Coli brehs and brehettes, step in this thread.

[LA Fisher]

it's obvious that black women don't rely on black men as a collective, they rely on the government. thing is, black men get blamed for this when the truth is the government is their first option -- that's their means to independence.

and yes, i see a big problem with living in a b*stardized matriarchal community SURROUNDED by patriarchy; it's designed to raise black males completely ill equipped to deal with other races of men in society. my question for you is this, with generations of men being raised solely by women, who are we supposed to point the finger at?

We point the finger at the men who aren't raising the children. I've never seen another group of people sit back and be okay with men being useless. Not all of us do this but some.

 

[marcuz]

Majority of black women do not depend on the government. Stop.

so you don't believe the majority of BW have used some form of government assistance to get a leg up in society?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

i stand by my comment, and i blame women cus they know the type of dude they're fukking raw to begin with. it's not like these women are thinking about a traditional family unit. yanno, a man with a high paying career that will lead the house hold. they're mainly looking for mindless sperm donors that they can use for child support and get on all the social handouts that's provided to single mothers.

Again hasn't it already been proven that the majority of black men are in their child's lives even if they aren't with the mother? Moreso than any other race.

 

[marcuz]

We point the finger at the men who aren't raising the children. I've never seen another group of people sit back and be okay with men being useless. Not all of us do this but some.

i've never seen another group raised to the exact specifications as black americans, have you?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

so you don't believe the majority of BW have used some form of government assistance to get a leg up in society?

No I don't. If you have proof to correct me, please show it and also again hasn't it been proven that majority of black men are in their children's love even if they aren't with the mother?

 

[marcuz]

Again hasn't it already been proven that the majority of black men are in their child's lives even if they aren't with the mother? Moreso than any other race.

i've heard black fathers that are in their childrens lives tend to do better job at it than other races of men.

and i really don't know how they define BM being in their childrens lives. if you wanna run a link, that would help.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

i've heard black fathers that are in their childrens lives tend to do better job at it than other races of men.

and i really don't know how they define BM being in their childrens lives. if you wanna run a link, that would help.

http://www.kulturekritic.com/2014/01/news/study-black-fathers-involved-dads-america/

 

[Poitier]

There's not too many people who can willingly admit that in some ways they're fukked up, without making any excuses. It's not just a black man thing.

It's the type of excuses that make it different.

 

[marcuz]

http://www.kulturekritic.com/2014/01/news/study-black-fathers-involved-dads-america/

yeah that's the stat i'm talking about. i often sight that when black women act like black men are just shytty fathers. when it's really their choices in men that fukk up the game.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

It's the type of excuses that make it different.

What's a good type?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

yeah that's the stat i'm talking about. i often sight that when black women act like black men are just shytty fathers. when it's really their choices in men that fukk up the game.

So why are you in here saying all that stuff?

 

[Poitier]

What's a good type?

Not a matter of "good" but rather what is and isn't in your control.

 

[LA Fisher]

yeah that's the stat i'm talking about. i often sight that when black women act like black men are just shytty fathers. when it's really their choices in men that fukk up the game.

Do you believe that there are enough quality black men around?

 

[marcuz]

So why are you in here saying all that stuff?

because those stats mainly focus on men that are already in their childrens lives. it's not like they're saying the majority of absent fathers are doing those things. shyt wouldn't even add up in real life unless nikkas could clone themselves and run multiple homes at once.

 

[marcuz]

Do you believe that there are enough quality black men around?

i don't know how you define quality. there's a lot of good black men out here but w/o our own structure and economic turf, are we really "quality"