[Chirp! Chirp!] Keri Hilson rants about men keeping their options opened whilst dating.

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Most nikkas can't even get that off fr. They lucky If they get 1 joint. The most bad built Jonny bravo shaped bytches is out here with 100k followers a roster plus nikkas shooting shots in real life.so nah.
Right lmaooo who she fooling :pachaha:

Chicks love projecting. Isn’t that what they promote within this city girl society. Shorty to old for this. It’s called dating boo :laff:
 

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Shorty needs to stfu

No amount of “bait” will compare to the number of men she will have hunting for her on road in public, at the gym, at the grocery store, in her DMs etc.

it amazes me when women insinuate that they have it more difficult in dating
Shes actually describing what women do all the time.
 

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1. Limit social media and demonic female friends and family-Womens minds are too easily corrupted by other women,so this is dangerous. If you are going to use social media you should find good female role models who make you feel ashamed to be the womanly defecient woman you might be if you are over 28 and haven't already been snatched up and taken off the market.Stay away from your female circles of bitterness you've created over the years if you can't remain a constant positive influence.

2. Be humble but friendly in the pressence of men- Ho's are great at taking the pressure off of men socially,they are great flirts,let interest be known. You have to be able to do this in a righteous less sexual version.


3. Carry yourself/Dress for how you want to be seen- No a woman can't wear what she wants,and feel free to talk about they pussies in open spaces and not be seen as ho's,its just not possible.


4. Curb your eagerness- You have to force men to put effort in long distance for a long period. Meaning early contact should only be done by text and calls. When he starts saying "When can I see you:mjgrin:" ,you have to let it be known you are a righteous women who needs to see effort and that he is a righteous man first.


5. Take him to church-First date should be him taking you to church,this gives you the chance to observe if he is respectful of god and your beliefs,which shows a humble man. Observe his reaction to the pastors words,does he appear hot:whew:? Does he appear to find this comical:mjgrin:?Is he sincerely moved:mjcry:?



6. Find out his intentions-At this time you need to make him aware that you seek to be married or at least righteously attached. You need to see his feelings on commitment and find out his history

7.Swap social medias-See if he is a vain man,flashing money and red bottoms?high angle selfies?See what he is really thinking and saying to the friends and family he cares about. Leave room for sattire,but look for a pattern of nonsense,lack of knowledge,lack of care.

8. Boost your sex skills-You should have been studying your whole life,but if you haven't had men stalking you,never been proposed to,never been begged to come back your sex game probably isn't that good. Study sites where men talk about what they like if it isn't already obvious by now. Focus on the head game,that is what will seperate you from the next woman.

9. Ultimatum-You've probably had sex by now,hopefully not within the first 30-45 days. At this point you have to let it be known you are seeking a commitment and he needs to leave his other women he's been entertaining alone. You also need to put a time frame for him showing different signs of commitment, by 6 months you should be making arrangements and discussing living together. If he cuts you off for suggesting that he leaves his ho's,you need to go back and work on step 8:francis:

10. Use your discernment-At this point you are in a relationship,you should act on your intuition and use whatever techniques neccessary to find out the truth. You should trust your gut only depending on your track record of accuracy.


Follow these steps and you will live a happy life with a righteous black man.
This is only advice for black men,not advice to help you find your Zack and Cody:martin:


Number 9 was a very important key,you have to pressure men to move towards commitment if you are a woman. You cant help what he does behind your back. But you cant allow men to play it casual or you will not be taken seriously. Youve already gave the impression i can do what I want,while still having my way with you. Not to take all the credit,but coli women had a marriage increase of 90% once I gave them the wisdom:respect:
 

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She’s in her feelings because she hasn’t been chosen. She’s a gorgeous woman, but comes off scorned as hell here.

Women have it much easier than men in dating. All a woman has to do is look marginally good and be seen and you’ll have men from everywhere handing her validation.

A man even a more attractive man (pause) still has to talk, have personality, and not be weird. Even after that at times it’s still a long shot if the woman wants to give him some play.

Keri Hilson is just upset she’s a 40 year old that’s getting to that age where it’s danger zone and she might be relegated to being someone’s option or settling for something she doesn’t really want. Cold world but again she’s a gorgeous woman.
 
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1. You get what you earn.
2. "Deserve" ain't got anything to do with anything.
3. All the pretty in the world won't make you chosen if you're an idiot, unpleasant to be around, or cannot turn off the babble. You'll forever just be another pretty option.



Who cannot hear must feel.
 

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Number 9 was a very important key,you have to pressure men to move towards commitment if you are a woman. You cant help what he does behind your back. But you cant allow men to play it casual or you will not be taken seriously. Youve already gave the impression i can do what I want,while still having my way with you. Not to take all the credit,but coli women had a marriage increase of 90% once I gave them the wisdom:respect:
I think that's definitely where alot of women mess up at. They let a brehs hang around for too long without any serious commitment or ultimatum he's going to just ride it out. Especially if he's getting sex too. if y'all go past 6 mos without commitment you're already set up to fail. But a lot of people are just afraid of being alone so they won't stand on their boundaries
 
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