Choosing bums as life partners

[Anerdyblackguy]

The fukk this soft nikka doing on the corner anyway? Nikka take a cert course, go do a coursera class, get a career and go be a family man.


That other nikka with the cup looks to far gone.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I dunno. I just get tired of dudes focusing on the wrong chicks CONSTANTLY. There are gazillions of chicks who ain’t on that shyt but there’s some psychological shyt going down that makes them focus only on chicks who want all these stereotypes. Thugs, players, bums, ballas. In trying to advance this narrative, they end up becoming just like the chicks they complaining about: only worried about females that like bum dudes and thugs.

Because a lot of those women are lost in that sauce too.
Lmao!

The men who don't get sex are the ones that complain the most

 

[feelosofer]

Unfortunately in a lot of Black relationships where the woman is the 'breadwinner' and the man does not have stable employment. It is almost like more of mother/son dynamic than a couple dynamic.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

This shyt is weird as fukk to me. Absent father syndrome. How the fukk are you as a man on the corner like a child? Secondly, how are you going to let your girl do that type of shyt to you? She might as well be that man's mom. You can see in his eyes he's soft as fukk too. Just weird all around. The tragedy of the manchild.

Facts. Can’t imagine just sitting around unproductive. Instead of discussing business ideas nikkas just standing around bullshytting. You hate to see it.

 

[Cat piss martini]

A broad couldnt recommend
the hot sauce brand i put on my chicken.

But I cant even hate on that.
she knows her man is a chump and
his friends aint poppin shyt if he get merc'd.

 

[feelosofer]

Prioritizing “excitement” and “dominance” over stability is exactly why we will forever remain in last place. Every other race drops that dumbass mentality by like 24 at the latest but black folks wanna be kids forever

I agree but a lot of time Black children (boys especially), who are raised in single mother households are asked emotionally and sometimes physically (in terms of chores, work etc) to be surrogate husbands to these women. It's an extremely unhealthy dynamic.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Yet, educated, money making brehs with they own get ignored

 

[duncanthetall]

Why would she post this lol

 

[kaldurahm]

Dude could've been just shooting shyt with some folks but she did the right thing. Only thing I didn't really like was her treating the dude like she was his mother

 

[Thegospel]

Thats a coli poster right there. Weak weak male

 

[FeverPitch2]

Why would she post this lol

Clout.

 

[Rozay Oro]

the shyt ive heard women stay with their men after

Deep down they want that emotional roller coaster and validation from other women.

 

[Tim2520]

back in the day my girl used to stay with her ex after he beat her regularly, called her out her name for the most trivial shyt, wouldn't let her have social media, would have her text him a picture of her location every time she was out, wouldn't let her hang with her fam or friends whenever she wanted to, never had a whip always had them walking far asf some place, and breh was broke asl couldn't get a job ever n had them living in a hotel room .


she didn't leave until he gave her a std cus he was cheating off her phone that she let him use for months when he broke his and was too broke to get another.

She was a dumb 19 year old at the time so

Your way better than me Fam , I couldn’t take a chick like that serious

 

[Duke_Droese]

He lost his pass to that corner now

Bad little kids are going to be treating him like kernard did naymond

 

[Hoodoo Child]

"God is Dope"