Choosing bums as life partners

[semicko82]

This is the answer and why the black community in Amerikkka will stay lost. Black men with priorities that are duller won't get chose and take their intellect and finances elsewhere. In human geography the phenomena is called brain drain and usually happens to entire countries, as opposed to ethnic groups within them.

Women rarely grow/change to find a man, I'm going to be me till death and I'm sure as fukk not compromising for something as fickle as a woman

No the answer is go to gym and pray

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Who's projecting but you?

I didn't say ALL women
But the idea that women are dating bums because society tells them give ne'er do well nikkas a chance is bullshyt
If a woman is fukking with a man, either she's doing it because she wants something from him or she finds him attractive

I'm not talking about no internet shyt, I've seen this shyt In real life, so this rhetoric don't work with me

Nowhere am I saying most hoes ain't shyt, I don't believe most women are dating bums

But you really trying to absolve those few women of accountability

This entire thread is a projection because nobody knows these people. But rejects like having comfortable narratives about couples they don’t know to explain away why THEY can’t get into relationships themselves.

As for female accountability, I already said the women choosing these dudes are bums. So now the question becomes why are you wasting time and energy on these types of women.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This entire thread is a projection because nobody knows these people. But rejects like having comfortable narratives about couples they don’t know to explain away why THEY can’t get into relationships themselves.

As for female accountability, I already said the women choosing these dudes are bums. So now the question becomes why are you wasting time and energy on these types of women.

These women ain't bums tho
A lot of them go to work ever day
It happens

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

These women ain't bums tho
A lot of them go to work ever day
It happens

Sir. Please don’t be fooled. Although I can’t blame u because I used to be fooled too, but now I know better. Bum is a mentality. I know people with money in their pockets that still operate with bum energy. Wealthy people that are legit crackheads and hang in those circles. I know Deans of Colleges with methhead wives. Directors of programs who getting played by hotep dudes.
I keep telling ya’ll many people still take that bum mentality with them even when they blessed up. You don’t know how many successful people I’ve seen with toxic bm with tatts on their faces or bds that are ex-convicts.

You can’t get around it. If you dealing with bums on an intimate level…don’t be fooled. These ain’t good wholesome women getting played.
These. Women. Are. Bums. Too.

Your choices define you. That’s real accountability. And just like their choices defined them…when men CHOOSE to sit around worrying about bummy women who seeking their water level, instead of making moves with others, ya’ll become defined by that shyt too.

Stop trying to save these chicks or lamenting over them. Thinking oh if she would just choose somebody better…

Stop. Birds and bums are the 21st century pb and j. They not regretting those decisions. And if you try to reform these types, they’ll burn you too.

Stop wasting time on these types. Plenty of other women don’t do this type of shyt so the focus should be on them. But it rarely is. Not because they don’t exist, but because a lot of ya’ll are just as bad as the chicks choosing the bums. You wanna save them instead of saving yourself.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Sir. Please don’t be fooled. Although I can’t blame u because I used to be fooled too, but now I know better. Bum is a mentality. I know people with money in their pockets that still operate with bum energy. Wealthy people that are legit crackheads and hang in those circles. I know Deans of Colleges with methhead wives. Directors of programs who getting played by hotep dudes.
I keep telling ya’ll many people still take that bum mentality with them even when they blessed up. You don’t know how many successful people I’ve seen with toxic bm with tatts on their faces or bds that are ex-convicts.

You can’t get around it. If you dealing with bums on an intimate level…don’t be fooled. These ain’t good wholesome women getting played.
These. Women. Are. Bums. Too.

Your choices define you. That’s real accountability. And just like their choices defined them…when men CHOOSE to sit around worrying about bummy women who seeking their water level, instead of making moves with others, ya’ll become defined by that shyt too.

Stop trying to save these chicks or lamenting over them. Thinking oh if she would just choose somebody better…

Stop. Birds and bums are the 21st century pb and j. They not regretting those decisions. And if you try to reform these types, they’ll burn you too.

Stop wasting time on these types. Plenty of other women don’t do this type of shyt so the focus should be on them. But it rarely is. Not because they don’t exist, but because a lot of ya’ll are just as bad as the chicks choosing the bums. You wanna save them instead of saving yourself.

repped for accuracy

 

[Astroslik]

She'll be requesting our protection soon

 

[Astroslik]

Seems like it was a playful video. Shorty cares about her dude. He outside cooling with his friends

we know absolutely nothing about if he handles his responsibilities or not, matter fact, considering she’s saying his friends won’t look after her if something happens to him the implication is that he does handle his responsibilities, to then extrapolate he’s a bum and make this thread just seems inherently rooted in prejudice.

Sometimes to our detriment but Black people are social people, our communities used to be super tight knit, why I’m gon be here judging a breh for cooling with his friends? True that at a certain age it isn’t the best look to be on the corner but I also don’t think this video merited a thread like this

She embarrassed her husband and father of her kids for Internet clout

 

[Astroslik]

Thread is very

Assuming a black man is a bum just because he’s outside on a corner chopping it up with his mans

 

[Astroslik]

Do all the people you know from the hood know that you have a gay persona on the internet?

Anyone who believes that fakkit has friends in real life is fooling themselves. I don’t believe he’s from any Philly hood also. I can’t trust half cacs who play gay troll personas on an Internet forum.

 

[Guile]

Those square dudes might be simps who're lame and boring. Not standing up for the bums or the women that get with bums, but them square dudes need to get some testosterone.

This is the problem with the black community, middle class/well off cacs would never think like this. They would fukk a bum but never disqualify a squared away dude because he doesn't have 'game'.

 

[Uchiha God]

She embarrassed her husband and father of her kids for Internet clout

Did she? My first statement was that it seemed like a playful video to me, and that’s how I interpreted it

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

This is the answer and why the black community in Amerikkka will stay lost. Black men with priorities that are duller won't get chose and take their intellect and finances elsewhere. In human geography the phenomena is called brain drain and usually happens to entire countries, as opposed to ethnic groups within them.

Women rarely grow/change to find a man, I'm going to be me till death and I'm sure as fukk not compromising for something as fickle as a woman

You're not a b!ack man posting this dumb coin shyt
Especially over that dumb ass 30 secs clip
Gtfoh cac

 

[RadaMillz]

She seems like a real one

 

[Bossino]

You're not a b!ack man posting this dumb coin shyt
Especially over that dumb ass 30 secs clip
Gtfoh cac

I'm not posting it off of the clip or addressing the clip. The clip doesn't have enough context for me to pass judgement. I'm posting in response to the guys ITT, @FeverPitch2 and @MyAccount having a convo about what more plain/dull "squares" who are doing well in life and their struggles to attract women, particularly nerdier brehs trying to score sistas. There was a back and forth that led to my post, look back through the thread if ya want

 

[GreenGhxst]

He's a goofy and I feel sorry for his kids

He ain't even getting money

This nikka a cheerleader hoping to play in a real game