Dog Based Gremlin
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How do you entertain them all day? And how many years have you had this set up of every other weekend
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Genuine question
Coli Dads who see their children every other Weekend...
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Joe Budden
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Dog Based Gremlin
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What ya mean?
Adam3000
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Honestly, if you can't figure out a way on your own to entertain your kids for 2 days out of 14, you might be a deadbeat
Like my dad. Picked us up MAYBE once per month...drove us to his house drunk, did nothing but watch TV and play in the yard all weekend
I can't imagine seeing my kids that rarely, and if I did I GUARANTEE i would have so much fun shyt lined up there wouldn't be enough hours in the day to do it all
Like my dad. Picked us up MAYBE once per month...drove us to his house drunk, did nothing but watch TV and play in the yard all weekend
I can't imagine seeing my kids that rarely, and if I did I GUARANTEE i would have so much fun shyt lined up there wouldn't be enough hours in the day to do it all
MajesticLion
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1. Time with them should always come first. Good luck getting cooperation from parties outside your control on that.
2. Put yourself on a budget for 3-6 months where 50-65% of your income never sees your pocket, and you'll have an idea of what's what.
Intentionally ignoring objective realities - the child-support/location variables especially - won't help anyone.
2. Put yourself on a budget for 3-6 months where 50-65% of your income never sees your pocket, and you'll have an idea of what's what.
Intentionally ignoring objective realities - the child-support/location variables especially - won't help anyone.
MoveForward
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I get my kid every weekend and I’ve been doing this for two years now. We usually start our mornings with a really big breakfast and cartoons. I ask him what he wants to do and he usually wants to hit a trampoline park, Dave and Buster’s or the basketball court. In the evening we may hit a Falcon’, Braves, or Hawks game.
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New Jeruz Jewelz
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When my son was little I was on this bullshyt default schedule. They throw a Wed in there as well. That’s literally about 4 days a month if you work days like I did back then.
Just the thought makes me mad.
When kids get older they start to see the bullshyt for themselves. My son is with me all the time now outside of school. I coached his football team until high school. Right not we’re working on designing clothes and investing.
It’s easy for a father to quit because the game is designed for single parent households. I saw the signs on the wall. I feel for those men that toss in the towel. It’s easier to do so but being a parent is the greatest honor in the world.
Just the thought makes me mad.When kids get older they start to see the bullshyt for themselves. My son is with me all the time now outside of school. I coached his football team until high school. Right not we’re working on designing clothes and investing.
It’s easy for a father to quit because the game is designed for single parent households. I saw the signs on the wall. I feel for those men that toss in the towel. It’s easier to do so but being a parent is the greatest honor in the world.Hypothetically, if I was in that situation, I would want us to be engaging in meaningful experiences where we can bond - golfing, tennis, hiking, fishing, hunting, camping, sailing, etc.
Also would start projects that require the labor of all of us to finish. So something like a woodworking project building a SUP board, canoe, furniture, etc. Something they can look forward to doing but requires all of us to complete.
Also would start projects that require the labor of all of us to finish. So something like a woodworking project building a SUP board, canoe, furniture, etc. Something they can look forward to doing but requires all of us to complete.
Deadbeat shyt.
They aint prepared to sacrifice their own happiness for their own children.