Choosing bums as life partners

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I don't get bum vibes from this video necessarily
dude just seems immature and goofy. willing to risk it despite being married and having a family.
Maybe that level of decision making will lead to him being a bum but this could just be a one off type of thing
 

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I’m dead by the comments in this thread. I don’t understand why square and thug are the only two groups bm are lumped in. Like damn, are y’all either geeks or gangsters, and that’s just it? :russ:

Yes. According to thecoli. That is all there is. It is either one or the other and apparently the geeks are so pathetic that they are not deserving of love from a woman.

It is madness I tell you. Madness.
 

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:yeshrug::yeshrug::yeshrug:yall dont know if he a bum, dont know if he a gangsta... your girl always gon downplay ya gangsta
nikka just chilling on the block hanging with his mans, coulda been a sunday afternoon his day off
her getting him off the block is black love, she dont wanna lose her man to senseless gun violence that happens everyday in our communities :wow:
 

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Video seemed like jokes. Looked like the dude was just chopping it up with some of his boys in a hot area so his lady decided to clown him.

You could tell he not out there like that when she ran up on him he started laughing. The dudes he was with wasn't rough looking either. Was just some men catching up

It's crazy how much ya'll infer from a 30s video. Does that man look like a d-boy to you? Why immediately assume this is some degenerate shyt involved?

Makes you think :mjpls:
 

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This is why some dudes don't respect women. There are plenty of square dudes out there working average jobs and managing their money and cant get a text back but they'll invest in a bum over them.
Its goes against nature I don't fukking understand it at all
 

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Prioritizing “excitement” and “dominance” over stability is exactly why we will forever remain in last place. Every other race drops that dumbass mentality by like 24 at the latest but black folks wanna be kids forever
Permanent grown up children at large
 

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I don't see the problem seem like two regular people who have a kid together. He a square but want to hang around his people in the street, she didn't tell a single lie.

If shyt went left there wouldn't be friends anywhere to be found and their child wouldn't have a dad
 
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