread but a lot of guys were basically saying to stiff arm her and keep it moving, no matter the circumstances. I wasn't saying you suggested that.

To answer said question. No, my stance is the same. My health as it pertains to sex is paramount. I HAVE been in this type of situation and I fell back...WHY?
Because my life will not be drastically different without this person and more than that, i'll be healthy. And a severe std IS the circumstances, and you SHOULD keep it moving. You'd really jeopardize your health over some emotions?

You are in the same boat then as the silly ass women who think getting knocked up will help them keep a man.
 

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To answer said question. No, my stance is the same. My health as it pertains to sex is paramount. I HAVE been in this type of situation and I fell back...WHY?
Because my life will not be drastically different without this person and more than that, i'll be healthy. And a severe std IS the circumstances, and you SHOULD keep it moving. You'd really jeopardize your health over some emotions?

You are in the same boat then as the silly ass women who think getting knocked up will help them keep a man.
You're off base by saying this because you're trying to generalize me. If there was a cure, you know damn well your opinion would change. I never said I was going to have sex with her or not. I didn't even say if I was going to be in a committed relationship with her. People tend to read and respond in haste on here.
 

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You're off base by saying this because you're trying to generalize me. If there was a cure, you know damn well your opinion would change. I never said I was going to have sex with her or not. I didn't even say if I was going to be in a committed relationship with her. People tend to read and respond in haste on here.

You are the one that posted all that pseudo-benevolent BS about not stiff arming a woman with a disease and all this other shyt. You are also immature for assuming that you can even DATE with out (on average) sexual encounters becoming more likely. And not once did I say anything about a stiff arm, but everytime I posted I, you came with some retort to the effect of "I don't want to write her off because of this disease". Which is NOT what I was saying.

I called you a fukking sucker because you don't wanna lose something with this chick.
 
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You didn't answer my question. Furthermore, I'm not waiting on a cure. I'm just saying that I'm open to consider a relationship with a woman that I've known for awhile that has this and I wanted to know if other people were blindsided before by someone telling them this same news. I don't know if you've read this whole thread but a lot of guys were basically saying to stiff arm her and keep it moving, no matter the circumstances. I wasn't saying you suggested that.

People here are lookin out 4 you. There's a lot of trolling, bullshyt, and ignorant idiots on this site. But there are some good people, and people who will give you the real.

We not hating on you, we just don't want to see you fukked up. If you think she's a good person, good friend. Leave it at that. As much as you want to be a good person. We see you dawg, u got a good heart we giving you ya dues. But we can't sugar coat the situation. She got herpes dawg, HERPES. You can't raw dawg it, you can't creampie it. You want to get deep in a game with restrictions. This is a game that will hurt you. Your willing to give your life to this chick in just a few dates, your clearly not thinking. You want to be her prince charming go ahead. But after you done put time in, dedicated yourself to her and shyt don't end up working out. YOU THE ONE WHO GON BE fukkED UP. You gon be running around with herpes and no bytch in her right mind gon wanna deal with you. She's gonna be good, cuz guys will fukk with anything. Take yourself as an example.

You ain't gotta stop being friends with her and hanging out with her. But you gotta get through ya head that friendship is where it ends. If you already got this connection with her think of all the game you can pick up from her. she can help your game. WHen you trynna get with a chick, she gon be the girl you can run to and ask for advice. Ain't nothing iller than having a bytch give u the game on how to treat and get more bytches Or better bytches. Instead of coming to the coli asking how to get at this chick u feelin, a site full of nikkaz who prolly don't know shyt lol. U gon have her.

Other than finding yourself a potential GURU, I just don't see how she can be good for you. You gotta start thinking man, you don't gotta be dumb to be good hearted.

Either ask the bytch to marry you tommorow since u think she so special, or keep it pushing my nikka.
 

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yep...bout time you make that exit breh. It's nikkas out there with the herp too so she won't be alone.
 

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One of the girls that I've been on a few dates with told me she has the herp. She said she got it from her child's father 6 years ago. I'm shocked right now because this chick is damn near what I've been looking for. I haven't slept with her.

Has anyone here been blindsided by something like this before?

Nah but I'm blindsided that you got an avatar of Spartacus! I ain't seen that cartoon in a minute. Here's a rep.

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As for the herp sympathize with her and then don't worry about it. One of my co-workers has HIV. That's real drama. One of the coolest people in the world, and they got real issues. Worrying about other shyt pales compared to dealing with HIV. The herp is the common cold compared to HIV. See all those little kids with fever blisters?
 
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