Confess something to your ex

[Rice'N Beckford]

Recent ex:

-When I went to Howard's homecoming back in 2013 I had another bytch's titty in my mouth outside

-I hated that you wore weave all the time

-fourth of july 2015 I was bouta catch the neck by a 17 yr old


to my first ex:

-I was tryna get a handjob by your 18 yr old sister

 

[Ria_21]

Wow at some of the confessions on here..

I have nothing bad to say just wish i was more open and told you how i really felt about "us" It was all a very new experience for me, you were the first guy i have ever gotten close to. Things were moving so fast and i got cold feet. I was so hurt by your actions when you decided to post that picture of your ex I'm glad that i got to say sorry to you for my wrongdoings and i wish you all the best.

 

[HabitualLineSteppa]

First ex-Thanks for telling me you cheated because you lost your chance to take my V card..Within a month, I smashed that homegirl you were worried about and 4 other chicks before you. I dumped you after prom because your mother was a dope fiend and you shared similar characteristics.

**ex is currently a single mother of two on welfare. Currently ignores all likes, posts, and inboxes from her on social media**

2nd ex (first fiancee)-Yes, I was cheating like a madman from year 1-6. Aye, I was ballin, you was complainin and whining and tried so hard to demonize EVERYTHING in the world, you drove me to it. Strip clubs throwing 2 months worth of rent every other month, multiple women in a day, skipping working to smash and get loaded, you name it, I did it. I didn't want to marry you cause you were EXTREMELY insecure and in turn, you made everything you feared, come true.

**ex is currently a single mother of one yet in seemingly a healthy relationship...Her BD doesn't know but we smashed while she was pregnant..Raw...Left it in everytime...Just like old times. NOTE: Current BF is not her BD**

3rd ex-Same way you got em, same way you lose em. Cheated on you too. Your heavy handed, I'm too smart for all that playa ish, ultimately got your feelings hurt. I broke up with you on the day of your friend's wedding because I was still grieving my mother's death and I wasn't interested in relationship any more. I needed to be alone for once and deal with my new life. I probably would've wasted your time anyway.

**ex recently acquired her Master's degree in psychology. Recently engaged to an entrepreneur. Seems to be doing wonderfully**

4th ex-You cheating on me stung...Finally got my karma if you will. But then again, you've called and Facetimed me numerous times while other women where at the house cooking in the kitchen. When you moved to Dallas, I almost got head from your cousin but I'm thankful you told me she had herpes. You're a terrible family member for revealing that btw but good lookin out. I actually started courting my wife shortly after you told me you cheated. My son thanks you for your efforts.

**ex current status is unknown as all communication effectively ended 4 years ago**

 

[mcellas]

Young nikka was wild.

 

[Vashti]

I'm learning, growing, and making more strides without you then I ever could have made with you.


I would wish you the best, but since you can't have me..I wish you the second best. Sucka.

 

[Sleepy Walker]

In a thread about confessions to your ex, two different confessions were about killing their dogs

I didn't kill him... I shot that annoying, dumb ass with a BB gun and had a good evil ass laugh after he was running around yelping.

 

[ORDER_66]

I miss you so damned much... sometimes...

Yes I could have been a better boyfriend... but the minute you mentioned your ex being your friend... internally I couldnt deal with it because I knew the end was coming and you should have realized the shyt I was going through when I started pulling away emotionally.

I just dont understand why you was crying when you couldnt get rid of that nikka over losing me. you knew it would end this way...

Believe it or not I loved having sex with you, the way you moaned my name, your soft skin & the way you felt...

I confess I sabotaged the relationship internally because I knew it would end...

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

You were one of the best lovers of body and soul that I've ever experienced.
Making love to you was amazing...you touched something in me that hadn't been awakened prior to you and I'll never forget it.
After all these years...I'm still slightly angry that you would choose your family over me...when you claimed you loved me.
But it kind of makes me laugh now seeing that your life is in shambles after that arranged marriage, and my life is just dope.
Was it worth it?
Was the money your family stood to gain worth it?
They sold you out like a 2 dollar whore...all for the financial and prestigious security of "The Family".
I would have made you my queen...Given you anything you could have asked for...sacrificed blood sweat and tears for you as I'd done so many times before.
You had to move across the country to get away from your abusive cheating worthless ex-husband that your family led you to marry.
Meanwhile I'm still here, doing better than ever before and growing each day.
I now have all the things that we always talked about getting when we were together and I look like an Adonnis compared to the skinny beanpole I was when we were together.
The main difference now is that I'm with a woman that really truly loves me and cherishes me.
She has stood by my side and HELPED me achieve greatness.
She has even given me a son that is the most handsome and funny and interesting child Ive ever known.
I know you have a son as well, but he won't have the stable life that my son will have.
You know how I am...once I settle down, I don't change.
I would have given you the same reliable, stable, solid life...but you went the other way and listened to your family.
I can't feel sorry for you...I have tried...in the spirit of friendship, I have tried...but you did this.
You made this choice.
You did this.
All I can do is be there as a distant friend and listen to your horror stories and your weeping and disappointment with life...and continue to try to be your friend.
Yes, we will always have the memories of our time together...but that's all.
I'm never going to see you again.
Not even in pictures.
And you will never see me again.
You did this...made this choice...made things the way they are.
I don't know...I guess I should thank you.
If you hadn't gone the other way...been a doormat to your family's wishes...I would be so very different today.
I wouldn't know God if I'd stayed with you...I'd not have a child if I'd stayed with you...I'd not be as secure as I am if I'd stayed with you.
Your flirtatious ways were always a threat and I can't live with that...you knew that, and persisted in your ways.
I'm not one to share...you or anything...that's why I left you.
I won't compete with your family, another man or your job.
Yes...perhaps this was meant to be.
Me, here...and happy.
You, there...and miserable...or happy in your own way...far away among the fake and pretentious plastic people.
Painted on smiles and fake body parts...trying to appear happy...just like you.
But you're not like them.
You don't have their resources.
You don't have their position in life.
You don't have their power.
You don't fit there.
You won't fit there.
Your place wasn't there...it was here.
But you made this choice.

You did this.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

chocolate snowcone



Out here missing out on busting nuts and still staying in the relationships, I didn't know this was a rampant issue

Stay in a relationship long enough and get bored of the p*ssy...you'll do it too.
Most times I just fake it like I nutted after she get hers so I can finally go do something else.
Call it the "ghost-nut"...

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

This don't sound like my booksnrain

I don't like being tested. I'm loyal 100% but betray me and I'm not gonna continue to curve dudes in a clown azz situation. Some dudes need to understand the ramifications of their actions. When I saw he was untrue, I used him, withdrew physically and invested in others worth my time and effort. He still sour, especially now cuz his homeboys tryin to get him to give them the green light but oh well. Past is the past now. And I don't do takebacks with cheaters especially when i know what I'm willing to bring to the table. It's chess, not checkers. I don't take Ls with nikkas. I'm not fukkin randoms unless we're in a relationship. I'm not gonna be used. I'm not having a bunch of OOW babies for "love". I don't tolerate sidechicks and bullshyt. Call me what u want but it is what it is.

A LOT of women bring a lot of shyt on themselves in dating. There is shyt a lot of women put up with out of fear of being alone and low self-esteem. But when u think logically about it, you can be in a relationship gettin played and still be by yourself. I'm good. A man who is untrue is more of a liability than a benefit. If u can't appreciate me and help me build a legacy of love and honesty, ur useless to me. Some bytches made for that sidechick life. I ain't.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

And to my most recent ex: I really tried to give us a chance and I thought ur atheism wouldn't be an issue. But you don't believe in anything least of all yourself. It's not my job to be the Naruto to ur Sasuke. I'm not gonna sacrifice a damn arm trying to convince you to give a damn. You chose bum bytches and let them break you down before you met me. So now you're an emotional husk and you think being nihilistic is edgy and cool.

That shyt is ridiculous because ur an existential coward and I can't allow you to try and sacrifice me on the altar of your resentment. The most pathetic thing in the world is for a man to know his flaws but not have the courage to confront them.

You're always on some bullshyt saying I live in a Gumdrop Forest and not in the real world. Translation: You think only unhappiness is real and you resent me for putting my everything into my dreams and reaping the benefits of my hard work despite how hard my life has been.

You making a slow descent into fukkboidom and I'm not sticking around to watch you fall. Honestly I think I stayed with u for as long as i did because i felt sorry for you and we were friends first.
But pity can't sustain a relationship and I haven't been in love with u for a year now.

Financially ur saving me money as I move towards homeownership, but I think it's time for me to put you out. I will have to break into my savings but ur not even a fun friend to have around anymore. When we broke up and u realized I wasn't going to fukk with you like that, you just became bitter and petty. You not even fun anymore. Besides which I'm ready to meet better men and I won't waste a good man's time fooling around while I still live with an ex. You gotta go. This is my fault because financially I'm greedy but I can find another roommate. Goodbye.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Stay in a relationship long enough and get bored of the p*ssy...you'll do it too.
Most times I just fake it like I nutted after she get hers so I can finally go do something else.
Call it the "ghost-nut"...

Been with my girl for years, never thought about a ghost nut my brother you doing it wrong lol

 

[ORDER_66]

It's not my job to be the Naruto to ur Sasuke.

 

[NerdNash]

Come back

 

[Texasdymond]

Stay away