There are too many black single mothers... As a single mom lately I've been feeling disappointed at the number of single moms I've been meeting... across various age groups, economic levels, education levels, and even ethnic groups... I've met a few African single moms, Caribbean, etc. I dont see this as a good thing--i feel like perhaps shaming does need to occur again. For men and women. As much as the coli believes that these women are getting pregnant by deadbeat or thugs with multiple children, it actually is only partially true. Some of these men are white collar, blue collar, some have no kids prior to getting the woman pregnant, and they are of varying classes. It isn't just a case of bw choosing wrong, it's a case of bm and bw not seeing as much stigma with having kids out of wedlock, marriage not being valued as much, and many not knowing how to have healthy loving relationships with one another that results in a marriage.
I feel like pawgset and wenches need to form their own group with biracials because while they can obviously identify with the struggle, very few bm that are pawgset hold decent views and beliefs about bw, and very few blk women that wench hold decent reasonable views on bm. Instead they both tend to hold their non black partner and biracial children on a pedestal. These pawgset bm will support other bm but cannot be trusted because they hold conflicting views about bw(some of these men have even posted in this thread with their views) the same goes for bw with wm, a lot of them will support bw but hold conflicting views about bm. Therefore like biracials their loyalty to our community collectively is often riddled with their conflicting views and their kids usually continue those views.
BW should get better weaves if they choose to wear them. Its becoming ridiculous how often I see a woman with a fukked up unrealistic looking weave.
A lot of bm like very overweight bw, which they call thick. A lot of black women therefore aspire to be thick and overweight because they know that is what bm like. This is partially why there are so many fat and overweight bw.