Ciara Talks About Getting Over Her Attraction To BAD BOYS.

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

sexual abuse, fatherlessness, rape

prob has tried to bury it with all her stripping and promiscuity, low self esteem seeking validation through male attention regardless the low quality men they are.

only asset is her body

It's a shame therapy isn't encouraged and mental health isn't talked about more

 

[SheeBadd]

You dudes claim to be in happy IR relationships but spend so much of your time criticizing black women. Which makes me believe it is all . People who are surrounded in positivity have no time for negativity.
Look at my boy @Tommy Knocks dude never has anything negative to say about black women because he is too busy boo'd up with his PAAG.

exactly

 

[KingTut]

so many quotables in here

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

can't even form a coherent sentence, of course it doesn't bother your fatherless souless self, your young and dumb with a undeveloped mind plus with your only asset being your body and mouth

No disrespect, because I never really had a problem with your font.


But for an MOD, you are pretty abusive and insulting to posters you don't agree with.


I have visited a lot of forums, and I have never experienced someone who works for the site being so harsh and insulting to the people who patronize the site.


I know you can have an opinion like everyone else. You should stand strong in you opinions.

But calling fonts fat, digging up pictures in a thread that has nothing to do with that, bullying and being vulgar Is much for someone who is supposed to be moderating the site.

You are antagonizing people quite harshly, and creating an atmosphere where it's difficult for a woman to express her self on this site without being insulted and dragged by the staff.

Maybe you aren't doing it intentionally, or aren't aware of how you are coming off.


But I have never seen a MOD act like this.


With all due respect.

 

[Kitsch]

 

[The Mad Titan]

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

You know there is truth to that, and I tried to explain it to one of my siblings. We have also discussed this at LSA.



If you meet a black man who has a degree, no kids, and good credit... He will be the biggest a$$hole on the face of the planet!


Down talking you. Wanting you to kiss his ass, simply because they have what they are supposed to have. Overly critical of other people. Judgmental. They constantly talk down on men who aren't like them, but didn't have their same advantages either.


You will meet a street dude and he will be humble, supportive, affectionate, not down talking you, but encouraging you in a positive way.


Someone on LSA was just talking about how they prefer blue collar men over educated black men for this reason. THEY ARE HORRIBLE, and won't treat you good unless you're white or look white.


Side note: just like on LSA, you wouldn't believe this, but the conscious rappers have the most horrible tea threads about them lying, manipulating and cheating on multiple women in a horrible way.

Just visit the j Cole, the k dot, Lupe threads and see the things women hear about them.

ALL BAD.


My dude is blue collar and a business owner. I couldn't deal with them educated types either, even though I am myself.

Yeah....That's called GAMING

 

[Blackout]

Look at my boy @Tommy Knocks dude never has anything negative to say about black women because he is too busy boo'd up with his PAAG.

Sounds like you will end up with a non black dude

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Man...

I hate to break it to you sister.

But this dude...



That's not a "good" dude. That's just a dude with credentials.

EXACTLY! And sadly, a lot of educated men are like this!

They have everything, but people skills.


That's the point I'm trying to make.

When I say "good guy" it's in quotations for a reason. Men who look good on paper. Who look like a catch. Who look responsible and moral, but aren't good people.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

How is this undeveloped minds when it is the truth!?

We are women telling you OUR experiences, and you are dismissing them!


Listen up... It's a lot of things you so called "good guys" can learn from bad guys! There IS a reason why women like them, and it's not because women are all "mentally off".


It's because of the way some of them (not all) treat you and make you feel. I. The end, that's what it's all about! How someone TREATS you and makes you feel!



You can go out with a street dude and learn a lot from him, have good conversations, fun, not uptight and not picky, not mean spirited... Then go out with a "good guy" who is a TOTAL a$$hole!


Complaining about prices. Horrible conversation. Criticizing everything you say. Talking down to you. Making sure you KNOW he's smarter than you, and soooo much better than all those "bad guys" women want. Negative. Petty.



Plenty of women know this, and plenty have women have experienced this.

ESPECIALLY with black men! It's like successful black men come up, and go around looking down their nose at everyone who doesn't have what they have and demand to be worshipped cause they did the right thing, but treat people like shyt.(there are successful black women with bad entitled attitudes too)

That's not cool, bruh!


I got a good man, and I know from experience.

Just because someone is a "good guy" doesn't mean he's a "good guy"!

Lot of truth in this post, tho

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Yeah....That's called GAMING

Whatever you say.


Women want men who make them feel good.


Men want women who make them feel good.


If you arent capable of that, you will have problems with the opposite sex thinking your credentials make you a catch.

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

I agree with all of what you said...


I am talking to the men on this site who don't understand why some "good guys" are unbearable.

Believe me... This is a hot topic in any beauty salon, female dominated forum.


How utterly unbearable the so-called "good men" are due to entitlement.


I will also say some "good women" (aka #TeamNoKids . Lol) are just as horrible. I have heard men say this.

I can't fukk with these over generalizations. Humans can have aspects of their personalities that are "unbearable" to you despite being a good person in general. But I can't help but keep thinking you're just slapping these expectations of what a "good guy" is supposed to be like on men who are in actuality, not "good guys". Then when they're a$$holes you go "Wow, no wonder girls don't fukk with good guys! This good guy is an a$$hole! I'm gonna go fukk with this street dude who is less of an a$$hole than this a$$hole!" Humans in general can be hard to get along with, there is a reason divorce rates are so high, the key is finding that one diamond in the rough whom you can see yourself growing old with, and even then it takes an incredible amount of dedication and sacrifice to make it last. You may not ever find this person.

 

[Nintendough]

Typical hair hat, almost 30 single mom who claims to be 1/3 feather wanting a square to come along to clean up the mess

 

[Blackout]

I agree with all of what you said...


I am talking to the men on this site who don't understand why some "good guys" are unbearable.

Believe me... This is a hot topic in any beauty salon, female dominated forum.


How utterly unbearable the so-called "good men" are due to entitlement.


I will also say some "good women" (aka #TeamNoKids . Lol) are just as horrible. I have heard men say this.

A good guy is a good guy through and through.

If they are not then they aren't a good guy so stop calling them that even with quotations because they are not

It actually devalues actual good guys when you do that

 

[The D-List Vet]

I like hood nikkas thats just my type I cant fw pretty boys or whole lames ill walk all over em. i want a strong man someone who wont let me walk all over him. Its they mentality being hood dont make u a thug

My nikka treat me like shyt but we been rockin together for a minute. An i dont wanna start over. I hate that "talking" stage Ik i done curved a lot of good dudes for his ass.