First of all, people in long-term relationships and marriages generally stop having sex after a while, so your hypothetical is totally irrelevant. You're not having sex with anyone 3 times a week for 10 years. You just aren't.
Second of all, the whole point of marriage is to channel your potentially destructive sexual energy into an institution which produces something beneficial to society - kids. It also keeps you from fukking other men's women, which will lead to violence. So yes, you can fukk your wife or long-term partner however long, because marriage exists in contemplation of how dangerous extramarital sex can be. If that's too restrictive for you, then whatever. Do you. But don't act all indignant when people give you a weird vibe for raw-dogging randos.
first off... i'm asking you
not everyone slows down the sex... i personally know married couples still fukking like rabbits in their 40s and 50s... keep it spicy and dress up and travel and stay in shape and fit... not every marriage is a fall off... yes a steady and sure 3 times every week isn't gonna happen... periods alone will stop that...
but lets say a guy sleeps with 20 women... a married guy fukks his wife 30 times... who's the sex addict?
you throwing all that extra shyt into marriage... what if it's a girlfriend? what if you single but you just got the same fukk buddy you smash a few times a week?
my point is YOUR statement on addicts... a drug addict is a drug addict... ain't no rules and well if he has a job then......... nah if you NEED to do drugs to get by, you're an addict
a piece of paper doesn't change whether or not you're addicting to sex. that was my point.. being with one person doesn't prove you're NOT addicted to it and doing the same harm. there's plenty of married people who have ruined relationships because of their high demand of sex from their wives/husbands
why idd i say it's societies bullshyt?? because if you go to africa, you're supposed to have MANY wives... so are they immoral? are they addicts? what's the difference? what is that woman to him before they get married, but he already has 4 other wives? a sidechick, a swinger, a new fukk buddy?
you take Christianities view of marriage and apply it blindly to the whole world and call it fact