So you'd date a man who was actively in their childs life?
What if the mother moved the kids with her to another state and he only saw them once a year by his own choice?
Coli Brehettes Would You Ever Date a Single Father?
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So you'd date a man who was actively in their childs life?
What if the mother moved the kids with her to another state and he only saw them once a year by his own choice?
So you hate single dad's ?
No I don't hate single dads, I just would prefer not to date one.
took you that long to realize you aint trynna eat a dinner thats half eaten?
I could date a guy who was actively in their child's life.
Hmmm I guess it would depend on if he could see them more but just chooses not too, the age of the child, the communication with the child, the amount of time the once a year is etc... Every situation is different but my first thought is *side eye*
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Hell no.
My old roommate was in that situation that's why I ask. He had two baby mammas (one black, another Hispanic), by age 21. Both of the mothers moved away with the kids for jobs (one to NC another to RI) and he was like
He kept paying child support though, he saw his daughters maybe 1-2 times a year, they're about to be 18 or 18+ now. He chats with them on facebook and they all follow each other on Instagram and shyt so I guess you could say he is in their lives. 
rawtid always coming through with no filterMy old roommate was in that situation that's why I ask. He had two baby mammas (one black, another Hispanic), by age 21. Both of the mothers moved away with the kids for jobs (one to NC another to RI) and he was like
lol I mean there are a lot of factors. I don't judge every situation the same so unless I am in it I can't only give an idea of what I would do. These things aren't black and white. In a way he is, but being relieved they aren't there
Hell no
The same brehettes chiding men for not cavorting with single mothers, won't mess with single daddies.
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Ashley Banks
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Not my thing, babe. A man can't spoil me if he has to take care of a child.
But I wouldn't say anyone that does is settling and I wouldn't insult any man that is a single father. It's just not what I would do right now.
When im older though yeah, especially since I don't want kids of my own. When ppl ask me why I don't have kids I can be like "wuuuut, i have a stepdaughter/stepson
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Ashley Banks
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We don't care about them not dating single mothers, we just don't get why you guys have to insult them and their children because you don't like them.
KenyaDoll
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No, we are simply answering a question that was specifically asked to us. It's not like us women who don't want to date single fathers are constantly making threads to demean them for their choices; it's really not something that comes up because we don't really focus our attention on who we don't want. What's the point of putting all that negative energy into the world?
I've never felt a man should have to date a single mom, but I also don't see the need to trash single moms and the men who might want to date them. I'm sure this is a difficult concept for you to understand.