Choosing bums as life partners

[Sad Bunny]

That's my old neighborhood

I went to high school with him. He's a rapper too.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Breh a shorty I used to be close with let a nikka live with her, pay no bills, didn’t help with rent, always used her car, ate her food, DIDNT even try to get a job.

but he stayed in the streets smoking and doing bullshyt and she’d have to pick that nikka up from different spots all the time


I told shorty to at least demand he get a job and she was like “no”


She’s married to my homeboy now but she was stupid as fukk a couple years ago

You let your homeboy take that L

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

Apparently there is no middle ground if something like IT or Game Developers are geeks 99% of the time.

I personally know engineers who still live somewhat fast/exciting lives but they’re still safe and have their lives in order


Obviously they had to chill out on the antics and foolishness. I think people fukk up by thinking everybody in those “lame” or geeky careers are lames by default. The majority might be yes, but there are outliers dawg.

 

[Sad Bunny]

He a cool dude. He works a regular job and shyt.

He wasn't deep in the streets back in school.



@BrothaZay

 

[Dabrothawithnoname]

Part of the reason some women choose bums is control.
If she provides for all of his needs, no matter what bullshyt happens, he's going to have to come to her for shelter, food, transpo, walking around money, etc.
Better a toxic man than no man.

An upstanding dude would require her to step her game up as well.
Water seeks it's own level.
Watching bootleg DVD's, eating a chopped cheese on the couch while smoking with D'Yontrelvis is probably her idea of the perfect romantic evening.

D'Yontrelvis


You ain't lying.

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

You let your homeboy take that L

He loves her

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

She a bum herself

That's why she using that situation for social media attention

 

[Wink Beaufield]

White women love bums, too.
White folks keep their low class people hidden from view, though.
We wear our dysfunction as a badge of honor and hang the dirtiest of our laundry in plain view for all to see (thus ol girl taping and posting this video).
Now, Asians don't play that shyt.
White girls from middle class homes and up, peep the game. They'll wild out until their mid-late 20's, bury the bodies, then go lock down that meal ticket square ass goofy making six figures.
Sisters pin their hopes on the slim chance that they'll get saved by a rapper or athlete while they're out being wild.
Mostly, they just get smutted out or STDs. Pregnancy is their best chance at the come up.

Bruh, they are masterminds of that shyt. Asian joints do the same shyt too. A lot of these 28+ year old dudes gonna be on that shyt when they find their wife getting dug out on the tube sites later on down the line.

 

[FeverPitch2]

She a bum herself

That's why she using that situation for social media attention

You are correct, sir.

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

Go home and be a family man manifested in living color

 

[pete clemenza]

You conjuring all kinda shyt about this mans life and character from a 30 sec clip with no real context

some of you dudes are miserable

If I go shop and see some of my people we probably gonna talk or run two joke or something like that.

its not that serious, maybe that’s why he wasn’t taking her seriously

Co-sign.. I couldn't make out the entire "bum syndrome" in that one post. That clip didn't even say if he OR SHE was unemployed or not. He could've walked up to the store, saw his boys, and simply chopped it up with them for a quick minute before heading back to the house. Maybe he just got off work, about to go to work, or had the day off. How do we fill in an entire narrative and back story off that video?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This happens for the following reasons: women listening to dumb shyt society tells them and/or she a bum too.

Women who date bums allow to many people in their ear. We always hear that we should give dudes a chance or look past just money and some women start feeling sorry for these dudes. Which is stupid. Also a lotta women have a harder time elevating beyond their social circle when they become successful. They don’t wanna seem stuck up or like they are moving differently. But they aren’t doing themselves any favors. Being equally yoked is a movement.

 

[ZEupTWN]

arguing is probably her favorite passtime.

some of these chicks find stable/square dudes to be too structured and demanding of them to "grow up"....aka boring.

I use to work and live around a lot of these type of chicks even messed around with a few , and truth be told some of them are what would appear to be solid down to earth women with good intentions and have all the ideals about relationships that everyone else has....Its all inherit tho thats all they've known growing up in that environment...they only know how to deal with one type of man in one type of way....It would literally be a mind fukk for them to deal with a man outside of that reality esp with REAL world options...you even see the ones who properly level up who are scared to leave that comfort zone....Its all stems from the fear of being left behind, thats why they want the control factor...

 

[invalid]

Square dudes are lame and boring. Not standing up for the bums or the women that get with bums, but them square dudes need to get some testosterone.

mental illness.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

idle hands are the devils playground

you can hang with ya brehs in the privacy of your crib or yard, i know that don't guarantee safety but it's less likely to be an issue plus you might have actual things to do. plays card whatever.