Coli Brehette realizes at 33 years old.. she is not her Type’s type

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The reason is she won’t fit in with their family and friends. They know this which is why they aren’t choosing her for long term relationships.

Men actually want drama-free relationships so when picking a mate they are going to look at whether this person is a match for their lifestyle. If she isn’t, no matter how beautiful and amazing, it’s not going to work.

The type of men she wants their girlfriends and wives have locked social media accounts and private group chats. They are not making videos like this - never in a million years.
 

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You know what the fukk I mean. She wants a WHITE adjacent black man. Those men don’t usually date black women. Those are the same ones claiming they searched far and wide for their black Queen, but had to get with white women.
There are black men in this thread who are white collar and “responsible” type brehs, who perfectly laid out why she aesthetically isn’t pleasing to their eyes. And none of it had to do with skintone. There are dark skinned boule upper crust black women who have had no trouble finding their equal. It may just be her personality and her aesthetics. :yeshrug:
 

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She’s not being unreasonable, and she prefers only black and Asian men. Lowkey, she’s right about the clean cut black men liking a certain aesthetic, but she’s not looking for a white man, or black thug.



Listen to women brehs. Some 5'7 black man who works hvac will get her pregnant if they ever meet
 

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Someone said an artist might be her speed. Maybe. Idk I figured a blue collar dude might see her a little different. She reminds me of my uncle's wife. Kinda scrawny but real artsy. They've been married forever.

She says in the video that she started dating an artist guy, and he was actually digging her, as opposed to whatever she was getting from her type (which she described as Asian/Black Finance Bros that normally date country club girls)

As soon as I started getting some coin, the Rita Marley/Lauryn Hill types started coming out the wood work.

They might not say it out loud, but if one partner is making the dollars, she can focus on her art.
 
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There are black men in this thread who are white collar and “responsible” type brehs, who perfectly laid out why she aesthetically isn’t pleasing to their eyes. And none of it had to do with skintone. There are dark skinned boule upper crust black women who have had no trouble finding their equal. It may just be her personality and her aesthetics. :yeshrug:

White collar and responsible does not equal white adjacent. I can tell by the fact Asians are an option that she likes white adjacent black men. And like I’ve said before, just because there are black men who like her type, doesn’t mean they like HER, or she likes them, or she met them. Stop denying there is a certain segment of black men who prefer to date out. There are a lot of black men who would take her exact aesthetic, but in a non black woman. It is what it is. People like who they like.
 
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Listen to women brehs. Some 5'7 black man who works hvac will get her pregnant if they ever meet

He’s 5’7, and does HVAC. Why isn’t he going for the 5’2 bank teller?

Would you be happy with a woman who you knew wasn’t attracted to you, but settled for you, and after she has the baby, stopped fukking you because she got what she wanted from you?

Would you want a woman who needed to grow to be attracted to you, and you have to spend money to see her for months, because she’s waiting for the attraction to develop?
 

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He’s 5’7, and does HVAC. Why isn’t he going for the 5’2 bank teller?

Would you be happy with a woman who you knew wasn’t attracted to you, but settled for you, and after she has the baby, stopped fukking you because she got what she wanted from you?

Would you want a woman who needed to grow to be attracted to you, and you have to spend money to see her for months, because she’s waiting for the attraction to develop?

You over thinking it and missing the entire point.

Women say they only want 6'5 7 figure salary men, but end up getting pregnant by Dave the mailman.
 

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She’s not being unreasonable, and she prefers only black and Asian men. Lowkey, she’s right about the clean cut black men liking a certain aesthetic, but she’s not looking for a white man, or black thug.




There are clean cut average looking black men, clean cut good looking black men, clean cut ugly black men.

Consider the heights too.

Which one is she going for?

She's not wrong for wanting her REAL type.

But her type has OPTIONS.
 

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You over thinking it and missing the entire point.

Women say they only want 6'5 7 figure salary men, but end up getting pregnant by Dave the mailman.

Let's not act like Dave the mailman is some average/ugly faced dude, if the woman herself is physically attractive.
 
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You over thinking it and missing the entire point.

Women say they only want 6'5 7 figure salary men, but end up getting pregnant by Dave the mailman.
Dave the mailman probably looks like Morris Chestnut or they settled when they got desperate. Do you want the be the guy she got with out of desperation? Is Dave in a position to pay child support? How many other kids does Dave have? Yeah, I’m getting too detailed, but some of y’all are too. Stop thinking every attractive woman has good options. What you think is acceptable, may not be desirable for her long term. You don’t want the woman who settles for you, then leaves you. This is what I keep trying to explain to y’all. The woman has to feel like you’re HIM. If you’re not HIM, she will stray, or you will end up in a dead bedroom.

Stop believing this Beauty And The Beast narrative that women fall for any man who treats them well. Most of the couples you see where the woman appears more attractive, is a woman who can enhance her appearance with makeup, and fake hair. Those are average women with average men.
 

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How do you post embeded TikTok videos on here?

The one she just posted helps explain why she might not be a catch for many men. The hair (short or long), how bony she is (especially around the neck), how she looks like she’s in her 40s and she doesn’t have that sexy “it” factor at all.

She’s the type that should've gotten married in her early to mid 20s to a college sweetheart, not still be on the market to people just meeting her now.



No lie she’d be an example of why I preferred to go to an HBCU versus PWI.

Cold part is she made that video and is now being analyzed by complete strangers around the world.
 
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