Ciara Talks About Getting Over Her Attraction To BAD BOYS.

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the fatherlessness is just dripping through this post.

21 and a stripper, no future but but I get my money nikka.

#DatScarf ...... :wow:

There's no absolutes with anything, but this shyt is a complete broken record with these broads. I wouldn't be AS hard on Ciara if she didn't have the kid, but she did.
 

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Men turn down good sugary sweet women too because they may not have a certain look, mentality or attitude. I mean we can point fingers all day and for what. This woman obviously trying to move on with her life and all i wanna know is what is it about these situations that bring out the donkey in some of these dudes? Honestly!At the end of the day, its about what you want. It may not be what you need but its a decision you made. You open your legs or stick your dikk into darkness, be a woman or a man and accept that bad decision.

Stop using someone else's misfortune to try to prove a point. You ain't no better than she is.
 
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I've never seen a quality sweet woman struggle to date.




Men turn down good sugary sweet women too because they may not have a certain look, mentality or attitude. I mean we can point fingers all day and for what. This woman obviously trying to move on with her life and all i wanna know is what is it about these situations that brings out the donkey in some of these dudes? Honestly!
 

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How is this undeveloped minds when it is the truth!?

We are women telling you OUR experiences, and you are dismissing them!


Listen up... It's a lot of things you so called "good guys" can learn from bad guys! There IS a reason why women like them, and it's not because women are all "mentally off".


It's because of the way some of them (not all) treat you and make you feel. I. The end, that's what it's all about! How someone TREATS you and makes you feel!



You can go out with a street dude and learn a lot from him, have good conversations, fun, not uptight and not picky, not mean spirited... Then go out with a "good guy" who is a TOTAL a$$hole!


Complaining about prices. Horrible conversation. Criticizing everything you say. Talking down to you. Making sure you KNOW he's smarter than you, and soooo much better than all those "bad guys" women want. Negative. Petty.



Plenty of women know this, and plenty have women have experienced this.

ESPECIALLY with black men! It's like successful black men come up, and go around looking down their nose at everyone who doesn't have what they have and demand to be worshipped cause they did the right thing, but treat people like shyt.(there are successful black women with bad entitled attitudes too)

That's not cool, bruh!


I got a good man, and I know from experience.

Just because someone is a "good guy" doesn't mean he's a "good guy"!

MAKE SURE HE A THUG AND INTELLIGENT TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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You thinking on this way too much, its as simple as not wanting to have to deal with baggage that aint yours.

Woman aint going out grabbing up dudes with 1-3 kids that use to love strippers. But us men constantly try and save these women who have 1 or more kids with different nikka's. In turn making it seem ok for other women to follow in those footsteps


Its hard to feel sympathetic when its something that we see over and over again, my boy is a shinning example of this... nikka's need to start putting these chicks on blast and the simps that try and save them and you women should do the same with men


I wasn't speaking about women with kids. I was speaking about women near 30.

But On what planet do you Live that black women aren't dating men with kids? :comeon:


Future doesn't have trouble getting a woman. :sas2:


Plenty of black women date men with kids. My boyfriend is a single father of a 14 year old. (Not part time. A REAL single father)

I'm with him, and I have zero kids. He's a good man and got his shyt together. :sas1:



Women are out here dating men who LIE about having kids to them. Who hide kids. And still stay when they find out, cause they in love. (I think this is stupid, but I'm making a point)

It's not hard for men with kids to get play at all. Why can't women?
 

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Bottom line is if a broad was cruising on the Thugtanic, don't let her jump aboard your ship when she hits an iceberg. Let her go down with the captain she was rocking with in her prime.

Broads be talking about 'made her mistakes.' She didn't make mistakes. She KNEW these types of dudes weren't about anything and yet she still dealt with them. That's not a mistake. That's intentionally engaging in self-destructive behavior but feigning surprise in order to be rescued from the repercussions. People don't make the same mistakes 10 years in a row. If it was a mistake, she would have quit after a year in of messing with that kind of dudte. Women realize when they are hitting that flab zone and need to hurry up and get married with a 'responsible guy' before it's too late.

IF a woman doesn't have inherent attraction for your type, you're completely wasting your time. Here's one thing a lot of women know how to do. They know how to pretend. You think you're getting this hidden gem of a woman in her 30s with two kids, but as soon as she gets you paying for the kids and breaking her off dough, she's sneaking off with that type of dude she's really attracted to.

Don't get mad at these women that like to engage with the dudes that are going to mess up her life. Just don't save 'em. You gave your prime to that dude, so give your decline to him as well. Focus on the women that are feeling your type. When it's said and done, it's all about emotions to a woman. If your type isn't bringing that unexplainable attraction out of her, keep it pushing because some other type IS bringing that attraction out of her... and if it's not attraction that's keeping her with you, then what is it? Your resources. She's getting your dough while she's having fun with someone else on the side.


my mufukkin nikka right here... :salute:

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