Close friends/ relatives asking for money

[BrothaZay]

man this shyt is getting unbearable.

Just last month I got a ticcet in my trucc that's costing me money to fight and ppl still ask me for money with no shame.


Last week my homeboy ask me for $165 cuz he said he lost at the casino.

I told him I don't get paid until Friday. This morning he text me asking if I still got him im like

Crazy thing is this nikka got a job and live at home


Is not just him. I done had 3 ppl ask me for money in one day before. This was last month. All of them know my situation to

 

[cheek100]

They see u as a soft target. U must be “nice” outside of the coli.

 

[50CentStan]

i always have an excuse in my Back pocket

 

[BrothaZay]

They see u as a soft target. U must be “nice” outside of the coli.

Im nice on thecoli


Thing is nikkas just have no shame when they think you have money


I remember young Joc saying his homie got mad that he "only" lended him $5000 after he saw him on the forbes list and told him he could've lended him 15 or 30

 

[GoldenGlove]

You're demeanor determines whether or not people will even entertain asking you for money.

You must come off as a nice happy go lucky guy. If you got even a hint of, "I ain't for no bullshyt" or "Don't fukk with me" vibe to you, nobody gonna ask you for shyt.

You prolly answer the door when people come over unannounced too.

 

[Gold]

I dont mind if its immediate family because who else are they supposed to turn to?

Anything beyond that and i'm the wrong one to ask.

 

[Complexion]

Never lend anything you can't afford to give away and if you can (and they are worthy) just give it to them and let it ride or say no and keep it moving if they ain't on that level.

Easiest way to lose is by lending because people will all of a sudden start avoiding you and mess up a good friendship for the sake of paying back a few bucks.

 

[BrothaZay]

You're demeanor determines whether or not people will even entertain asking you for money.

You must come off as a nice happy go lucky guy. If you got even a hint of, "I ain't for no bullshyt" or "Don't fukk with me" vibe to you, nobody gonna ask you for shyt.

You prolly answer the door when people come over unannounced too.

That's not true. You never been around nikkas

 

[GoldenGlove]

That's not true. You never been around nikkas

You can't be serious

 

[King Poetic]

When u like me who stopped having friends years ago u eliminate those headaches

My 2 real friends live out the country now and I'm not in the market to meet new friends who'll be asking me for simple shyt


How about one day u go sit in the police station and call these so Called friends up and tell them u in jail and u need them to come get u out and it's a 100 bucks....who ever shows up u keep around, who doesn't and make excuses u cut them off....works like a charm

 

[threattonature]

I realized I had to just turn into an a$$hole. People look at the fact that somebody makes good money and looks at it as community property. Now I said fukk it to damn near anybody asking for money especially when I see they stay blowing money on dumb shyt. I even cussed out one of my female friends who tried to get cute. I sent her to grab some shots and to put it on my tab and she comes back with a double. When I ask her why the fukk she got doubles her response was "it's not like you can't afford it". Told her that's the last free drink she ever getting off of me.

 

[BrothaZay]

You can't be serious

You really saying only soft ppl get asked for money? You don't think nikkas ask 50 for money. Or Floyd?

 

[Henri Christophe]

I just tell motherfukkas no.... I dont care what theyre going thruu

I'm young, so I automatically lose respect when an older person asks me for money...... my uncle in his 40s be asking me for money and rides..... in my head, I be thinking "I hope I never grow up and become this broke ass disgrace of a nikka"

I dont ask anybody for anything....... havent asked my parents for a thing since I was 17 so I damn sure aint gon take care of another grown man/grown woman.... they can go out and get it just like everybody else

Its a shame when old heads gotta ask the young nikka for help

 

[GoldenGlove]

You really saying only soft ppl get asked for money? You don't think nikkas ask 50 for money. Or Floyd?

You ain't 50 or Floyd tho

Damn, so being nice is soft now?

 

[BrothaZay]

You ain't 50 or Floyd tho

Damn, so being nice is soft now?

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