I read through most of it. It's about women desiring to be happy in their relationship, or they will leave unlike their grandparents/parents. I get it.
If past generations were abusive or unhappy.
My question is: How do we fix this? No relationship/friendship is always happy.
Our happiness matters too.

They grew up with them because they're mom's had shyt judgement which is the crux of black women's mating issues within the black community, men don't need to do better, women need to get real. PLENTY of dependable, reliable men looking for black women to give them play with a flashlight in the daylight. But women don't want that, they want power, money, and or a good fukk. if you're 0/3 you're non existent to most black women until they've had kids, or been ran through. Ironically these bw who date out have NONE of these standards for their no black spouses. Some nikkas posting in this thread being obtuse as fukkMy matriarchal side had a better yin-yang balance because my grandad was unapologetically masculine so my grandma was always out doing (and buying) girly things.
We were spoiled because we never had to worry about anything; Grandad’s got it.
Grandma refuted, “women who marry below their station are never content in life,” and I witnessed it myself growing up.
Henpecked husbands, their wives cackling to their friends about how much money he makes, the kids telling him to stfu and the mother shrugging it off when he looks at her for backup
I casually mentioned to my friend’s once that I was taught the husband always gets served first round the table and they morphed into Feminazis
I didn’t know so many women grew up with patriarchs they wanted to poison![]()
Bro every bytch I know complain. I have legit mild depression, and live in my own self chastising, for shoulda coulda, but have more positivity, and still is more upbeat than these bytches. Young hoes complain about breathing my g. Women ain't really it. My sex drive evaporates when I think of all the extras I gotta deal with to get it.Women will never be happyThey will find a reason to moan about something.
That's why the first step is just to enjoy your life as a man and do what you want. We are much simpler beings and we just take life for what it is for the most part. I love that about us.
They grew up with them because they're mom's had shyt judgement which is the crux of black women's mating issues within the black community, men don't need to do better, women need to get real. PLENTY of dependable, reliable men looking for black women to give them play with a flashlight in the daylight. But women don't want that, they want power, money, and or a good fukk. if you're 0/3 you're non existent to most black women until they've had kids, or been ran through. Ironically these bw who date out have NONE of these standards for their no black spouses. Some nikkas posting in this thread being obtuse as fukk
Solutions: women have to adjust to their new found freedom without hypocrisy. Men have to adjust to women’s new found freedom without resentment.


Funny thing is
A lot of grandfathers weren’t happy in the selection they made in mates/marriage as well
A lot of nikkas was just marrying because a mistake baby was made
Women only see shyt one sided not knowing some of their grandmothers were emotional terrorist which they past down to their daughters and to them
Making them miserable mates and people as a whole
I’m sleep tho![]()
Our generation lacks wise elders.
What usually happens is women will deal with men who are financially or aesthetically out of their league in their prime whilst failing to develop their own interpersonal skills/sense of individuality.
The wisest choice is to build with a man who’s just getting his certs up right?
Many choose to ride the cock carousel and pray they hit a lick instead.
Fast forward 5-10 years and those same women are half-jaded because they’re mid 30s, their friends are settled down, the men their age are questioning why they’re still single and older brehs are chasing the 20 somethings in their prime.
The men a woman entertains between the ages of 18-25 set the precedent for what she expects from men as she matures because these are the men who mould her in their image.
No one tells young women these things so the cycle continues.
You selectively get read my posts looking for something to express fake outrage over. I have THOUSANDS of posts outlining shyt women do that i don’t agree with but b/c male accountability allergies cause you to make a beeline straight to the shyt I say about men to argue with me about even the slightest critique of menfolk.Didn’t think I’d see the day you’d admit a lot of women handle their “independence” with hypocrisy![]()

Yeah no shytIn a world of slavery, Jim Crow, redlining, the war on drugs, police brutality, gang violence and overarching white supremacy, black women have NEVER felt stability in this country. Know that.
