Ciara Talks About Getting Over Her Attraction To BAD BOYS.

[Amphibious]

Women share the same brain as the Leech.

They use, 'til it's gone. Then they move onto the next.

Bad boys keep their attention because women are stupid and are overly impressed. Normalcy and consistently bores them; but, the rewards of being with a 'normal' guy are far more when it comes to resources than a bad boy. That's why these hoe be double dipping. The "bad boy" for the entertainment, and the "good boy" for the money/material and commitment shyt. I'm usually a good guy, til a bytch pisses me off and I turn into a bad boy with the back hand slaps.

This post hurt @Kitsch

 

[MikelArteta]

Only old black mothers (above 40), black women with kids and black women that's getting older really appreciate good nice black men. I know first hand too.

Old black mothers because they done been through the hardships of life and know the nikkas they laid up with were jokers. My childhood friend's mama....he a year younger than me....and she go to my church...but she was calling me sexy and looking at me with bedroom eyes black women with kids because obviously NOW they're concerned about having a man stick around and not just some clown with swag nutting up in them. I've had three chicks who ain't give me play back in the day cuz I wasn't swagged enough try to throw me the coochie AFTER they had kids. One chick in particular who made it clear I had no chance with her at 18. I wasnt as handsome or as swagged as my boys, so I got swerved hard and pushed to her ugly friend. This SAME chick I catch years down the line when I'm going to the city college to transfer my transcript to my new university, she turns a simple hi / wassup to a long drawn out convo and asking me if I ever thought about us being together Where was this 3 years ago...now you gotta daughter you interested huh? Then black chicks approaching 30, 35 but have no man get desperate and call themselves "settling" for a regular dude. I had a chick, 43 years old, big juicy fat booty too but she was single. I was but 25 at the time but she was flirting hard and throwing signals eventhough she tried to act like she wasnt at first. I fukked but I had to laugh afterwards because I know she ain't get to be 43 and single by accident. She was probably pickier than a muthafukka and wasted her precious youth on clowns.

you ever wonder why if your a good dude the girl your messing with her mom will love you, because she can tell your legit good.

 

[Scott Larock]

You know there is truth to that, and I tried to explain it to one of my siblings. We have also discussed this at LSA.



If you meet a black man who has a degree, no kids, and good credit... He will be the biggest a$$hole on the face of the planet!


Down talking you. Wanting you to kiss his ass, simply because they have what they are supposed to have. Overly critical of other people. Judgmental. They constantly talk down on men who aren't like them, but didn't have their same advantages either.


You will meet a street dude and he will be humble, supportive, affectionate, not down talking you, but encouraging you in a positive way.


Someone on LSA was just talking about how they prefer blue collar men over educated black men for this reason. THEY ARE HORRIBLE, and won't treat you good unless you're white or look white.


My dude is blue collar and a business owner. I couldn't deal with them educated types either, even though I am myself.

We got a event down here in the hood in Miami every 2 or 3 months, it's a white collar event with alot of sucessful brothers, no lie... all these dudes caking major, nikkas shaking hands with the mayor one Haitian cat who came up through the struggle went on to become a successful doctor then branched off into politics

The egos in that muthafukka

Every nikka in there got on the full 3 piece suit, fresh cufflinks, business cards, benz outside and everyone under 35

Baddest bytches you'll see in your life all of them single but they can't deal with these nikkas

Every sister in their natural hair, slim highly educated

I went to the bathroom overheard some sisters complaining about bougie ass nikkas who think they special...

One girl was like fukk this, I'm get me a blue collar man

I'm in their, I couldn't even compete I just went outside and wait for my boys to come out, all that education and sucess and no one can get along

Half them girls gonna end up with a hard working dude who just loves them for them regardless of money, they see the writing on the wall.

These black men know they got it going on, they know women are literally throwing themselves at them, they literally got 3 to 5 women at night to fukk if they choose

They live life all day everyday.

Black women done created a monster

 

[Barnett114]

I come back home to see @Emperor_ReinScarf still going hard.

 

[SheeBadd]

the fatherlessness is just dripping through this post.

21 and a stripper, no future but but I get my money nikka.

bytch was yo ex wife who did u dirty fatherless ?

This fakkit ass nikka stay throw slick shots, trying give advice but he cant control his hoes

bytch flushed yo seed now u bitter

 

[SheeBadd]

Thanks. We can rest assured that you will not bring additional underdeveloped minds into the Black community. We really appreciate it, @SheeBadd . You're a credit to the race.

lmao

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

How is this undeveloped minds when it is the truth!?

We are women telling you OUR experiences, and you are dismissing them!


Listen up... It's a lot of things you so called "good guys" can learn from bad guys! There IS a reason why women like them, and it's not because women are all "mentally off".


It's because of the way some of them (not all) treat you and make you feel. I. The end, that's what it's all about! How someone TREATS you and makes you feel!



You can go out with a street dude and learn a lot from him, have good conversations, fun, not uptight and not picky, not mean spirited... Then go out with a "good guy" who is a TOTAL a$$hole!


Complaining about prices. Horrible conversation. Criticizing everything you say. Talking down to you. Making sure you KNOW he's smarter than you, and soooo much better than all those "bad guys" women want. Negative. Petty.



Plenty of women know this, and plenty have women have experienced this.

ESPECIALLY with black men! It's like successful black men come up, and go around looking down their nose at everyone who doesn't have what they have and demand to be worshipped cause they did the right thing, but treat people like shyt.(there are successful black women with bad entitled attitudes too)

That's not cool, bruh!


I got a good man, and I know from experience.

Just because someone is a "good guy" doesn't mean he's a "good guy"!

Wait wait wait... How the fukk is a good guy a "total a$$hole"????????????? Being educated and successful doesn't make you a good person. We aren't talking about those accolades, we're talking about just being a good person in general, you can be broke and from the hood and be a good person. A genuine bad guy by definition is a bad person, and women who go after those men ARE mentally damaged from physical or sexual abuse and abandonment by their father.

 

[havoc]

Same old shyt.
Chase and get worn out by the bad boys
Grow older and get wifed by the beta, or dont get wifed at all

Let's look at the other side of the coin. The head is just as filthy as the tail. Doesn't matter if is a man or a woman; both gender have a dirty past. Therefore, none of you dudes have a place to disparagingly judge Ciara unless you are a sinless virgin or a monogamous dude with a low body count.

 

[KingMalik]

you ever wonder why if your a good dude the girl your messing with her mom will love you, because she can tell your legit good.

I've legit had that happen....it was high school. I was dumb and chased this big booty girl who was a horrible person but, I'm glad I got the lesson early on. Her mom loved me, took me aside one day and told me to leave her daughter and find someone else

Her own mom

 

[MikelArteta]

I've legit had that happen....it was high school. I was dumb and chased this big booty girl who was a horrible person but, I'm glad I got the lesson early on. Her mom loved me, took me aside one day and told me to leave her daughter and find someone else

Her own mom

yeah i remember my ex mom told me I was to good for her, I didn't realize it but she was right

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

and All i wanted to do is fukk them lmao fukk is u saying.

But thanks steve wilkos

we all know women are really great at just fukking and not becoming emotionally involved

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

@SheeBadd
Its cool that you don't wanna be saved I understood that from your previous comments.

"and All i wanted to do is fukk them lmao fukk is u saying."-@SheeBadd

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

From that I can definitely say that you don't want an actual man. You want a fukk boy. You literally just said in that comment. You want someone to fukk you and treat you "nice" aka a lame. Definitely not someone who is gonna give you what you need. So go ahead and have fun with them lames just don't be upset/surprised if you get results that you don't favor

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

@SheeBadd
Its cool that you don't wanna be saved I understood that from your previous comments.

"and All i wanted to do is fukk them lmao fukk is u saying."-@SheeBadd

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

From that I can definitely say that you don't want an actual man. You want a fukk boy. You literally just said in that comment. You want someone to fukk you and treat you "nice" aka a lame. Definitely not someone who is gonna give you what you need. So go ahead and have fun with them lames just don't be upset/surprised if you get results that you don't favor

She wants someone who she doesn't have to open up to emotionally and risk being hurt or abandoned again. She said it herself that she hates the "talking" stage. She just wants a relationship built around her p*ssy being used as a cum bucket because there is less chance for her to get hurt emotionally.

 

[MikelArteta]

Wait wait wait... How the fukk is a good guy a "total a$$hole"????????????? Being educated and successful doesn't make you a good person. We aren't talking about those accolades, we're talking about just being a good person in general, you can be broke and from the hood and be a good person. A genuine bad guy by definition is a bad person, and women who go after those men ARE mentally damaged from physical or sexual abuse and abandonment by their father.

a good guy to these chicks = a good job, good credit, good dikk

 

[Marvel]

Have u been on social media? Every black single mother is championing this how like she's their Jesus. Ppl think bn a single mother is OK not that bad, they're not shamed like they should be and look where our community is

Yep, its like these women are crowned Queens for being single mothers....its disgusting. This is a backwards society. Everybody takes care and upholds the single mother.