Coli Views on Late Term Abortion

[Gold]

With my views on abortion and children as strong as they are, I could never be with a woman who doesn't feel the same.
On the off chance that we get pregnant unexpectedly, this is a discussion I never want to have.

Luckily I can avoid this altogether by choosing who I want to be with carefully so I'm not worried at all.

 

[wickedsm]

There have been women that have had abortions just to make their partner angry. It's seldom, but it happens.

yes they do. just not late term ones.
i cant imagine being that hateful or spiteful, but thats on them to reconcile or repent from.

 

[brother walt]

if a women don't want a baby they going to do whatever to kill it. IM against abortion shyt is murder yall approve of homo activity but look down on this Im just ready for Jesus to come back to clear all this stuff up

 

[Cladyclad]

Why is pulling life support any different than abortion to Pro life people?

 

[Gold]

Why is pulling life support any different than abortion to Pro life people?

Are you making the assumption that pro life people are pro euthanasia?

Because in my experience... they aren't at all.

Think back to the Terri Schiavo. Those who were against her husband pulling the plug were more so socially conservative and argued against a Right to Death

 

[Cladyclad]

Are you making the assumption that pro life people are pro euthanasia?

Because in my experience... they aren't at all.

I'm not saying all, but I kno people's in my fam that are heavy on religion. Pro life to the fullest. Pulled to plug on a family member quick AF. I just want to kno how many feel pulling life support is different than abortion?

 

[Gold]

I'm not saying all, but I kno people's in my fam that are heavy on religion. Pro life to the fullest. Pulled to plug on a family member quick AF. I just want to kno how many feel pulling life support is different than abortion?

Hmmm I dont know, but I can play devil's advocate with you.

They may argue that the person who they are pulling the plug on is in a vegetative state and will never be able to experience life fully whereas a baby is going to experience life if you don't abort it.
In one instance the potential is 0, and in the other its 100. That's probably the rationale they would employ.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Late term abortions should happen if they endanger the mother or if the child will be stillborn. Imagine the mental anguish of having to carry a dead baby inside you for 2 or 3 months KNOWING its dead and you can't just get it out of you.

With that said, I can't give birth...I really have no real logical feelings towards it. And I don't think any men should really be that heavily invested in abortion legislation beyond the vote. Its a women's issue to the max.

 

[Malt-O-Meal]

With my views on abortion and children as strong as they are, I could never be with a woman who doesn't feel the same.
On the off chance that we get pregnant unexpectedly, this is a discussion I never want to have.

Luckily I can avoid this altogether by choosing who I want to be with carefully so I'm not worried at all.

So if the fetus is dead or dying you'd be ok with your wife/gf dying as well? That and medical issues for mother and child are the reasons for late term abortion.

Smh at some of y'all sounding like rednecks republicans. Late term abortions are for extreme medical reasons. But I guess facts don't matter.

 

[Raava]

Late term abortions are very rare, and almost always due to the health/low survival rate or quality of life/stillborn baby or the health of the mother.

The image is graphic but doesn't tell the whole story as usual and people are jumping to conclusions

 

[CinnaSlim]

As a man, you have control of your seeds. Don't want kids, don't plant your seed. Keep an eye on your seed. Project your seed. People out here trying to steal baby batter.

Once you plant you're seed. I believe the woman has the ultimate choice. She is the host, the foundation, the incubator. The child is taking nutrients and energy from her body, shifting her organs, messing with her hormones. It has to be pulled out of her womb.

Pregnancy and labor is nothing to take lightly.

 

[Gold]

So if the fetus is dead or dying you'd be ok with your wife/gf dying as well?

How about instead of speaking for me, you read what I said and respond to that instead? Where did I state that I would be ok with my wife dying due to a medical complications? In fact, I carefully crafted my statement to ensure that I did not state how I would react in any situation because that's not important for you to know.

The only thing that matters is that I and the woman I am with are on the same page.

Smh at some of y'all sounding like rednecks republicans. Late term abortions are for extreme medical reasons. But I guess facts don't matter.

Yes its easy for me to sound like a redneck to you when you make up a redneck republican stance for me and then attribute it to me

 

[tater]

So, women can make babies by themselves

No, but they can take care of them themselves and no matter how you all want to slice it, the majority of the time the burden of children falls on the mother if parties aren't married or living together. Sure bring up cases of men taking the baby and the mom just leaving, but we all know that doesn't happen as much as the opposite situation. A single parent with a disabled child (which would most likely be the case if a woman is seeking a late term)?! Couldn't even imagine the struggle. I would not be up for it.

If we're not married, you get no say. Your input should matter of course, but the ultimate decision should be the woman's. I can agree with the other poster who said if the parties are married they both should consent but if not, I don't think so. Also, if there are health issues pertaining to the mother it should be her sole decision.

 

[Malt-O-Meal]

late term abortions rarely ever happen. when they do it is exactly becaise of such extreme cases .

are you talking about abortion in general? this thread is in reference to late term abortion.
which only happens in extremely rare cases.

youre stating that you agree with late term abortions in these special rare circumstances
but posting that you disagree with abortion for other reasons [non medically necessary]?

tbh. im really not sure what you are trying to convey.

i only came in this thread to post against the common misconceptions and propaganda that women routinely have 6, 7 and 8th month "convenience" or "choice" abortions,
because theres no such thing.

They're usually trying to spread their lies and misconceptions. I don't know what it is about this subject that makes some people throw logic and facts completely out the window. You could provide all types of statistics, charts, etc. and they ignore it to continue to believe a lie. I don't even think they actually care about the life of anyone in this situation. We've given the actual reasons for late term abortion, which is that someone's life is in danger but they not listening. It's crazy when you think about it. These people unfortunately can change life saving medical treatments because of fallacy. Leave it to these people, we'd have many preventable deaths. The even crazier part is we have people out here who feel they have the right to tell a stranger what to do with not only their body but a medical procedure.

But I bet anything these pro-lifers will be no where to be found when they options are no longer available. When that woman dies from sepsis, they won't be around to help pay funeral expenses, help raise and provide for any children she may have, or console her family and tell them why she had to die when there were options that could have saved her life. Or that woman who has a severely deformed baby who's baby will die within a few days of birth guaranteed or that family who has to care for a child with deformities and doesn't have and won't have a life. None of that matters to these pro-lifers.

 

[Malt-O-Meal]

How about instead of speaking for me, you read what I said and respond to that instead? Where did I state that I would be ok with my wife dying due to a medical complications? In fact, I carefully crafted my statement to ensure that I did not state how I would react in any situation because that's not important for you to know.

The only thing that matters is that I and the woman I am with are on the same page.




Yes its easy for me to sound like a redneck to you when you make up a redneck republican stance for me and then attribute it to me

The first quote I assumed you were a pro-lifer, my bad if you're not. But if you're not, you can still answer the question.

On the second quote it was in general, which you can see since you wouldn't have had time to answer the question yet, which is why I said "some of y'all", I just didn't feel like putting that in another post. I separated the statements for this reason.