Coli Ladies - What's your opinion on this thread?

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I read through most of it. It's about women desiring to be happy in their relationship, or they will leave unlike their grandparents/parents. I get it.

If past generations were abusive or unhappy.

My question is: How do we fix this? No relationship/friendship is always happy.
 

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Funny thing is
A lot of grandfathers weren’t happy in the selection they made in mates/marriage as well
A lot of nikkas was just marrying because a mistake baby was made
Women only see shyt one sided not knowing some of their grandmothers were emotional terrorist which they past down to their daughters and to them
Making them miserable mates and people as a whole:yeshrug:
I’m sleep tho:unimpressed:
 

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I'm sorry bro but ugly womens' opinion dont matter

Look at her profile picture.... close-up headshot and neck-rolls.

bytch fat as hell.

She most likely bisexual also

LGBT babble.
Its not her opinion. Read the thread, theres thousdands of women telling their own version.

I'm not saying I buy it. But I do know moms/gmas are likely sneakily filling their daughters and granddaughters head with adult problems.

plenty of fine women in there agreeing.

so if it is a thing, can two ppl in 2021 even be together if happiness is the measuring stick. Seems like no one wants to do the work to be happy
 

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Grandmothers for the most part didn’t have to work, be in the workforce competing and dealing with other people.

Had families early on, stability.

Women today are either in the hustle and bustle of work society. A lot of women gotta go back to work a couple months after having kids.

Are they really happy tho?
 

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Its not her opinion. Read the thread, theres thousdands of women telling their own version.

I'm not saying I buy it. But I do know moms/gmas are likely sneakily filling their daughters and granddaughters head with adult problems.

plenty of fine women in there agreeing.

so if it is a thing, can two ppl in 2021 even be together if happiness is the measuring stick. Seems like no one wants to do the work to be happy

First world countries are about doing business, getting money and smashing whores.

Not finding love or happiness in relationships.

If you wanna be in love and start a family then leave America, go to an island nation somewhere, and live comfortably in the mountains.

If youre trying to find love and start a family in America ---- then you stupid.

America is about money & sex
 

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Grandmothers for the most part didn’t have to work, be in the workforce competing and dealing with other people.

Had families early on, stability.

Women today are either in the hustle and bustle of work society. A lot of women gotta go back to work a couple months after having kids.

Are they really happy tho?
Well yea, but I also agree that they didnt have the options to work like that then.

:yeshrug: At least not like today.

all this shyt is a simulated run.

i also think happiness is an internal thing. Ppl can find it temporarily in others, but eventually you have to face it.

thats also a reason why marriage shyt fails today.
 

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First world countries are about doing business, getting money and smashing whores.

Not finding love or happiness in relationships.

If you wanna be in love and start a family then leave America, go to an island nation somewhere, and live comfortably in the mountains.

If youre trying to find love and start a family in America ---- then you stupid.

America is about money & sex
I dont disagree. But whats the solution
 

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I dont disagree. But whats the solution

There is no solution bro... For the most part - women from 1st world countries are useless.

In the modern era, the best position for men to be is a CEO or business owner.

Women give 100% obedience to the men that employ them.

You could be the most toxic nikka and they'll still bow down because you're their boss.

I've known this since I was young by watching women bow down to my father.
 

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Well yea, but I also agree that they didnt have the options to work like that then.

:yeshrug: At least not like today.

all this shyt is a simulated run.

i also think happiness is an internal thing. Ppl can find it temporarily in others, but eventually you have to face it.

thats also a reason why marriage shyt fails today.
I honestly think the majority of women would prefer to work part time or not work at all and would take care of the home.

My sister is the breadwinner in her relationship with 3 boys and she’s looking to different things like rental properties, investing etc so she doesn’t have to work 40 hours a week.

I don’t think women are built to be breadwinners or have their income from their jobs be needed in the home. They’d rather be provided for in my opinion.

Also in all the jobs I’ve worked, women aren’t as go getters as men in terms of working OT, grinding and able to do it consistently for a long period of time.

A lot of women won’t say they don’t want to work because it’s looked down upon.
 

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First world countries are about doing business, getting money and smashing whores.

Not finding love or happiness in relationships.

If you wanna be in love and start a family then leave America, go to an island nation somewhere, and live comfortably in the mountains.

If youre trying to find love and start a family in America ---- then you stupid.

America is about money & sex
Marriage isn’t about love per say. If we look at all living things, humans are the only living beings that “require” love.

Long lasting marriages aren’t chosen upon love, but duty, similar ideas and goals.
 

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Grandmothers for the most part didn’t have to work, be in the workforce competing and dealing with other people.

Had families early on, stability.

Women today are either in the hustle and bustle of work society. A lot of women gotta go back to work a couple months after having kids.

Are they really happy tho?

In a world of slavery, Jim Crow, redlining, the war on drugs, police brutality, gang violence and overarching white supremacy, black women have NEVER felt stability in this country. Know that.
 

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In a world of slavery, Jim Crow, redlining, the war on drugs, police brutality, gang violence and overarching white supremacy, black women have NEVER felt stability in this country. Know that.
You are probably right but they had a man who was the front line of defense that they could lean and depend on.

Women nowadays are raising kids by themselves, and that shyt is no joke.

But why don’t we talk about the topic at hand. Are women happier today or in the past? Why?
 
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