Black men pit light skin and dark skin girls against each other? No, from what I see y'all partake in that mess on your own accord.
You say you have to correct black men when we say "bytches" and black men give you a pat on the back for being dark skinned. By god, what kind of ignorant black men are you hanging around(or attracting

) black women who date out tend to date down more than any race, statistical evidence shows this. So these white dudes these swirl black women are getting with are not even come ups to begin with. Just look at Halle Berry(paying A MAN child support), Tamera Mowry(that cac didn't even help pay for their wedding), and that Daniele Watts chick(meth head fresh outta prison with no bumper on his car).
I bet Michelle Obama is glad she didn't have that logic otherwise she would be dating some broke white dude instead of being the First Lady Of The United States. But, then again I guess a community organizer that goes to Law School is too "Lame" and "Sissified" for you considering you hang with black men who refer to you as bytch and try to pity your beautiful dark skin as if its a curse. Wait, I might be on to something lets dig deeper brehs