Chick just text me asking for $3800

[Mike Nasty]

The longer you wait, the more they sense you do have it and you're deliberating whether you want to want to give it to them.

That seems like an obvious response. You were never going to give it to her, so tell her and let her feel however and then back away.

 

[Silver Surfer]

The problem is that she had the audacity to ask you and yall work together

Your gonna have to switch up your whole energy

Exactly...it legit was a good situation which is why I even made the thread.

It would be one thing if I met her at the strip club...and the nature of our interaction was always about money

Now it nothing

 

[MoveForward]

Tell people RIGHT AWAY you don't have it.

The longer you wait, the more they sense you do have it and you're deliberating whether you want to want to give it to them.

Yep... As I have gotten older though, I learned the value of just saying no...

 

[god shamgod]

You bought her a gift the first day you met?

have terrible reading comprehension brehs, this is not what was said

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Sure it is...even if I said all that..I cant even deal with her no more.....the fact she asked for it put her in the category

Well what does she want to money for? That's important. Are y'all fukking?

If you was talking to her just to fukk, you gotta set the expectations early.

I run into these issues as well from time to time. I chop them up as a cost of doing business, but I also make it known early, so they will feel uncomfortable even asking me for money.

 

[Silver Surfer]

have terrible reading comprehension brehs, this is not what was said

Right...

 

[Mike Nasty]

Are y'all fukking?

 

[blockburna420]

I bet she said she'll pay you back when she get her taxes

 

[Silver Surfer]

Well what does she want to money for? That's important. Are y'all fukking?

If you was talking to her just to fukk, you gotta set the expectations early.

I run into these issues as well from time to time. I chop them up as a cost of doing business, but I also make it known early, so they will feel uncomfortable even asking me for money.

I asked what the money was for...she said "does it matter or do you want to know"

I cut off all communication at that point
Yeah..been smashing since last fall

 

[TripleAgent]

I'd PayPal her 38 cents, then bush her goofy ass.

 

[Pimpdaddy]

I'd PayPal her 38 cents, then bush her goofy ass.

you could buy yourself 2 hours with @śïñe•qúå_nøn momma with that money instead

 

[Silver Surfer]

I'd PayPal her 38 cents, then bush her goofy ass.

 

[Kane1]

Just when things were getting good.....

Why did she overplay her hand?

She sees that SIMP in you




Change your life breh

 

[Booker T Garvey]

Just reach between your sofa cushions and get it...

wait, you DO have at least 3800 in your cushions right?

 

[CinnaSlim]

Just tell her you don't have it

Even if you make over 100k, tell her your reserves are tied up in stock, or CD's.

Tell her your debt to income ratio is shakey

Tell her you got hella student loans fo pay off.

It's not that serious.

This. Just cuz you got money. Doesnt mean it's liquid. Or tell her you got so much money because you dont spend it on liabilities.

I dont give people money over $20. I rather get them whatever they need the money for then give them the money.