Coli fam please tell me if I was wrong for this...

[The Coochie Assassin]

After reading over the OP again, u messed up by letting her lead. She was basically controlling the whole situation then you tried to take the lead from her.

So I met this girl, we've been kicking it for a couple dates nothing heavy. Tonight we hit up a spot played pool and then hit up this bar in Atlanta.

Afterwards she's like let's hit up your place (you shoulda said this). I'm like cool. Mind you the whole night we're vibing she's giving me all the signals. So we get to my place I pour some wine and she on the couch looking all sexy. I play some music and she's like play some Chicago r&b (you shoulda been suckin titties and not even worrying about music at this point), she then proceeds to give me a lap dance and whatever.

She's then like my thighs hurt (indirectly telling you to give me a massage), so naturally I'm like let me massage them for you, so I do. And we're laughing and what not so I go to kiss her and she playing hard to get. Then she's like give me a foot massage (massage #2 demand)...my face goes. Like right now? While I'm rubbing your thigh and trying to kiss you?

She like yea it's very important to me. Long story short, we go back and forth and I'm like well I'm not so what now. I take her home and we talking about this bullshyt the whole ride. She talk bout she gotta mKe sure her needs are met and she wanted to spend the night but she need a foot massage first.

Just pulling up to the crib now, dropped her ass off and deleted her number.

 

[PimpHandStrong]

After reading over the OP again, u messed up by letting her lead. She was basically controlling the whole situation then you tried to take the lead from her.

Yea bruh I grew up all over the east side, Off south deshon Rd, Waldrop in Ellen wood, stay on Decatur now.

But anyway, you're partly right I did give her too much lead way but I told her to show me where her thighs were tight and I was pulling her on me before she starting about the feet shyt. Either way hindsight tells me ain't no way I was going to sucking on some titties if she pulled this trick me.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

I AINT mad at you op but FUCC winen and dinen she should've went starightt to scatting

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

It seemed like shorty knew she was gonna fukk from the moment she saw you and was intent on making it happen, it's just that both of ya'll personalities disagreed with each other. Yeah her timing could have been off, but if she suggested you go back to your place she pretty much saying you getting the draws or head/make out at least so don't fukk it up.

You give her wine and she requesting the type of music that gets her in the mood and you get a lap dance outta that. You still good.

Then you step it up and massage her thighs without being asked and you still doing good.
She then asks you to massage her feet and you so intent on getting p*ssy presented to you the way you want it, you don't see that she was tossing you the final alley oop. All you had to do was swallow your pride a little and finesse that puss with a lil foot massage, but instead you drop the ball.

Shorty pretty much gave you a walk through on how she likes to do things and you botched it at the final step.

Once you did that, it was no use in even taking her home and dealing with that headache. If you gone be hard on hoes, be hard on hoes all the way. Shorty would have taken a cab or uber home that night. I mean you wouldn't rub her feet, so why be a gentleman now and take her home after that shyt.

That's just my opinion though. If shorty had some jacked up feet or you ain't with impromptu foot massages than yeah I guess you did the right thing.

If shorty wasn't worth that lil extra step, then you good. I respect that. Hell, why lower your standards and do something for somebody that you feel ain't worth it.

 

[Address_Unknown]

Can someone explain to me why this is such a big deal?

I always see people say this but never got it. Does it hae to do with the Seinfeld episode?

Large portion of dudes in here ain't fukking with Seinfeld or to the point to know a out the Keith Hernandez episode but I guess it's just the gist of the whole thing.

Airport runs are usually early in the morning when you ain't normally up.

Requires Gas if the shyts far away.

You more than likely gotta lug a bag even if it's just to check out.

So you up early, you spending money cause of a chick you Prolly ain't smashed (Coli penalty) and you carrying her bag while she snap chat the dude you picked her up from pictures of her p*ssy in the bathroom before the flight.

Being courteous to chicks you ain't smashing or done smashed is generally frowned upon here.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Reread your own story. She was giving you directions the whole night. That was your fault for setting that precedent

 

[WhereIsTheLove]

Rubbing feet is crossing the line?

Let's you know right there that y'all have no business having sex with each other...

You want to dig in her p*ssy but not be intimate

Everyone has their thing that makes them tick...

Dudes out chea not even trying to find out what gets they woman off...

Sex must suck for you detatched emotionally folks

Never in my life of bedding great looking women have I been asked to rub feet before laying the pipe.

 

[MWinn]

Rubbing feet is crossing the line?

Let's you know right there that y'all have no business having sex with each other...

You want to dig in her p*ssy but not be intimate

Everyone has their thing that makes them tick...

Dudes out chea not even trying to find out what gets they woman off...

Sex must suck for you detatched emotionally folks

Youre right, men need to learn how to put in work for what they want Not every woman is easy or predictable. Some of us actually lead with our minds not emotions.

 

[Colicat]

Never in my life of bedding great looking women have I been asked to rub feet before laying the pipe.

You just haven't run into a woman who is into it... I bet you if you offered your girl one now, she wouldn't say no

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

A lot of women appreciate/get off on a man who is WILLING to please...

But it shouldn't matter though because you are HOH & OTTN .

Hi

 

[MWinn]

I've never had to ask for a foot massage, it's always been something that is just done. I assumed men like giving foot massages, this is something new.

You better step your game up OP

Because those foot massages are

 

[PimpHandStrong]

It seemed like shorty knew she was gonna fukk from the moment she saw you and was intent on making it happen, it's just that both of ya'll personalities disagreed with each other. Yeah her timing could have been off, but if she suggested you go back to your place she pretty much saying you getting the draws or head/make out at least so don't fukk it up.

You give her wine and she requesting the type of music that gets her in the mood and you get a lap dance outta that. You still good.

Then you step it up and massage her thighs without being asked and you still doing good.
She then asks you to massage her feet and you so intent on getting p*ssy presented to you the way you want it, you don't see that she was tossing you the final alley oop. All you had to do was swallow your pride a little and finesse that puss with a lil foot massage, but instead you drop the ball.

Shorty pretty much gave you a walk through on how she likes to do things and you botched it at the final step.

Once you did that, it was no use in even taking her home and dealing with that headache. If you gone be hard on hoes, be hard on hoes all the way. Shorty would have taken a cab or uber home that night. I mean you wouldn't rub her feet, so why be a gentleman now and take her home after that shyt.

That's just my opinion though. If shorty had some jacked up feet or you ain't with impromptu foot massages than yeah I guess you did the right thing.

If shorty wasn't worth that lil extra step, then you good. I respect that. Hell, why lower your standards and do something for somebody that you feel ain't worth it.

If I could rep you I would. Pretty solid breakdown there. She was pretty much throwing it at me but I just didn't care enough to follow through anymore

Then once we got to her spot, she was like so um if I put my feet in your lap right now you going to massage them. Really after all this bullshyt smh

 

[GoFlipAPack]

Was the ass phat?

 

[WhereIsTheLove]

You just haven't run into a woman who is into it... I bet you if you offered your girl one now, she wouldn't say no

I got to give to you brehettes. Yall are clever with the comebacks

 

[Draje]

fukk feet

I've shoved girlfriends outta my bed for touching me with their feet (above the waist).

I dunno what it is but I find most feet gross. At most, I'll call them passable and won't care about them but I'll never just start massaging a females feet, even if they're dimes.