Easy, no social life. No hobbies. You have a social life, so it's easy for you. Other dudes go to work then home and play video games all day.
Once you outta highschool/college phase you 100% on your own. And dudes too scared to approach women in public.
True...outside of high school...social and professional circles are important to ur quality of life and ur ability to meet women and good people in ur life. Think about it...people are here for a reason and people are here for a season....as u get older...people move and may move on from u. U gotta stay within the right social and professional circles to keep ur ability to meet women.
Also need to know how to talk to people. Dude in OP don't know how to maximize his natural looks. He also lack confidence and he has no shame at all...which is concerning. Who tf would admit they pay for pusse???and not even have no shameful expression on his face. I mean some dudes simp and some take women on nice dates...but those women at least wanna be around u.
Shyt, I still have women's moms and grandma's try to put me on their daughter's. One from church was married and have a lot of kids and she now divorced. I like her but donno if I wanna enter that one.