Coli Brehs: Advice Needed

[BaldingSoHard]

Question. Do you expect your girl to help you or for her to let you do it all? For example my guy is in the market for a new car.Im off this week so I have some free time. I have a friend who has the plug at a dealership so I called and asked about the car. So I got the details and called my dude and gave him the info. He seemed like he was feeling like I was doing too much. I thought I was being helpful. I wasn't trying to step on toes Coli. What do you guys think? Reading too much into it?

Scrub behavior.

A woman showing interest and actually giving a shyt about something I want... .

 

[The ADD]

Question. Do you expect your girl to help you or for her to let you do it all? For example my guy is in the market for a new car.Im off this week so I have some free time. I have a friend who has the plug at a dealership so I called and asked about the car. So I got the details and called my dude and gave him the info. He seemed like he was feeling like I was doing too much. I thought I was being helpful. I wasn't trying to step on toes Coli. What do you guys think? Reading too much into it?

Not that big of a deal but you should have just said that you would call to see get the information. From there he could have said "yes, please do that" or said he could handle it.

In a vacuum its not that big of a deal.

 

[GetInTheTruck]

never rub another man's rhubarb.

 

[DanniC]

He insecure. Prolly about who this unnamed nicca that was the source of the help. Ya man wondering if you got history w the other dude.

I've been that helpful other guy before. I seen this movie before

shyt sound like u got info from a nikka u use to fukk who work at a dealership

you planted the seed in his head that u a hoe
he aint gone trust u no mo
and prob gone smash a bih on the lo to get revenge

You couldn't be more off target Brehs. This guy is a friend of the family through my dad. Plus absolutely not about that smut cheating life. Not cool. My guy is a great dude I wouldn't even talk to a dude I use to mess with let alone get him involved in my mans business. That's disrespectful.

 

[FlyGuy]

Some guys just don't like to let their females see their struggle no matter how minimal it is. Call it pride, or insecurity. They're both the same thing.


He still loves you though.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

You couldn't be more off target Brehs. This guy is a friend of the family through my dad. Plus absolutely not about that smut cheating life. Not cool. My guy is a great dude I wouldn't even talk to a dude I use to mess with let alone get him involved in my mans business. That's disrespectful.

my point is that is what it sounds like
and what i would be thinking if i was dude

 

[King Poetic]

He's a dumb ass period

I would love for my girl to find a good deal for me if I can't find one...

Let him know u leaving him and see how that fool tear up, fukking ungrateful motherfukkers, no offence

 

[DanniC]

So let's take it a step further. Overall, when should your woman offer help and when should she stay out of it? If you are mad about something would you rather her try to comfort you and give encouraging words or just stay quiet and potentially seem like she doesn't give a shyt. Again I need answers brehs

 

[Taadow]

If a nikka wanted a plug or any secret info, he would have asked.

it's due to not having an expectation and a few other little details like maybe i had my own idea about how to do something. sometimes being a proactive woman about things require better cross-communication between parties.

It's in between these things.

I don't even think it's necessarily a gender thing in this case...a car is a very personal thing.
A car can show someones' personal taste and style, etc. Dude might've had an idea about a different
way to get a deal on a car (even if it was the same kind of car), but now he's in a corner and may feel
like he's gotta go the trail you blazed for him.

For example, I have a friend who was in the market for a car some years ago.
Her grandfather used to work for GM, so he got a decent discount on GM cars.
Her dad used that discount to get her a Chevy Cruze. She didn't want a Chevy Cruze, but she didn't
wanna look that gift horse in the mouth so she kept it pushin'.

Something like this is a major decision for a person, so you can't make major moves for them without checking in with them.

 

[Elle Driver]

shyt sound like u got info from a nikka u use to fukk who work at a dealership

you planted the seed in his head that u a hoe
he aint gone trust u no mo
and prob gone smash a bih on the lo to get revenge

 

[DanniC]

It's in between these things.

I don't even think it's necessarily a gender thing in this case...a car is a very personal thing.
A car can show someones' personal taste and style, etc. Dude might've had an idea about a different
way to get a deal on a car (even if it was the same kind of car), but now he's in a corner and may feel
like he's gotta go the trail you blazed for him.

For example, I have a friend who was in the market for a car some years ago.
Her grandfather used to work for GM, so he got a decent discount on GM cars.
Her dad used that discount to get her a Chevy Cruze. She didn't want a Chevy Cruze, but she didn't
wanna look that gift horse in the mouth so she kept it pushin'.

Something like this is a major decision for a person, so you can't make major moves for them without checking in with them.

But no moves were made. I just called to see if they still had the offer going on. I didn't give them any of his information or sign anything I just called to see if the special was still running

 

[Taadow]

But no moves were made. I just called to see if they still had the offer going on. I didn't give them any of his information or sign anything I just called to see if the special was still running

You called a particular dealership, did you not?

Maybe he doesn't wanna rock with them.

 

[Action Mike]

I take pride in giving my girl tasks and missions

She's an employee in Action Mike lnc.

Your man should delegate, it's what bosses do

 

[Action Mike]

So let's take it a step further. Overall, when should your woman offer help and when should she stay out of it? If you are mad about something would you rather her try to comfort you and give encouraging words or just stay quiet and potentially seem like she doesn't give a shyt. Again I need answers brehs

When he asks for it. Simple.

I don't mind my girl helping, but being a busy body just because is well...just no.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

So let's take it a step further. Overall, when should your woman offer help and when should she stay out of it? If you are mad about something would you rather her try to comfort you and give encouraging words or just stay quiet and potentially seem like she doesn't give a shyt. Again I need answers brehs

I don't know what to tell you, brehette. Personally I love a girl that shows initiative, but then my manhood isn't constructed flimsily. Some dudes say they would be offended, I don't get that.