Child Support card that can only be spent on the child; Women are against it

[NotAnFBIagent]

So yall dont think child support money should be spent on rent and other bills...is that not part of raising a child...do yall understand the purpose of child support is to ease the financial difficulties of a single parent household not just buy the kid clothes and shoes

 

[Yup]

Let's look at what you said:



And the facts don't bear that out at all. Now, if you're saying that it's an issue with men of all races in general that don't live up to a standard you deem acceptable, that's one thing, but that's not what you said. In fact, it took 2 minutes to find the information need to show even the standard set out by the CDC says we do it better than everyone else, so you still gotta hold that L, or you can be a typical black woman and not admit when you really tried to play black men like we're the worst things walking.

I'm more offended that you couldn't do the 2 minutes of googling to at least try to find some facts for your bullshyt assertion before you painted all black men as trash, because we aren't even worth 2 minutes to you. Now you can't fall back and admit you fukked up, so you're going to dig into your position even deeper instead of retracting your statement.

Bugatti you are smarter than this. Do you bring up the baby mama issues of whites/hispanics whenever black women are discussed? The topic is black kids and black kids are more susceptible to poverty and single parent households than any other race. That's not opinion, it's fact.

 

[Yup]

So yall dont think child support money should be spent on rent and other bills...is that not part of raising a child...do yall understand the purpose of child support is to ease the financial difficulties of a single parent household not just buy the kid clothes and shoes

The men make valid points but their vindictiveness blind them from the reality of what it takes to raise a child.

 

[el_oh_el]

The men make valid points but their vindictiveness blind them from the reality of what it takes to raise a child.

I believe there is vindictiveness on both sides. Both sides have a point. shyts frusterating cause nothing gets done.
And growing up I have seen so many dead beat black fathers it's not even funny. Anecdotal evidence at best thought

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

Yea and they pale in comparison to the majority of men who want their time for themselves and have the mother have them most of the time.

conjecture based on your negative perception of black men

you have no way of quantifying that ma'am

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I'm against women using child support money to buy new weaves, Michael Koors bags, and MAC makeup

 

[King Jae]

Most of them, yes. I just chose to ignore the signs.

However, that doesn't really matter, because I was never impregnated by them. So I don't have an 'ain't shyt baby daddy'. (I don't have a baby daddy period)

A few still slipped thru the cracks tho right? You said most not all meaning a couple still slid past your defenses....Same thing happened to him...Condoms go out the window in committed relationships... Everyone knows this...you might be the exception but not the rule...love complicates things as well..she still loves him and is doing it out of spite....

 

[Taadow]

If you are honest with yourself you are not representative of a large segment of the demographic we talk about.

...aaaand boom goes the dynamite.

This is always the bedrock of these male/female issue threads:

"This isn't the norm"
"that situation isn't the majority"

Fucc that. The fact is, once these "outlier" situations occur, you have to deal with them.
It would be nice if the system(s) could be rectified so such situations could be decimated, but nah.



"How you think that the system's gonna help you?/
The ghetto's where it put you, the ghetto's where it kept you..."

 

[Yup]

...aaaand boom goes the dynamite.

This is always the bedrock of these male/female issue threads:

"This isn't the norm"
"that situation isn't the majority"

Fucc that. The fact is, once these "outlier" situations occur, you have to deal with them.
It would be nice if the system(s) could be rectified so such situations could be decimated, but nah.



"How you think that the system's gonna help you?/
The ghetto's where it put you, the ghetto's where it kept you..."

That's not how the world works. Everything works on what serves the majority and not a minority. Never claimed that outliers shouldn't be addressed....obviously i agree that tweaks to be made. But the system serves the majority not the minority.

 

[Taadow]

That's not how the world works. Everything works on what serves the majority and not a minority. Never claimed that outliers shouldn't be addressed....obviously i agree that tweaks to be made. But the system serves the majority not the minority.

I know, I just said that.

 

[LadySimone]

What kinda c00n ass logic is this? Once you get a degree or reach a certain income your vocabulary is supposed to change? All women are dope and never make mistakes?

Yea actually. Why you trying to keep it real? Grow up.

 

[Yup]

I'm against women using child support money to buy new weaves, Michael Koors bags, and MAC makeup

Any sane person would be. The question is...how many women are actually doing this? And if many are what tweaks need to be made to the system to benefit the child.

 

[LadySimone]

I ain't neva scared. Moved to Paris on my own before I knew french so I'm sure I'll be fine

So do you live in the UK or are you just visiting? My dad used to live in London

I live here for now. I need to go to Paris. How old are you?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

i guess it takes one person to make a baby...

Nope, but only one gets pregnant....

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

My full quote, because that's exactly what I said....and since you conveniently left that out ...see highlighted green below for ease of reference:

.Like....do I live in alternate universe or do we not all see the absenteeism and bare minimum fathering is an issue in the black community???? at ALL socio-economic levels and I don't know many white people IRL but perhaps their or other races as well




You can hold this L I don't even know if you know what you're arguing about anymore...and try to curse me out again and see if that ends well for you......

The fact that once again, you couldn't even do the bare minimum of research before putting black men down is the point. You didn't do that, and you were wrong for it. The fact that you can't admit you're wrong is why you keep ending up dating fukkboys in the first place.

You have no PMs to expose, you can't touch me. Save the tough talk for the simps in your PMs darling.