Coli what's up with this girl man

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Let me break it down
I asked her to hang Saturday, we went to a party. She said she had a good. time.

She asked me to hang out Sunday at her place for an hour. Didn't make out her roommates where there.

Monday night she told me to come to a mutual fiends birthday party. I went. Arm around her the entire time.

I drove her home and she initiated the make out Monday night.


All you posted is nothing about desire...and everything about convenience. Women have so many options....maybe you were the available dude to go to the parties with her so she wouldnt go by herself, while the dude SHE REALLY wanted to go with probably wouldnt, or couldnt go.

Women have alot of reasons for the shyt they do...especially when it benefits them in some way.

Let me make this clear...a woman would give you the p*ssy, and STILL wouldnt be crazy about you....thats how they operate. This is why you have to 1. HAVE ALOT of women as options available....always give these women the illusion that they think you could cheat on them. Not that you WOULD....but that its highly possible that they can be replaced because you have alot of options...this is what keeps them on their best behavior...only if they are intrigued by your aura in the first place though.

2. Stop hanging with this chick if you havent fukked...or came REALLY close to fukking....if a woman really wanted to have sex with you, she wouldnt call you when she knows there is an opportunity for that shyt to be interrupted.

they make time, and energy for the shyt they want to enjoy thoroughly.....

the fact that you are trying to figure out this chick should tell you all you need to know....shes not that into you, you are just an option. There is no consistency with her actions, just convenience.
 

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Good advice has been given in here. Are you in Love already homey? If you want to know the truth, just fall back and let her initiate the next contact. Play it nonchalant, if you want to find out how strong her interest is in you. Don't waste time obsessing over a chick that's blahzay about you b.
 

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All you posted is nothing about desire...and everything about convenience. Women have so many options....maybe you were the available dude to go to the parties with her so she wouldnt go by herself, while the dude SHE REALLY wanted to go with probably wouldnt, or couldnt go.

Women have alot of reasons for the shyt they do...especially when it benefits them in some way.

Let me make this clear...a woman would give you the p*ssy, and STILL wouldnt be crazy about you....thats how they operate. This is why you have to 1. HAVE ALOT of women as options available....always give these women the illusion that they think you could cheat on them. Not that you WOULD....but that its highly possible that they can be replaced because you have alot of options...this is what keeps them on their best behavior...only if they are intrigued by your aura in the first place though.

2. Stop hanging with this chick if you havent fukked...or came REALLY close to fukking....if a woman really wanted to have sex with you, she wouldnt call you when she knows there is an opportunity for that shyt to be interrupted.

they make time, and energy for the shyt they want to enjoy thoroughly.....

the fact that you are trying to figure out this chick should tell you all you need to know....shes not that into you, you are just an option. There is no consistency with her actions, just convenience.

She was the one who made the initial interest. I took her to a party she wasn't even invited to or had any idea about.

I should say she's big into church. So I doubt she's dtf.

Were also near exam week, everyone is pretty busy.

As far as I know we have plans to meet at 3, but she's gonna have to text me if she wants to follow thorough.

I appreciate your help man, this is solid advice, just not the advice I want to hear ha.

Ill definitely keep trying expand my options with women. It's just one chick.
 

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Good advice has been given in here. Are you in Love already homey? If you want to know the truth, just fall back and let her initiate the next contact. Play it nonchalant, if you want to find out how strong her interest is in you. Don't waste time obsessing over a chick that's blahzay about you b.

Yea I'm gonna fall back. If she wants me, she better make an effort.
 

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She was the one who made the initial interest. I took her to a party she wasn't even invited to or had any idea about.

I should say she's big into church. So I doubt she's dtf.

Were also near exam week, everyone is pretty busy.

As far as I know we have plans to meet at 3, but she's gonna have to text me if she wants to follow thorough.

I appreciate your help man, this is solid advice, just not the advice I want to hear ha.

Ill definitely keep trying expand my options with women. It's just one chick.


If shes big into church, she shouldnt be making out with people in the first place lol....dont buy the church act my man....they the biggest closet freaks.

I think she has some interest...but its not the interest you want....you will be fine though....women have the most to lose when it comes to playing mind games in love, we as men have all the time in the world to get women who want to COOPERATE....you will be fine.
 
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