Coli ladies - Did you ever let a good man get away?

[Dusty Bake Activate]

No, people commenting without reading then attempting to school you really grinds my gears.

I did read and comprehend you fully, but it doesn't matter. Never mind. Good luck with your future sexual endeavors and may your partners be 100% hetero.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Spoiler

Yes we had sex and no it was not good. His addiction to masturbation made sex last forever to the point that I would literally be like...let's stop or we'd both just fall asleep right in the middle of it.

Also, him being DL (which is pretty much what he is) won't make him more likely to cheat than anyone else, but people (men and women) cheat. His DL status opened up a whole new world of possibility in regard to whom he might cheat on me with. Any woman would be stupid to knowingly have sex (protected or not) with a man who has sex with men, especially in ATL. Also, nothing about men having sex with other men turns me on.

Sir, you live your lifestyle and let others live theres (which is what I let him do). People aren't required to want to have sex or a relationship with anyone for whatever reason they choose. I am not into gay or bisexual men.

@ the spoiler box.....Normally dudes with that condition have what's known as "death grip" and have a hard time keeping it up(nh)

But maybe it affects some dudes differently

 

[KenyaDoll]

I did read and comprehend you fully, but it doesn't matter. Never mind. Good luck with your future sexual emdeavors and may your partners be 100% hetero.

No you didn't and I should be wishing you luck since it takes forever for you to make your woman cum

 

[Dusty Bake Activate]

No you didn't and I should be wishing you luck since it takes forever for you to make your woman cum

It really doesn't. You can ask her/them. You seem you need to cum yourself though.

 

[InDePickWest]

Three times.

One was just too boring. Don't act like you guys would stay with a girl who bored you outta your mind. He was into this jiu Jitsu shyt and I couldn't take anymore of the hour conversations we would have about something I couldn't give a darn about. He was BEAUTIFUL though but I got bored.

One was a pushover. He was beautiful, sweet and very respectful but we were walking and a guy slapped me on my ass..he looked at me, didn't make eye contact with the guy, put his head down grabbed my hand and preceded to walk me into the grocery store. The guy and his friends laughed. I can appreciate a guy who's a gentle giant but no woman is gonna respect you after that. Might as well be with another woman. Men are supposed to protect. I found myself losing respect for him after that incident..finally until I just ended it.

Last one was my ex-fiancé. We took a break because we've been together since 7th grade and got engaged the dinner party of our high school graduation our parents threw for us. I wouldn't say he got away but we're not technically together since I moved for college and he's working so many hours a week. I'd say we're gonna get married.

 

[Danny Up]

Three times.

One was just too boring. Don't act like you guys would stay with a girl who bored you outta your mind. He was into this jiu Jitsu shyt and I couldn't take anymore of the hour conversations we would have about something I couldn't give a darn about. He was BEAUTIFUL though but I got bored.

One was a pushover. He was beautiful, sweet and very respectful but we were walking and a guy slapped me on my ass..he looked at me, didn't make eye contact with the guy, put his head down grabbed my hand and preceded to walk me into the grocery store. The guy and his friends laughed. I can appreciate a guy who's a gentle giant but no woman is gonna respect you after that. Might as well be with another woman. Men are supposed to protect. I found myself losing respect for him after that incident..finally until I just ended it.

Last one was my ex-fiancé. We took a break because we've been together since 7th grade and got engaged the dinner party of our high school graduation our parents threw for us. I wouldn't say he got away but we're not technically together since I moved for college and he's working so many hours a week. I'd say we're gonna get married.

Boring is subjective.

Eh, he's in a lose lose situation. nikkas is obviously looking for trouble. He could've said something and got his ass beat or shot the fukk up. You could've said or did something I mean it was your ass. Another scenario. he could be a lowkey goon. He let it slide for that moment and came through later and laid it down. You never now. Everybody don't want to be known.

 

[Orange cream shake]

I did. He was that dude my dad really liked and our families were pretty cool. We had moments but nothing was carried through. He was a really good dude. Smart well mannered. He sucked at baseball but he was a good dude. I lucked up with my husband. He loyal and old fashion. I'm happy with my life. Dude wasn't the one that got away but more so a missed opportunity.

 

[PimpHandStrong]

im just sayin...i would rather have a threesome w/ a girl and a tranny than a girl and a guy...

obviously a girl and a girl would be most optimal...but you know...beggars cant be choosers.

Your reasoning is dumb, but it doesn't make me feel better or worse.

Someone choosing now to be with someone because of their sexual past is dumb?? Only on the coli. Your ass must be feeling some type of way, cuz I'm thinking your past must be shady as fukk.

My questions would be a) did you have sex with him? b) was the sex good?

If the answer to both was yes, I don't see what difference the history makes unless you think it would make him more likely to cheat.

Hold up there

nikkas that fukk wit trannies aint gay or bi or none a dat shyt. We straight

The coli endorses fukkin trannies now?? Forreal, that's what we doing now???

 

[InDePickWest]

Boring is subjective.

Eh, he's in a lose lose situation. nikkas is obviously looking for trouble. He could've said something and got his ass beat or shot the fukk up. You could've said or did something I mean it was your ass. Another scenario. he could be a lowkey goon. He let it slide for that moment and came through later and laid it down. You never now. Everybody don't want to be known.

Nah. He was a pushover. I let it slide cuz I liked him and his laid back personality but he was too soft. **Waits for Coli nikkas to come in and say I'm the typical black woman**. Dude had no backbone. When his boys would clown on him he'd just sit there instead of clowning back
I found myself clowning his nikkas FOR HIM

All in all I just couldn't do him no more

 

[The Embellished Bell Hair]

Someone choosing now to be with someone because of their sexual past is dumb?? Only on the coli. Your ass must be feeling some type of way, cuz I'm thinking your past must be shady as fukk.






The coli endorses fukkin trannies now?? Forreal, that's what we doing now???

I'm probably the least freaky person in this forum.

I'm not the speaker of the coli, and I'm not endorsing anything, so you can relax on that front. You know what: fukk that guy. I don't care enough to stick up for the dude any more.

Dude fukked around, but if there was no evidence he was doing it any more, then the past is the past but the chick couldn't let it go. That sounds like her insecurities, and not his. If she was concerned that he was carrying something then get him tested and if you think he's engaging in some cheating behavior (and to my experience there's usually red flags when someone is acting shady), then kick his ass to the curb. If he doesn't go along with any of that on account of his shady history, then dump him too. But it's pretty clear she didn't like that guy all that much anyway.

It sounds like she got involved with a guy before knowing what she was in for and was all "Oh shyt"

Furthermore, she probably just taught that guy never to open up like that again to someone else. Congratulations, you've just got another stealth guy creeping around the ATL like a submarine waiting for its time to strike.

Lastly, he was into some freaky shyt that would have turned off many people, especially conservative Ms. Two Stroke Banger here, so the guy was an idiot for even opening up with that. So fukk him too.

I think she's either leaving out some details about how the admission came about, or she was dating a real dumb dumb.

The entire situation seems stupid, but I think my opinion's been expressed enough. I think I'm done trying to wrap my mind around this.

 

[Danny Up]

Nah. He was a pushover. I let it slide cuz I liked him and his laid back personality but he was too soft. **Waits for Coli nikkas to come in and say I'm the typical black woman**. Dude had no backbone. When his boys would clown on him he'd just sit there instead of clowning back
I found myself clowning his nikkas FOR HIM

All in all I just couldn't do him no more

I don't know. I was never into that dozens or whatever the fukk it was. I'd sit there and then when I had enough I'd punch somebody in the face or hit it em in the head with a bottle. Some would consider that thin skinned or soft. Ehh.

 

[KOOL-AID]

of course not

u always make me feel special bff, thnks

 

[Marciano]

Yeah, he's awesome. College grad, family man, active in his community, athlete, drug-free, Christian and a personal trainer. We have mad sexual chemistry and have known each other for years but I have too much baggage to try and tie him down. Plus, I dont think we'd be good in the long run, im too ratchet at heart. He's too straight edge and judgemental.

Was this the first admission, in this thread, of a woman admitting it was her fault & not his?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Three times.

One was just too boring. Don't act like you guys would stay with a girl who bored you outta your mind. He was into this jiu Jitsu shyt and I couldn't take anymore of the hour conversations we would have about something I couldn't give a darn about. He was BEAUTIFUL though but I got bored.

One was a pushover. He was beautiful, sweet and very respectful but we were walking and a guy slapped me on my ass..he looked at me, didn't make eye contact with the guy, put his head down grabbed my hand and preceded to walk me into the grocery store. The guy and his friends laughed. I can appreciate a guy who's a gentle giant but no woman is gonna respect you after that. Might as well be with another woman. Men are supposed to protect. I found myself losing respect for him after that incident..finally until I just ended it.

Last one was my ex-fiancé. We took a break because we've been together since 7th grade and got engaged the dinner party of our high school graduation our parents threw for us. I wouldn't say he got away but we're not technically together since I moved for college and he's working so many hours a week. I'd say we're gonna get married.

So the other 2 boyfriends you dropped happened when you were 12 or something?

 

[Desirous]

No.