[Chirp! Chirp!] Keri Hilson rants about men keeping their options opened whilst dating.

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you gotta be a bird lol why would a a successful man want to be associated to a thot that runs to social media every time she needs to ran.

Actual successful men want discretion. Anything else is a ONS.
I mean, it’s simple math: a plethora of women turn 18 every single day. There’s never a scarcity of single young women driving competition.

However, single, successful men are in demand. Now add in tall, attractive, millionaire and the pool gets even smaller. Now add ‘black’ to that equation and they’re like gold dust.

Women just have to be realistic. Their window is like an NBA player’s career. They better make the most out of their playing time. If they retire broke, then that’s their fault.

If you get to 40 and you’re lamenting being unmarried and childless, then that’s on you. You’ve been given all the tools to catch a top tier man: attractive, status etc. You’ve had a15-20 year window. Access to the kind of men few women get.

At some point, you have to look in the mirror because your options at 40 are much smaller compared to 30. If no man you’ve dated during that period considered you wifeable then….
 

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“Know who you are. Umm, never drop your standards, for anyone. Thats it. And I mean that in every since of the relationship. Business, you know whatever, if there’s a certain standard that you uphold, and you’re so strong-minded. There are some things that you [can] tweak in a relationship, but not your standard. Not that.”

Thats not a new quote…its from her break up with Ibaka in 2014. So guess she’s kept her standard, she showed them :francis:


Black women been indoctrinated to ‘never settle’. Meanwhile the rest of the world’s adults are trying to ‘settle down’


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:yeshrug: if she like it then she should of put a ring on it. women want us to be down and destitute, constantly being drip fed and waiting on their every move. the idea that they could be as replaceable as we are is frightening. smh
 

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Nah that’s bae but she wrong. You supposed to keep options open while you dating.
But Everyone doesn't believe in sleeping with multiple ppl at one time :manny:

And if you're not sleeping with multiple ppl but the pppl you're dating are sleeping with multiple other ppl while dating you, then wtf is really going on?
 

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I think that's definitely where alot of women mess up at. They let a brehs hang around for too long without any serious commitment or ultimatum he's going to just ride it out. Especially if he's getting sex too. if y'all go past 6 mos without commitment you're already set up to fail. But a lot of people are just afraid of being alone so they won't stand on their boundaries
The truth is that if a woman is high quality then brehs don’t need to be pressured into commitment. He gonna be seeking it
 

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She’s too beautiful to be single & bitter.

I’m guessing she’s batshyt crazy beneath her looks.
Unstable

Boring

Lack of ambition

Hard to be around/Surly

Unclean

Sex is wack

Financially irresponsible

Clout demon

If a beautiful woman can’t find a man to commit then at least one of the above is an issue.
 

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Ask any black woman and they will swear their sex game is the best and they have that WAP.

Why can’t you keep a man then? :mjlol:

Also what happened to all the birds chirping when Keke’s boyfriend was mad at her for advertising her ass on live tv and cupcaking with Usher? One of their main points was that

“They are not married so she can do what she wants da fukk” :mjtf:


So… if your not married then there are NO RULES. All is fair in love and war :ehh:

A lot of these bítches are delusional and in their heads they think they look like Vanity mixed with Apollonia with the Heather Hunter type sex game — and that just ain’t it.

The box is likely wack and while dudes will hit, the post nut clarity catapult is the first thing on their minds after the smash. We’ve ALL been there knowing damn well we just aren’t into that female.

We realize there’s variety and a quality chick — if we have our shyt together — is the ideal endgame. But it doesn’t always wind up like that.

Keri is still fine at 41 but her tweets alone show that she’s schlepping her baggage EVERYWHERE, throwing subliminals at lord knows who and not taking accountability for the fact that’s she’s might not be cuffable long term. And prolly is ignoring the brehs within her reach because she wants a dude with insane $ along with clout and no wandering eye.

Well guess what, not too many of those brehs exist.

Add that to the fact that her career is in the shítter and folks ain’t checking for her music even tho she could have a Tamia, Chante Moore or Keke Wyatt type career with a core fanbase — because she can’t compete with these young hoes who are doing thot R&B
 
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