Compliment how do u do it

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Past few dates felt some kinda way,I ain't compliment there looks,felt I wasn't feeling them,I dont want to seem creepy,
 

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Breh asked how do you compliment a woman :snoop:

You found something about her that you like physically enough to ask her out on a date.. compliment her on that.

Make it genuine.
 

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1. Compliment something she made effort to do, not something physical she had no control over.

Bad: “damn, you got some big yitties...”
Good: “I like your blouse (say why - and not because “it’s got big yitties in it”)

Clothes/shoes/perfume compliments are good because she had to choose to wear it.
Or something she said or did before that you noticed/appreciated.

2. Make it just about her, and not a comparison to something/somebody else.

Good: “I was interested in what you said about ______”
Bad: “I was interested in what you said about _______, most girls I meet don’t care about that”

3. Just drop the compliment and move on; don’t say it and wait for it to land.

That makes for awkward silence if it sits there for too long.
Also, it comes off like your in your head searching for what to say next.

3B. Don’t try to spend the whole time complimenting her.

Your point is just to converse/get to know her.
You can talk about anything in the world - so you don’t have to overdo it with compliments,
just talk to her like she’s a person. Really, the best compliments will come from the conversation
anyway. Like “you know - what you just said was real talk. I never thought about it like that...”

Summary:
Think about a date as like McDonalds fries.
It goes without saying that it’s better if they’re fresh...

But Compliments are like the salt on the fries.

The point of compliments on a date are to let the other person know (a) you are really paying attention
to them, and (b) you don’t just want to be their “friend”. The right amount and the right kind make it hit
just right...but too much leaves a bad aftertaste, and makes you feel thirsty.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

 

Willie

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Yeah your right,but if she said shes nervous...

If she said she nervous it’s your job to make her comfortable. Start simple if you need to. Say you like her shoes or her hair or something. Aunt gotta go crazy
 

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I have never felt gratification from compliments for looks whether from men or women. Im not narcissistic I just feel meh about it.

But compliments about accomplishments that took an actual effort... Big or small.

Also I don't ever make a compliment if I don't 100% mean it.

Dont dap fish on the coli and in real lfe as well.
 
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