college is where u usually find ya lady/connection to her. otherwise u fukked unless u got friends

[DJSmooth]

sometimes that's a hit, but a lot of times it can be a miss. i did the club scene years ago and now bein' in my 30's, it's not somethin' i want to entertain really
i can remember bein' in my 20's and not bein' that 30 year somethin' nikka still goin' to the clubs
plus, the clubs were never "me"
they were cool when i was younger because it was bout hangin' out ya boys and hollerin' at girls and it was new. but now? i can't imagine goin' to a club

I hit up lounges mostly these days. They are a little bit of a slower pace but still have the club feel.

You just got to hit up older spots man. The establishment I was at yesterday was a bit upscale so everyone there were pretty much older college kids and professionals.

And according to the coli nikkas in their 30s are supposed to be eating more than dudes in their 20s when it come to women since you are more seasoned.

 

[Taadow]

bruh, when you work a 9 to 5 and literally have no friends and no social life, it can feel like there's only 2 to 5 fine ass broads you see a day. believe that
i know there is, but you gotta have some sympathy for those of us who don't go to clubs or don't really have friends

- you don't need "clubs" or "friends" to find a lady. Again - they're literally everywhere. Just go outside.
- There's 16 other hours of the day besides "9-5" to do whatever you want.

 

[I love Latina women]

I hit up lounges mostly these days. They are a little bit of a slower pace but still have the club feel.

You just got to hit up older spots man. The establishment I was at yesterday was a bit upscale so everyone there were pretty much older college kids and professionals.

And according to the coli nikkas in their 30s are supposed to be eating more than dudes in their 20s when it come to women since you are more seasoned.

that's what this 1 nikka at my job was tellin' me -- lounges

- you don't need "clubs" or "friends" to find a lady. Again - they're literally everywhere. Just go outside.
- There's 16 other hours of the day besides "9-5" to do whatever you want.

it's not that i ain't outside, lol, it's just not as easy as you makin' it out to be
i could holla at a 5 to 7 women a day but outta that group 9 times outta 10 i ain't gon find what i'm lookin'
i post up a lot of bullshyt on here from time to time, but in reality i ain't lookin' for no hoe

 

[WaveGang]

i was a cocky ass nikka back when i was hittin' up clubs, confidence was no problem
i'd holla at the most arrogant bytch in the club just for shyts and giggles back then, lol
but i ain't got tired of goin' to them because a lot of the clubs i went to back then were hole in the wall clubs and it was always some bullshyt goin' on
plus, like i said. deep down, that really won't me
it was cool cause it was new at the time, but bein' around a bunch of thug ass nikkas and bytches who wouldn't give a fukk bout my ass outside that club, won't me
i should've been somewhere with 1 woman, chillen at the bookstore or some shyt
a lot time wasted durin' those years
i had fun but too much fun

How old r u?

Not gna lie, the last couple sentences sound like simping.

Idk why you couldn't do both,

 

[WaveGang]

I hit up lounges mostly these days. They are a little bit of a slower pace but still have the club feel.

You just got to hit up older spots man. The establishment I was at yesterday was a bit upscale so everyone there were pretty much older college kids and professionals.

And according to the coli nikkas in their 30s are supposed to be eating more than dudes in their 20s when it come to women since you are more seasoned.

I'm 27, definitely had gotten easier the older I have got to be honest.

Experience is everything.

 

[I love Latina women]

How old r u?

Not gna lie, the last couple sentences sound like simping.

Idk why you couldn't do both,

31
y'all call a lot of shyt on here simping
but lemme give it to you straight
i'm an old school nikka
all SOMETIMES my bullshyt postin', i'm 1 of them nikkas who just wants 1 woman
i don't wanna be no playa or some nikka slidin' in and out of p*ssy here, p*ssy there. i don't need all that
just 1 faithful woman and i'm good
i still believe in love
now if if that make me a fool or a simp, so be it

 

[Taadow]

it's not that i ain't outside, lol, it's just not as easy as you makin' it out to be
i could holla at a 5 to 7 women a day but outta that group 9 times outta 10 i ain't gon find what i'm lookin'
i post up a lot of bullshyt on here from time to time, but in reality i ain't lookin' for no hoe

You not gonna find what you're lookin' for from a woman anyway, lol.
But gettin' a woman is as easy as i'm making it out to be, once you know how to do it...

 

[WaveGang]

31
y'all call a lot of shyt on here simping
but lemme give it to you straight
i'm an old school nikka
all SOMETIMES my bullshyt postin', i'm 1 of them nikkas who just wants 1 woman
i don't wanna be no playa or some nikka slidin' in and out of p*ssy here, p*ssy there. i don't need all that
just 1 faithful woman and i'm good
i still believe in love
now if if that make me a fool or a simp, so be it

Yeah that's definitely some simp shyt.

But atleast you keeping it real, nothing worse than a brother that's faking the funk.

Tbh I ain't saying you gotta be a playa and all that shyt. It's just networking, meeting folk etc. Tryna be that guy who's world revolve rounds his girl, who cut off friends etc etc to be with her will never end well.

 

[WaveGang]

You not gonna find what you're lookin' for from a woman anyway, lol.
But gettin' a woman is as easy as i'm making it out to be, once you know how to do it...

This is true, women are some flawed ass creatures like humanity.

It's definitely easy to get women and I'm the laziest, laid back muthafukka going.

 

[I love Latina women]

You not gonna find what you're lookin' for from a woman anyway, lol.
But gettin' a woman is as easy as i'm making it out to be, once you know how to do it...

and what is it that i'm lookin' for from a woman since you seem to know already what i'm lookin' for

 

[I love Latina women]

Yeah that's definitely some simp shyt.

But atleast you keeping it real, nothing worse than a brother that's faking the funk.

Tbh I ain't saying you gotta be a playa and all that shyt. It's just networking, meeting folk etc. Tryna be that guy who's world revolve rounds his girl, who cut off friends etc etc to be with her will never end well.

if you say so

and i never, never ever did i ever say i was tryin' to be that nikka who's whole world revolves around his woman. never that

 

[DJSmooth]

I'm 27, definitely had gotten easier the older I have got to be honest.

Experience is everything.

Nice
I can't wait to hit late 20s I haven't even came close to hitting 25 yet. When I hit my prime

 

[the bossman]

You making it way more complicated then it needs to be. There are quality women out there everywhere literally everywhere.

The grocery store after work is loaded with bytches that got nothing but avocados and broccoli in their carts with a bottle of white wine to go drink all by themselves at home. The gym is loaded. This past month alone I've met tons at the one music fest in Atlanta and bad boy family concert.

I started taking some dance classes last year and the ratio of women to men at the socials is ridiculous. bytches all dressed up but theres just not enough nikkas to dance with so you see lots just sitting on the wall looking lonely. Many of them cute late 20s black professional women just looking for something to do.

I'm 30. If your best opportunities at finding a quality broad was your college days, you doing it wrong. Especially if you anywhere near a black city (dc, ATL, hou). There's too many options if you even a half way decent brotha. Your life is what you make it breh.

 

[Taadow]

and what is it that i'm lookin' for from a woman since you seem to know already what i'm lookin' for

I saw you say you believe in "love", and they ain't got that for you. It's like this dude said...

This is true, women are some flawed ass creatures like humanity.

It's not wise to be pumpin' these broads up in your mind like they are the chit that's gonna "complete" you, or something like that.

 

[Koba St]

Hey look, another coli thread where its either this or that. No inbetweens