Coming to the realization you're approaching flabbyandsick unappreciation thread

[acri1]

You become "Old" at 50. Motherfukker you 36. Your joint ain't workin' or somethin'? I mean aside from a few prominent Greys and you making the "Urrgh" sound when you get up and sit down, shouldn't nothing much change physically for you unless you been bogged down by sickness and disease and it's taking a toll on you. This coming from a dude who built like the Violator from Spawn at 35.

Plus as a man you've got the option to have kids at almost any age so outside of wanting to interact with your kids at a certain age, you good. You can revisit this thread when you hit 45 or some shyt.

All in all breh, you got time. A Solid chunk of that shyt. Drink water, eat clean p*ssy, do some Cardio before you too old to enjoy ALL that shyt 'cause you gotta wear a catheter or picking out pacemakers like some of my old partners that going through hell right now at 50+.

Thing is, once you hit 30 people constantly ask you when you're going to have a kid. Shyt makes you feel old even if you otherwise don't

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

You'll only get if you don't take care of yourself and stay physically/intellectually/emotionally active.​

 

[Dr. Acula]

Thing is, once you hit 30 people constantly ask you when you're going to have a kid. Shyt makes you feel old even if you otherwise don't

This or when you're going to get married. If you answer negatively to either of these questions, they act like you're a weirdo or committed some great sin.

I can't count how many times I've had this conversation with mostly women

"You have any kids?"
"No"
Them: How old are you?
Me: 36

They act the same way when you say you have a girlfriend instead of being married. Folks try to shame you and shyt.

 

[froggle]

still getting rock hard erections as even a breeze blows on me
I don't rock flatops round here breh

 

[The Realist Perspective]

My dad had me @ 39. That’s old as shyt to be having a newborn, especially in today’s world going forward. You don’t wanna be like my dad who was too and tired to play basketball after school, or catch a movie on a Sunday. You don’t wanna be too out of touch to relate with your kids.

That's the thing...you're not supposed to relate with your kids. It'd be sad if you were 40 and related with a teenager. How does that speak on the older person's mental development. There's a reason why people have friends mostly around their age and mentors that are older than them. The role of a father is to be the #1 mentor in their young man's life. A place of guidance and wisdom. Not a person that regularly plays basketball with or talk about the latest/greatest movies. That's why a person has friends.

 

[Afrodroid]

I'm 39 bout to hit 40 next year and still look young



As others have stated, take care of your body and mind and you be good

 

[Collateral]

That's the thing...you're not supposed to relate with your kids. It'd be sad if you were 40 and related with a teenager. How does that speak on the older person's mental development. There's a reason why people have friends mostly around their age and mentors that are older than them. The role of a father is to be the #1 mentor in their young man's life. A place of guidance and wisdom. Not a person that regularly plays basketball with or talk about the latest/greatest movies. That's why a person has friends.

Why can’t it work both ways though? A father can be a role model, a mentor and a friend.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

30 and feel the same as I did when I was a teenager tbh

As you're supposed to 30 is young them bad knees are still a while off

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Why can’t it work both ways though? A father can be a role model, a mentor and a friend.

If he can manage! That'd be great. I was moreso talking about people not wanting to be that older dad. It's a blessing I think, minus you get to spend less time with them if you're super old. Yeah it's not a good look to have kids 60+ but 30s-40s? Probably the best time IMHO.

 

[Vandelay]

I'm 4 years from 40 and it just really occurred to me recently that I'm becoming an old man .

Actually, I also realize I need to hurry up and have kids and get married. I know #GMB but I feel like I need to do some of these grown man milestones already.

gang assemble and make me feel better about this shyt.

I'm in the same boat. 36, no kids or wife. Have a GF. Trying to make it work. Even when it Wasn't covid, I was on the slow down where I don't feel like going out every single day during the weekend. Burning through my entire paycheck.

I still wanna smash strange p*ssy, I just don't feel like going through the effort to do it. I feel like building my kingdom and not rotating through people.

I tell you what though...if this don't work, I'm probably going to be on that wave.

 

[Starski]

Im 26 so I’m good for now but my hairline & crown starting to hit the

 

[buzzkill]

Im 26 so I’m good for now but my hairline & crown starting to hit the

We at that age bro we aint old but we aint young...

We see how fast time goes so if u still procrastinating u gonna be left behind... its time to get it

I also hear that anti dandruff shampoo helps with hair lines ... I been using nizoral

 

[AquaCityBoy]

What does this have to do with AOC tho?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

If you're black then you don't have many excuses, imo.

Even with a moderate amount of exercise and attention to diet, you can still have elite aesthetics due to blackleticism.

 

[Dave24]

I'm 4 years from 40 and it just really occurred to me recently that I'm becoming an old man .

Actually, I also realize I need to hurry up and have kids and get married. I know #GMB but I feel like I need to do some of these grown man milestones already.

gang assemble and make me feel better about this shyt.

@Dr. Acula did you end up having kids and getting married? I just turned 40 awhile ago and wanted kids and marriage as well but have neither.