Formerly Black Trash
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Choosing bums as life partners
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Speaking Womanese
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They’ve got 3 kids 
She said in the comments it was her duty as a wife to remove her husband from a situation that could’ve went left.
She said in the comments it was her duty as a wife to remove her husband from a situation that could’ve went left.
Nope. That’s a narrative internet men project onto dudes who get chicks to explain away why they can get em but others who are gainfully employed are alone. The irony is that worrying about chicks who date bums is part of the problem.That is not whymajority of the time the bum is exciting
Because most women don’t.The only people excited by bums are bums themselves. Or chicks bamboozled into feeling sorry for men instead of vetting them. And the latter group usually had rough upbringing or major trauma that makes these them more amenable to these types b/c they trapped in their trauma and might not feel comfortable with other types.
But the Average normal female ain’t checking for bums. Quite the opposite actually…and sometimes even bum chicks ain’t checking for em either if they can do better.
Speaking Womanese
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Those women are control freaks.
They like men beneath them because they’re less likely to call them out on their shyt.
Ezekiel 25:17
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Actually, you did that. Let’s take a look at your original post:
Insinuating that any body who isn’t a bum is a “square.”
Breh you might be the dumbest motherfukker on this forum and that’s really really hard to do. Double digit IQ territory
Let me refute what I said because I did confuse the two terms
I meant nice guy lames. Swagless Simps.If you either of those
I don't know why you getting mad at me. The truth is the truth. It ain’t a black woman thing either. In every scenario a woman is walking past the nice guy simp.
FeverPitch2
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You're just being dishonest at this point.Nope. That’s a narrative internet men project onto dudes who get chicks to explain away why they can get em but others who are gainfully employed are alone. The irony is that worrying about chicks who date bums is part of the problem.
The only people excited by bums are bums themselves. Or chicks bamboozled into feeling sorry for men instead of vetting them. And the latter group usually had rough upbringing or major trauma that makes these them more amenable to these types b/c they trapped in their trauma and might not feel comfortable with other types.
But the Average normal female ain’t checking for bums. Quite the opposite actually…and sometimes even bum chicks ain’t checking for em either if they can do better.
Any guy that gets chose these days becomes a thug, bum, player, bad boy to dudes who ain’t getting chose.They look good and have fantastic dikk
That's enough
The projection is blinding. And so are the cop outs. Stop worrying about bum women who like bums and make moves with women who don’t b/c there are PLENTY out there who don’t deal with em.
Also stop stereotyping every guy who gets buns as a negative caricature of manhood just b/c he is boo’ed up.
It’s not the big conspiracy some wanna make it out to be.
No I’m trying to be real and give ya’ll some insight into—forget it.
Ya’ll got it. Peace.
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All I'm saying is you don't have to be a bum, thug, or convict to get women.
These dudes mad at me for no reason. If anything I cleared it up for them. I'm far from a bum or thuggish and had women choosing me. If you not getting chose you either a nice guy simp or around the wrong women.
Formerly Black Trash
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Nope. That’s a narrative internet men project onto dudes who get chicks to explain away why they can get em but others who are gainfully employed are alone. The irony is that worrying about chicks who date bums is part of the problem.
The only people excited by bums are bums themselves. Or chicks bamboozled into feeling sorry for men instead of vetting them. And the latter group usually had rough upbringing or major trauma that makes these them more amenable to these types b/c they trapped in their trauma and might not feel comfortable with other types.
But the Average normal female ain’t checking for bums. Quite the opposite actually…and sometimes even bum chicks ain’t checking for em either if they can do better.
I didn't say nothing about other nikkas not being able to get him
I didn't say nothing about the average female doing it
Fukking with bums is mostly hood shyt, and women do it because they want to, not because they're told to give nikkas a chance
The only ppl dating bums is bum themselves is also bullshyt.
I've seen it in real life
Same way some nikkas will simp over a woman with a fat ass
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Maybe because she loves him and doesn't want anything to happen to him.
Then again, she posted it on IG, so.....
Then again, she posted it on IG, so.....
i dont have anything to say about the people in the video, just wanted to make a point that hanging outside while bad things can certainly happen, people still hang outside on corners and street blocks from young to old men playing dominos/chess, people selling/hustling and ALL RACES and ETHNICITIES/NATIONALITIES BE OUTSIDE In NYC you got, dominicans. puerto ricans, mexican equadorian etc.. all outside.
I dunno. I just get tired of dudes focusing on the wrong chicks CONSTANTLY. There are gazillions of chicks who ain’t on that shyt but there’s some psychological shyt going down that makes them focus only on chicks who want all these stereotypes. Thugs, players, bums, ballas. In trying to advance this narrative, they end up becoming just like the chicks they complaining about: only worried about females that like bum dudes and thugs.All I'm saying is you don't have to be a bum, thug, or convict to get women.
These dudes mad at me for no reason. If anything I cleared it up for them. I'm far from a bum or thuggish and had women choosing me. If you not getting chose you either a nice guy simp or around the wrong women.
Because a lot of those women are lost in that sauce too.
Lmao!
Formerly Black Trash
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Who's projecting but you?
I didn't say ALL women
But the idea that women are dating bums because society tells them give ne'er do well nikkas a chance is bullshyt
If a woman is fukking with a man, either she's doing it because she wants something from him or she finds him attractive
I'm not talking about no internet shyt, I've seen this shyt In real life, so this rhetoric don't work with me
Nowhere am I saying most hoes ain't shyt, I don't believe most women are dating bums
But you really trying to absolve those few women of accountability
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FeverPitch2
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Who's projecting but you?
I didn't say ALL women
But the idea that women are dating bums because society tells them give ne'er do well nikkas a chance is bullshyt
If a woman is fukking with a man, either she's doing it because she wants something from him or she finds him attractive
I'm not talking about no internet shyt, I've seen this shyt In real life, so this rhetoric don't work with me
Nowhere am I saying most hoes ain't shyt, I don't believe most women are bums
But you really trying to absolve those few women of accountability
Exactly this.