philmonroe
Superstar
I didn't know black people could be pasty dikksucker smh. Also you told on yourself and your parents so nope don't have to work for any of those agencies even though my cousin works for the CIA.
Coli brehs.......how important is a woman's degree when it comes to dating
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i have a BA, my girl has a MA.
she is doing better than i am.
she is doing better than i am.
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
You only know what I said and my parents are set..... Do me a favor and kill yoself by sitting outside in 100+ degree weather while the sun bakes your Elmer's glue, Elmer Fudd looking ass....
philmonroe
Superstar
Exactly stupid what else can I go by and I bet they are set to get up and work like they been doing the last umpteen years (which isn't nothing wrong with it) but there are new better ways to do things than that now. Be mad and spit weak stuff all you want it changes nothing offline unless you make a change from that bad stuff your parents taught you. Curse me forever and say I look like Elmer Fudd when I'm black as night (well close) if that makes you feel better. I just hope you do try to do something besides be a worker ant all your life.
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
I'm high as hell right now so I got deep with this post breh 
I must be the exception because what you describe is the antithesis of me. I dropped out of college because I realized it was bullshyt and a waste of time. While I was in college for IT, I literally didn't learn shyt. I created my own career by passing certs and climbing my way up from $8.98 (my first IT job) to $100/hr as an IT contractor. I would go from flunking classes in college one semester to being on the deans list the next. All college made me realize is that the people who finished it could 1) afford it (via loans on funds) or 2) have the stable enough environment to complete it. When I was in college my environment was so chaotic to the point i said fukk it about half a dozen times before that.
My girl has a masters in education and make about (55k I think) and I don't give 2 fukks about her degrees or how much she makes. I told her when we get married she can chose to work or chose to be a house wife and she's ready to throw her career in the bushes right now.
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Breh, all you gotta do is look at these broads online dating profile. It's so damn cliche at this point. It's almost as bad as having every nikka online saying "I'm a real ass nikka"
Now maybe all the birds flock online, but if that's the case it's making the level headed black women with a degree look bad.
I must be the exception because what you describe is the antithesis of me. I dropped out of college because I realized it was bullshyt and a waste of time. While I was in college for IT, I literally didn't learn shyt. I created my own career by passing certs and climbing my way up from $8.98 (my first IT job) to $100/hr as an IT contractor. I would go from flunking classes in college one semester to being on the deans list the next. All college made me realize is that the people who finished it could 1) afford it (via loans on funds) or 2) have the stable enough environment to complete it. When I was in college my environment was so chaotic to the point i said fukk it about half a dozen times before that.
My girl has a masters in education and make about (55k I think) and I don't give 2 fukks about her degrees or how much she makes. I told her when we get married she can chose to work or chose to be a house wife and she's ready to throw her career in the bushes right now.
Answers in bold
Breh, all you gotta do is look at these broads online dating profile. It's so damn cliche at this point. It's almost as bad as having every nikka online saying "I'm a real ass nikka"
Now maybe all the birds flock online, but if that's the case it's making the level headed black women with a degree look bad.
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
Sorry, I can see the BS you're spouting anymore.... Well deserved ignore...
philmonroe
Superstar
didn't know I had that much sway over people online
rahji
I ain't never seen no talking winning nothing.
I would think yes, to a certain extent it's important because I use it as a potential way of assessing her career planning, aspirations and her drive. Obviously you can start a wildly successful business or be successful in your career without one... 
but we've seen the dozens of threads talking about how certain college majors have a high average salary and those people are statistically going to have a higher wage than non-college educated. I'm career minded, want a certain lifestyle and want to know your likelihood of being able to achieve that with me.
But I'm not saying any degree counts... (looking at you Sociology, Literature, History majors)
but we've seen the dozens of threads talking about how certain college majors have a high average salary and those people are statistically going to have a higher wage than non-college educated. I'm career minded, want a certain lifestyle and want to know your likelihood of being able to achieve that with me.But I'm not saying any degree counts... (looking at you Sociology, Literature, History majors)
HoustonHeat
In and out
@bdizzle
-I appreciate the response.
-you are the exception, and your story is still interesting, you made good assessment of your strengths and the stable environment factor is a legit point.
- I would be an amazing stay at home mom and part time community activist/volunteer and told dude that if he could earn a certain amount, I would be happy to do so. But considering retirement, savings and travel goals, a dual income can support our lifestyle better till he gets there, if at all. My dude is the one who pushed me for additional degrees, mainly based on the fact that he thought I had great ideas and needed to get the initials after the name to have that career breakthrough. It was important to him that I tapped into my intellectual capabilities. I feel like most women who are content being a target cashier is not thinking longterm or offer as much security/financial support to their partners as a woman with career options. Job loss is a part of life now, one partner needs to be able to carry the other.
- we talk about finances and women combo here all the time, financial dependence was always a concern voiced by the men, but no one discussed women's debts till now.
-I haven't been single or attempted dating online to see if birds are bragging on their degrees or just pointing it out. But like I said, folks with entitlement complexes will act entitled whether they have degrees or not.
-I appreciate the response.
-you are the exception, and your story is still interesting, you made good assessment of your strengths and the stable environment factor is a legit point.
- I would be an amazing stay at home mom and part time community activist/volunteer and told dude that if he could earn a certain amount, I would be happy to do so. But considering retirement, savings and travel goals, a dual income can support our lifestyle better till he gets there, if at all. My dude is the one who pushed me for additional degrees, mainly based on the fact that he thought I had great ideas and needed to get the initials after the name to have that career breakthrough. It was important to him that I tapped into my intellectual capabilities. I feel like most women who are content being a target cashier is not thinking longterm or offer as much security/financial support to their partners as a woman with career options. Job loss is a part of life now, one partner needs to be able to carry the other.
- we talk about finances and women combo here all the time, financial dependence was always a concern voiced by the men, but no one discussed women's debts till now.
-I haven't been single or attempted dating online to see if birds are bragging on their degrees or just pointing it out. But like I said, folks with entitlement complexes will act entitled whether they have degrees or not.
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
It give you a referential idea of where her head was at when she got it
that's pretty much it
that's pretty much it
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
No prob and I actually thought you were a breh. But considering all the tranny threads that's been on here lately you very well may be
Women like you are the ones I said deserve to have the option of being a house wife. Seem like you got the same attitude as my girl
Not to get into your biz and shyt, but if you want to help your man get to that point where he can afford to have y'all live that lifestyle motivate him the right way to help speed up the process. Very few women know how to guide a man in the direction they want the relationship to go. We don't want y'all to dictate shyt to us (why don't you make more money nikka
). We want to feel like we're solving a problem or living up to our role as the men in your lives. My girl is really good at that shyt with me. She never tells me what I should do. She says shyt like "Baby I want you know how proud I am of you for thinking about going back to school 
"All I know is since being with her I've been dreaming bigger than I ever have before in my entire life. Matter fact I'm gonna thank her for that tomorrow
If you wanna laugh, just read this thread
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ridiculous-pof-profiles-and-the-women-who-post-them.249984/
The nikkas are going hard in there so don't mind them just read what some of these broads are saying online
HoustonHeat
In and out
@bdizzle
I've been here since 2012 and don't simp/pm. I'm no tranny.
I don't need to motivate my dude at all, he's one of the smartest/hardest working people I know, got a full ride in undergrad and his goals are bigger than mine. He makes good, sound decisions, I trust that he is moving along at a good pace on his own.
I carried us financially when he was unemployed and he took care of me when I fell ill. No issues of resentment or questioned gender roles took place here. But I wonder how happy we would be if my income wasn't high enough to carry us both during his unemployment. It's one of the things that scares me about being a future stay at home mom until we have substantial deeeeeep savings.
I've been here since 2012 and don't simp/pm. I'm no tranny.
I don't need to motivate my dude at all, he's one of the smartest/hardest working people I know, got a full ride in undergrad and his goals are bigger than mine. He makes good, sound decisions, I trust that he is moving along at a good pace on his own.
I carried us financially when he was unemployed and he took care of me when I fell ill. No issues of resentment or questioned gender roles took place here. But I wonder how happy we would be if my income wasn't high enough to carry us both during his unemployment. It's one of the things that scares me about being a future stay at home mom until we have substantial deeeeeep savings.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
I fel it's my responsibility in my relationship to make sure my girl has to never even ask that question.
Not on my list at all to be honest. Intelligence, hobbies and goals are more important. She's gotta have more to talk about than gossip from work or whatever 
I need to see, at least, a few books sprawled around her crib (real books, not thot erotica
)
I need to see, at least, a few books sprawled around her crib (real books, not thot erotica
)
The actual piece of paper doesn't matter to me. She could be a nurse or work a trade for all I care. Economic stability is key. We gotta have a combined income above 75K with room to grow. Not real big on the GED though unless she's exceptionally bright and just hates organized learning. We gotta be able to discuss books and art and other liberal arts shyt. I like t*ts and ass more than the next man, but smart is sexy too.
