Let me put ya'll on to a little something. Women are creatures of EMOTION. The type of man they'd deal with if there are no repercussions are the type of man they will eventually gravitate back towards. The 'pitstop' male is the one she deals with when she needs a break from the kind of man she is really attracted to. If a woman has a history of choosing to dealing with 'bad boys', that's the kind of man she absolutely wants to deal with, but has to take a break from until she gets her life back in order. Those are the kind of guys that provide her emotional stimulation, and she'll eventually be sneaking back over that way once she gets her nice guy paycheck secured.
If you're a man of quality, never date some bad boy's leftovers, aka a woman who wants to deal with you when she's 30 and falling off with kids and now wants a nice guy because she finally 'wised up.' If a woman has to 'grow' to like you, then that's one that you don't want to deal with. You're her brocolli to the other dude being her slice of pizza. She'll only deal with you because she 'has to'. If there were no repercussions, she'd be elsewhere, and that's not the type of woman you want to build with.