Ciara Talks About Getting Over Her Attraction To BAD BOYS.

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It's a shame therapy isn't encouraged and mental health isn't talked about more

It should be in all honesty. Maybe in the next 10-15 years, as both genders slowly begin to separate from one another, this younger generation will realize that talking to someone about solitude/loneliness/uncertainty could ultimately benefit their mental well being.
 
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You know there is truth to that, and I tried to explain it to one of my siblings. We have also discussed this at LSA.



If you meet a black man who has a degree, no kids, and good credit... He will be the biggest a$$hole on the face of the planet! :mjcry:


Down talking you. Wanting you to kiss his ass, simply because they have what they are supposed to have. Overly critical of other people. Judgmental. They constantly talk down on men who aren't like them, but didn't have their same advantages either.:comeon:


You will meet a street dude and he will be humble, supportive, affectionate, not down talking you, but encouraging you in a positive way.


Someone on LSA was just talking about how they prefer blue collar men over educated black men for this reason. THEY ARE HORRIBLE, and won't treat you good unless you're white or look white.


Side note: just like on LSA, you wouldn't believe this, but the conscious rappers have the most horrible tea threads about them lying, manipulating and cheating on multiple women in a horrible way.

Just visit the j Cole, the k dot, Lupe threads and see the things women hear about them.

ALL BAD.


My dude is blue collar and a business owner. I couldn't deal with them educated types either, even though I am myself.
Just as long as yall realize everyone is not like that and give people the benefit of a doubt before dismissing him. I know plenty bruhs including myself, educated, no kids and good credit who AREN'T a$$holes. Sometimes you give off energy that attracts a certain type of person to you.
 

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The UPS driver is awesome compared to the fatherless nikka preying on the community.

But, to your point, a UPS driver should feel awesome if he's dealing with a chick without much going on.

I doubt he'd toot his own horn when trying to get at a chick with a lot of things going for herself.

Most Black men date a wider variety of Black women than women do when dating Black men.

Every Black man has dated a light, dark, chubby, skinny, etc. Black woman at some point.

Many Black women date the same nikka over and over, again.

But as you know black women are likely to date down, at least education wise. So you need to be more understanding of us. Im talking about marriage too. IF black men do marry, which is a big if, it aint the chubby chocolate sista.
 

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Why does it have to be to the extreme? Why couldn't she have dated a regular breh? Why does he have to be Ray Ray or Dexter?

It's those extremes in Black women's minds that has them losing, relative to other races of women, when it comes to building families. Research shows that those with underdeveloped minds tend to think more in terms of extremes than do those with properly developed minds.

Black men don't only exist in extremes. Black men are more than just thugs, nerds, ballers and players.

Yep. It's either you're some super swagged out hood super-nikka or you're a lame, corny nerd. There is no in between. :troll:
 

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I ain't nowhere near fat. Plus I got mad endurance and can bust a nut all over a brehette's face. :lolbron:
Looks are important, though. I ain't gonna wife no fat or unhealthy wife that will die a premature death due to weight issues.
:francis: I hear U talking how u doin pull your type bruh . . All yal fukkin model bytches til we get a significant other thread and only a couplr coli nikkas got bad bytches on they arm. Let me go find that shyt lol.
You work at Follies? Don't think I've seen you in there before. shyt I was in there last Thursday or Wed I think
yep and Strokers im finna be there this am
 

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If you have a community of women that only want to have kids by the worst men you get Chicago's inner city. Dumb women is why the ghetto is so fukked up.
:dahell: wrong with yal nikkas

All hood nikkas/bytches is bad fathers /mothers yal fukkin nerds stay talkin out yal ass to get daps from these other nerds.
 

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:dahell: wrong with yal nikkas

All hood nikkas/bytches is bad fathers /mothers yal fukkin nerds stay talkin out yal ass to get daps from these other nerds.
I'm saying if a community of women want to have kids by the scum of society what will the kids grow to be? Chief Keef/Bobby Schmurda is the answer.
 
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