A good man is friendly and compassionate towards men and women of all ages, regardless of whether or not he is trying to sleep with them. A Nice Guy simp reserves his niceness for women he is trying to sleep with. He has little interest in being friendly with other meb, older women or women he considers unattractive. Good men have no ulterior motives for being friendly
A good men has his own interests and hobbies and does not try to mold his interests to fit a woman's. Good menare confident in themselves and unafraid to reveal that they are interested in different things or hold different opinions. Nice Guy simps only reveal things that a woman will find appealing and mirror a woman's opinions back to her in an attempt to create an artificial feeling of closeness in a woman. It's unsettling and very obvious.
- Good men respect women as human beings and are willing to stand up for good women. They also respect men, and respect themselves. Nice Guy sinps often portray themselves as "better" than other men because they respect women more, and try to display this by disparaging how sexist other men are, how other men are cheaters, liars, etc, and how THEY treat women like princesses and so forth. Good men don't need to disparage other men. Good men respect wgood women and treat them well without continually informing everyone how much better they treat women than the average man.
- Good men nake their intentions obvious when pursuing a woman. Good men are straightforward and let women know that they are interested. They flirt. They ask women out. They tell women point blank that they are interested. They don't plot to lure a woman in with platonic niceness so that the woman will somehow "fall for him" even though she previously expressed disinterest. If a woman tells a good nan that she has no interest in anything other than platonic friendship, a good man either accepts platonic friendship and ceases his attempts to woo her OR he rejects the platonic friendship and moves on.
- Good men take responsibility for their feelings. When rejected, good men don't lash out and call women bytches or insist that women are only rejecting them because they hold unrealistic standards. Good men aren't bitter and angry towards women who reject a request for a date. Good men accept that a woman is not interested and move on, either by ending the friendship or ending their romantic interest in the woman.
- Good men don't bend over backwards to appease women. Good men don't sacrifice their own emotional well-being in an attempt to win a woman. Good men respect themselves enough to end relationships (be they friendships or romantic) that aren't working and move on. Good men are honest with themselves and with women, telling the truth to women even when the truth isn't easy to hear.
A good men has his own interests and hobbies and does not try to mold his interests to fit a woman's. Good menare confident in themselves and unafraid to reveal that they are interested in different things or hold different opinions. Nice Guy simps only reveal things that a woman will find appealing and mirror a woman's opinions back to her in an attempt to create an artificial feeling of closeness in a woman. It's unsettling and very obvious.
- Good men respect women as human beings and are willing to stand up for good women. They also respect men, and respect themselves. Nice Guy sinps often portray themselves as "better" than other men because they respect women more, and try to display this by disparaging how sexist other men are, how other men are cheaters, liars, etc, and how THEY treat women like princesses and so forth. Good men don't need to disparage other men. Good men respect wgood women and treat them well without continually informing everyone how much better they treat women than the average man.
- Good men nake their intentions obvious when pursuing a woman. Good men are straightforward and let women know that they are interested. They flirt. They ask women out. They tell women point blank that they are interested. They don't plot to lure a woman in with platonic niceness so that the woman will somehow "fall for him" even though she previously expressed disinterest. If a woman tells a good nan that she has no interest in anything other than platonic friendship, a good man either accepts platonic friendship and ceases his attempts to woo her OR he rejects the platonic friendship and moves on.
- Good men take responsibility for their feelings. When rejected, good men don't lash out and call women bytches or insist that women are only rejecting them because they hold unrealistic standards. Good men aren't bitter and angry towards women who reject a request for a date. Good men accept that a woman is not interested and move on, either by ending the friendship or ending their romantic interest in the woman.
- Good men don't bend over backwards to appease women. Good men don't sacrifice their own emotional well-being in an attempt to win a woman. Good men respect themselves enough to end relationships (be they friendships or romantic) that aren't working and move on. Good men are honest with themselves and with women, telling the truth to women even when the truth isn't easy to hear.
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