Breh. As stated, get a laugh from girls, as that is the key for 90% of them.
From there you can be passively inquisitive.
"It wasn't that funny, girl, what has you so happy tonight?"
(Im assuming you are talking about trying to get one night stands or trying to get them to come back at a later date)
Get her talking and shut the fukk up. You need to break down her barriers and let her speak for a bit. Stand up straight, get your posture right, but don't take a super dominant stance.
Make her feel like an old friend, which means if she is laughing and carrying on, don't be afraid to tap her on the arm, cause if she likes you, she will do the same.
Think of your interactions like a mental tug of war, in which the loser falls into the winner's bed. Ergo, there are no losers
One thing guys fukk up is saying too much. You have to be able to leave that girl in stitches and not know much more than your name. Meanwhile, you can make observations like
-Her clothing
-The way she holds a drink
-The timid/standoffish way she is standing in front of you (put her at ease)
-etc etc etc
Observational humor and light banter to get her talking. You role is to say humorous and casual things and show absolute 100% comfort in doing so, as if you are catching up with an
old friend. Your body language should be calm and relaxed, and if you are doing your shyt right, she will mirror it. Touch your face, she may unconsciously do the same or follow your
hand with her eyes. There is more to this shyt, but The Coli ain't trying to read my ramblings. Good luck, breh.
From there you can be passively inquisitive.
"It wasn't that funny, girl, what has you so happy tonight?"
(Im assuming you are talking about trying to get one night stands or trying to get them to come back at a later date)
Get her talking and shut the fukk up. You need to break down her barriers and let her speak for a bit. Stand up straight, get your posture right, but don't take a super dominant stance.
Make her feel like an old friend, which means if she is laughing and carrying on, don't be afraid to tap her on the arm, cause if she likes you, she will do the same.
Think of your interactions like a mental tug of war, in which the loser falls into the winner's bed. Ergo, there are no losers
One thing guys fukk up is saying too much. You have to be able to leave that girl in stitches and not know much more than your name. Meanwhile, you can make observations like
-Her clothing
-The way she holds a drink
-The timid/standoffish way she is standing in front of you (put her at ease)
-etc etc etc
Observational humor and light banter to get her talking. You role is to say humorous and casual things and show absolute 100% comfort in doing so, as if you are catching up with an
old friend. Your body language should be calm and relaxed, and if you are doing your shyt right, she will mirror it. Touch your face, she may unconsciously do the same or follow your
hand with her eyes. There is more to this shyt, but The Coli ain't trying to read my ramblings. Good luck, breh.
or i'll try to act super confident and just end up looking stupid
