going to family court is like being forced to take off the rose colored glasses that you have been wearing for the length of your relationship. you get a good long stare at who you are really dealing with. how he/she acts towards you when everything is good is not who they really are. they way they act when all is in the shytter is who they REALLY are. if they are able to totally shyt on someone who they claimed to love, then i'd question the authenticity of the love throughout the relationship. it's fukked up how courts let women use them to get revenge. if that power was taken away from women today, you'd see an immediate shift in the relationships between a childs parents who are no longer together. i guarantee it. but unfortunately, in our lifetime, the courts will continue to give the shaft to anyone with a penis that walks through the door.