fckyoupayme
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That’s ok with me. Being gay doesn’t mean you understand how sexuality worksMillions of gay people would vehemently disagree with you on this one
Coli Brethren Please help, I’m confused.
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OP..
To me, she is a gay woman who is married to a man. You said that she said that she is attracted to the “masculine types”. She didn’t say that she is attracted to masculine men only.
She is still attracted to women, just the masculine type women. According to you, she refuses to acknowledge her being bisexual because she is currently married to a man.
Well, she can refuse to acknowledge whatever she wants, but she can’t deny being attracted to both men and women.
Bottomline, although I personally believe that bisexuality is bs, the fact remains that she isn’t heterosexual. She is a member of the LGBT+ community who is currently in a heterosexual marriage, whether she acknowledges it or not..
To me, she is a gay woman who is married to a man. You said that she said that she is attracted to the “masculine types”. She didn’t say that she is attracted to masculine men only.
She is still attracted to women, just the masculine type women. According to you, she refuses to acknowledge her being bisexual because she is currently married to a man.
Well, she can refuse to acknowledge whatever she wants, but she can’t deny being attracted to both men and women.
Bottomline, although I personally believe that bisexuality is bs, the fact remains that she isn’t heterosexual. She is a member of the LGBT+ community who is currently in a heterosexual marriage, whether she acknowledges it or not..
If she’s denying it then she’s downlow. We always hear about downlow men, but refuse to attach that label to women as many posters have already opted to the “she doesn’t want to be labeled”. Nope, she’s a downlow monster if she currently denies having same sex feelings.
My youngest brother was in a relationship with a downlow female. After their breakup, which deeply affected him, he has told me he will never marry and never have children. Women play that game just as well as men.
My youngest brother was in a relationship with a downlow female. After their breakup, which deeply affected him, he has told me he will never marry and never have children. Women play that game just as well as men.
Chrome2279
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OK this is an interesting perspective, but it doesn’t really apply to everything. Because I like feminine women, so just because I like feminine women doesn’t mean I like feminine energy because I would never fall for a feminine man. So to me this argument doesn’t really make much sense, unless I’m misunderstanding the whole point all together.
You're close. You can fall for anyone that you allow yourself to fall for.
What you like is shaped by a thousand factors, society and its laws being a huge one. Society largely shapes an individual's psychology.
There is nature's innate need to reproduce, although as we see, this can easily be circumvented...
Also, this one is huge, is chemistry. The earthly experience is heavily based on physical feeling. It's the difference between being alive and dead. Every individual has a unique cocktail of hormonal elements that can potentially interact uniquely with each person on earth. The combinations that feel good are what people think of as attraction or chemistry.
Even with all of these factors fighting to shape your personality...FREE WILL allows humans to let all energy flow through us... allowing us to pick and choose which energy to use and what we choose to do with it.