Coli Incel? True Forced Loneliness? Meet your match....The female incel.

[Neuromancer]

Trust me there are women who have a hard time finding someone. I have a friend who isn’t conventionally attractive and to most people would be considered very ugly (not to me). Men don’t approach her, I thought she was exaggerating when she explained her life to me, but I’ve noticed how men treat her over the years. Many don’t even acknowledge her on a friendly level. They’ll say hi to me and the other girls and ignore her. She tried online dating and got some hits but only seems to attract weirdo white /Asian men with fetishes. On average it’s easier for women to find someone I can admit that, but you have to be at least somewhat attractive or ‘decent ugly’ as I like to call it. There are certainly women out there that aren’t getting any play and when they do it’s usually from the worst kind.

what you think the ratio is? Does your friend try to look attractive? Does she dress nice? Ia she fat?

 

[Anti-Anime]

this thread funny as fukk

 

[Betty Draper]

That's her lane

No, it’s really not. Most men of all races don’t give her play in general, but bottom of the barrel white and Asian men probably think she easier to score because she’s a black women and they already have low opinions of us. That’s how most of them think, white men especially have this mentality. They can be a lowly 3 yet think they can approach an attractive, put together black women because they think their white skin is enough. In my friend’s case these crusty white men thought they’d have a chance because they knew she wasn’t getting play like that.

 

[Betty Draper]

what you think the ratio is? Does your friend try to look attractive? Does she dress nice? Ia she fat?

Really low ratio. I’ve known her for years now, I’ve seen one man approach her. Most of the guys she’s been involved with she met online and it was short lived. Now she has a habit of lying to our other friends about imaginary men, so it’s not that clear anymore. She was talking about an ‘ex bf’ last time but she’s never had a boyfriend.

She’s not fat, she is tall though. She told me sometimes she’s addressed as ‘sir’ by strangers but I think this is more to do with how she dresses. To be fair she does not dress up, wear make up or try to look presentable. Apart from all that I’d say her constant self loathing is the root of the issue. She’s way too hard on herself. She’s thinks she’s fat when she’s not, she just needs to go to the gym and get toned up if she wants that extra confidence. She has stretch marks so constantly wears bagging clothing to hide her ‘fat body’ and stretch marks. The thing is I’ve seen her body with limited clothing and she’s fine. She’s very smart, funny, generally nice. If she put work in she could look half way decent by society standards. She even told me she doubts the few times she does get approached. So to me she projects a lot of negative energy which in turn makes her less attractive and unapproachable. But I understand her perspective, from what she told me she was bullied severely throughout school. So now she has very low self esteem. In a round about way I have suggested shopping for clothes make up but she’s just not there yet. She needs to break down those mental barriers first. This is the thing with most incels, they usually project energy that puts off the opposite sex. They need to work on their self esteem and mental stuff first.

 

[paperbag]

No, it’s really not. Most men of all races don’t give her play in general, but bottom of the barrel white and Asian men probably think she easier to score because she’s a black women and they already have low opinions of us. That’s how most of them think, white men especially have this mentality. They can be a lowly 3 yet think they can approach an attractive, put together black women because they think their white skin is enough. In my friend’s case these crusty white men thought they’d have a chance because they knew she wasn’t getting play like that.

If the only men that give her attention are crusty white and Asians, then yeah that's her lane.
You just said everyone else thinks she's very ugly, if black men aren't even willing to say hi to her, she must look really bad. Has she looked into plastic surgery?

 

[Neuromancer]

Really low ratio. I’ve known her for years now, I’ve seen one man approach her. Most of the guys she’s been involved with she met online and it was short lived. Now she has a habit of lying to our other friends about imaginary men, so it’s not that clear anymore. She was talking about an ‘ex bf’ last time but she’s never had a boyfriend.

She’s not fat, she is tall though. She told me sometimes she’s addressed as ‘sir’ by strangers but I think this is more to do with how she dresses. To be fair she does not dress up, wear make up or try to look presentable. Apart from all that I’d say her constant self loathing is the root of the issue. She’s way too hard on herself. She’s thinks she’s fat when she’s not, she just needs to go to the gym and get toned up if she wants that extra confidence. She has stretch marks so constantly wears bagging clothing to hide her ‘fat body’ and stretch marks. The thing is I’ve seen her body with limited clothing and she’s fine. She’s very smart, funny, generally nice. If she put work in she could look half way decent by society standards. She even told me she doubts the few times she does get approached. So to me she projects a lot of negative energy which in turn makes her less attractive and unapproachable. But I understand her perspective, from what she told me she was bullied severely throughout school. So now she has very low self esteem. In a round about way I have suggested shopping for clothes make up but she’s just not there yet. She needs to break down those mental barriers first. This is the thing with most incels, they usually project energy that puts off the opposite sex. They need to work on their self esteem and mental stuff first.

Sounds like what most guys go through. Sorry to hear. She may need therapy. You're a decent friend for trying to help.

 

[Betty Draper]

If the only men that give her attention are crusty white and Asians, then yeah that's her lane.
You just said everyone else thinks she's very ugly, if black men aren't even willing to say hi to her, she must look really bad. Has she looked into plastic surgery?

Damn. That’s harsh. I don’t think she’d get plastic surgery. Like my previous post said, like most incels it’s more of a mental thing.

 

[Betty Draper]

Sounds like what most guys go through. Sorry to hear. She may need therapy. You're a decent friend for trying to help.

Yeah, she does need therapy. She has way more confidence than she had when I first met her and she’s working on her issues now. So that’s good.

 

[Neuromancer]

Yeah, she does need therapy. She has way more confidence than she had when I first met her and she’s working on her issues now. So that’s good.

You should tell her to create a fake life like your husband. Might help.

 

[Betty Draper]

You should tell her to create a fake life like your husband. Might help.

LOL Donald Draper was a mess because of his fake life and actually had low self esteem. Best to embrace yourself and improve where necessary

 

[Neuromancer]

LOL Donald Draper was a mess because of his fake life and actually had low self esteem. Best to embrace yourself and improve where necessary

He was born in a whore house .

 

[Betty Draper]

He was born in a whore house .

He wasn’t born there, he just grew up in one.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Trust me there are women who have a hard time finding someone. I have a friend who isn’t conventionally attractive and to most people would be considered very ugly (not to me). Men don’t approach her, I thought she was exaggerating when she explained her life to me, but I’ve noticed how men treat her over the years. Many don’t even acknowledge her on a friendly level. They’ll say hi to me and the other girls and ignore her. She tried online dating and got some hits but only seems to attract weirdo white /Asian men with fetishes. On average it’s easier for women to find someone I can admit that, but you have to be at least somewhat attractive or ‘decent ugly’ as I like to call it. There are certainly women out there that aren’t getting any play and when they do it’s usually from the worst kind.

Maybe she gives off a bad vibe, doesn’t smile or legit crazy. I’m not gonna go the “ugly” route cause men will have sex with a ugly chick like crystal Westbrook

 

[Neuromancer]

He wasn’t born there, he just grew up in one.

What's the difference?

 

[Betty Draper]

What's the difference?

You’re right. It’s fukked up either way.