AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Most of these dudes don't understand that there are different ideologies within feminism, many of whose views align with theirs, and automatically jump to the belief that radical feminism = all feminism.
Coli bruhs...whats your REAL problem with feminism?
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Finding a "better" leader is not the same as the "men are meant to lead" ideology that you normally kick. You normally say "men are meant/should lead women" and I can't get with that b/c it sexist. I understand that is how YOU achieved happiness/balance but saying that your happiness is everyone's happiness is just silly. There are so many types of people and relationships that painting a broad picture of what is "right" for everyone walking the planet is not logical.
I haven't even given my personal philology so "you wouldnt follow his lead just because you dont want anyone leading you" is not a fair assumption. Also "You'd rather take off your clothes for demons instead of meeting someone like that? How is that constructive?" is very presumptuous b/c you are assuming that all strippers aren't married or in happy relationships which I can assure you is not the case.
If you want to know how I feel about the subject, I would tell you that I don't believe in leaders. I believe in balance and people following into the role that is required of them in the relationship. And if I had to choose between stripping and having a man who wants to dominate me, shame me (for my profession) and lead/control me I would happily take the job. The type of man you describe is quite common and undesirable in my eyes.
Marvel
Psalm 149:5-9
Most people on the board are referring to the black feminist ideology. After white feminism accomplished equal rights/access to property, jobs, voting, etc. Everything else has become excessive and destructive to the black community. When feminism is being used to destroy black masculinity and changing what it means to be man, then there is a major problem.
Marvel
Psalm 149:5-9
Exactly, feminism is like drinking milk for someone that can handle it. When they drink it, there are no adverse reactions and a tangible benefit. White people have shown that they can handle it. The black community is like someone that is lactose intolerant and trying to drink milk, but when they drink it, it has adverse reactions. And what we see that by taking this "milk" the black community has only suffered from diarrhea and upset stomachs and no tangible benefit.
It's really not a conversation where my job should come into question but you wanted to use it as an excuse to call me stupid b/c you don't like my opinion. You could have just addressed my opinion but instead you tried to take a personal jab instead of going the intellectual route and keep to the conversation that is actually at hand. But having a serious conversation on this board is not all that common so your statements are expected. You have not offended me.
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
I also hate feminism because I can't fukking stand upper middle class white girls in university telling me that I'm privileged over them.
BlvdBrawler
Superstar
I don't mind moderate feminism, but you don't usually encounter those types.
It's usually the "penises are evil, men are the devil" crowd that make the most noise, and anything that radical is usually stupid.
It's usually the "penises are evil, men are the devil" crowd that make the most noise, and anything that radical is usually stupid.
It's an arm of the progressive/critical theory/marxist crowd. Therefore, it is harmful to communities, family health, and personal relationships. It also relies on feelings, personal stories and broad, unsubstantiated hypothesis as it's idealogical foundation. It, along with critical race theory/gender studies are academically bankrupt.
I AM trying to have a very serious conversation with you miss...and your professional is actually very important.....i would also like to know your nationality because if you are not a melenated sister..then this information is not for you....
Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
Exactly. I keep hearing about how "Not all feminists are like that!" But then again, I hear very little repudiation of the extremists' actual ideas. Therefore, the loud minority within their ranks has become the public majority.
I thought women in your industry were looking for a knight in shining armor to take them away from all of this. Would you say that most women in your field are just looking for a sucker with money so they can say,hmmm let me take you away from all this. I have friends in your industry and they seem like they'd rather be doing something else. Its a very mentally taxing industry.
, friend.
Most of the strippers I know are gay and date each other.
Also A LOT of them love the life. LOVE IT. They literally buy $150 outfits and $200 shoes to dance in and pay to get their make up done every day. The vast majority of unhappy strippers I know are the ones that don't make any money. But you live in LA, yes? The environment is different in DC. There are strippers out here who are local celebrities and they eat it up. Don't get me wrong, there are some depressed girls but to say "stripper = X type of person" is not accurate.
Because modern feminism is an acidic and highly destructive philosophy. Women said they wanted equality, but as soon as the repercussions of being a man came to them, then they wanted to start 'picking and choosing' equality. Sorry, you can't do that. You either take the whole deal or none at all. Women want to be able to punch, kick, spit on men and verbally abuse them but have nothing happen back to them because 'they are women.' But on the same note, they want to be taken just as seriously as men. They don't want to follow under a man's lead, but they want that man's protection and want him to pay for dinners. These feminists cry about the patriarchy, but I bet you they would not go with a bunch of women to start their own nation. They are spitting in the face of men keeping them safe in services such as the military or police force... spitting in the face of the men building society in jobs like construction. They also play verbal games and use highly offensive terminology like 'rape culture' as if the average man is a potential rapist just waiting to take them, when on average,men despise rapists. I can go on and on. These feminist say they want equality, but they only want it when it's beneficial to them.