Cold approaches. Yay or Nay?

[PhonZhi]

How many times did you get rejected though?

It's a waste of time and energy to go after random chicks.

Are you serious? How old are you? This is the problem right here: y'all think a "rejection" is the worse thing in the world when its not. Your head is NOT gonna get blown off for approaching a girl


Dudes that get the most pu55y are often the same ones that gets rejected the most. They don't give a fukk bout no rejection


That feeling of regret of NOT saying something is 10X worse than being rejected. For me personally, there's a sense of "closure" in getting rejected. At least I got my answer instead of wondeing "what if"

 

[Ohene]

How many times did you get rejected though?

It's a waste of time and energy to go after random chicks.

why does it have to be a waste of time / energy?

if youre already on a subway, already at a grocery store shopping, already walking through the mall, already at the gym etc what time is being wasted?
what energy is being wasted opening up your mouth and saying something?

only time its a waste really is when nikkas go to clubs to hit on chick. doing it in the field doesnt take any time or energy really

 

[全能の神]

That feeling of regret of NOT saying something is 10X worse than being rejected. For me personally, there's a sense of "closure" in getting rejected. At least I got my answer instead of wondeing "what if"

Very true

 

[PhonZhi]

Very true

Bottle this feeling of regret up and use it as motivation the next time you get the urge to approach.

I PROMISE you that even if you get rejected, it'll feel better that the regret of saying nothing

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Very true

What happened did she not give you any play

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Bottle this feeling of regret up and use it as motivation the next time you get the urge to approach.

I PROMISE you that even if you get rejected, it'll feel better that the regret of saying nothing

Yup
Regret is the worst feeling

Even if I say hi or hello...I always treat every opener or interaction 100/10

 

[Gold]

In clubs i'm like 80% in cold approaches

Outside clubs i'm like 20%

 

[全能の神]

What happened did she not give you any play

Nah I haven't done it yet

 

[Trapperman Dave]

@PhonZhi is right but so are the other guys its only a few consistent rules when approaching every thing else is semantics

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Nah I haven't done it yet

Go for it I believe in you brehski