Coli brehs, what gave you your best feeling as a man?

MasterThought

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Most recent was convincing this younger breh that sagging looks absolutely ridiculous.

A few years ago I had a short talk with him about it (I believe in the concept of "planting seeds" ). Nothing disrespectful, just gave him my opinion that no one will take him seriously in the real world walking around like that.

Ran into the brother a few months ago and he told me that the talk we had years ago had stuck with him and he no longer sags. He's actually embarrassed he ever did it.

Not saying I'm all-knowing but as an older breh (38) I sometimes feel a REQUIREMENT to put younger brehs on to game. To plant seeds in their minds even if they get angry for the moment.

Felt good when he told me that my talk had an impact on him.
 

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First time I hit six figures

Being on stage in front of thousands and getting a standing ovation

Paying off all my student and credit card debt and repairing my credit

Having a stranger recognize you on the street and call you a legend for the work that you do (this happened to me the other day)
 

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Early retirement and financial freedom



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When I graduated college. It took me longer than it was supposed to. Had a bunch of setbacks and hardships during those years. Mom got cancer, did a stint in the military, lost good paying jobs and had to resort to working minimum wage, almost ended up homeless, had a HUGE falling out with my stepdad that to this day hasn't really been resolved, got engaged and the engagement ended, and a bunch of other stuff. Walking across that stage and seeing the look of pride on my mom's face made it worth it. :mjcry:

Close second was buying my first house last year after struggling dealing with this crazy housing market.
 

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making smart but hard decisions that your future self would be proud of really does it for me.

theres something about suffering only to fast forward a year or two, and your whole life is different and it all traces back to that hard decision.

- an ex moved out and left me during the pandemic after moving across the country. Day after she left she called lowkey tryna make it work but had so much pride. I decided to let her go. Got a new chick now, look better than ever, hanging with good friends, keep elevating in my career.

- moving to san diego after graduating knowing nobody abd only having an internship. :wow:

- going back to get my degree

- staying at home during the pandemic once I moved back. Felt like a failure. Bank account is crazy now.

- relinking with one of my homeboys i fell out with in college.

- lastly, deciding to splurge on myself (i have trouble spending on myself) with clothes and shyt. Literally opened doors for me
 

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:salute: @Cormega I had a couple of people say something similar to me about how I treated them like 15 years ago. All I remember telling them was to not be concerned about what people think about them and just do you but this was before social media and everything took off.

The most real man feeling I had was when I started doing community work passing out food and doing community gardens and educating folks on healthy eating and doing toy donations during Christmas, felt like I was making a difference instead of just talking about what other people should be doing,
and on top of that I never speak on it so nobody even know how I'm moving out here
:blessed:
 

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Getting treated a bit shyt by the directors at work, . . Snapping and telling them to stick their job up their culo . . . Walking out there thinking, I'd rather die on my feet than live like a coward .

Then making a phone call and getting the same role, same salary for less hours at an old friends company . . .
 
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Winning fights

performing on stage and having everyone want to talk to me afterwards about my performance

Standing up for my principles
 

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It was once sex but now nothing. I’m always just buying shyt and feeling unsatisfied when it’s in my hands.The waiting period is the closest thing I feel to anticipation/excitement these days.
 
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