Fillerguy
Veteran
Who's preventing you from living your truth my guy?
I'm not saying making moves isn't harder as a Black man but this is part of the problem. If we want the respect as leaders of the community we need to to lead. Respect is earned not given and that includes our women and children. Like I said in another aim for the stars try to make as much money as possible and focus on marriage and making Black families.
I get it. It's hard out there no doubt but we gotta keep on pushing.
Get this the fukk out of here. You know damn wel the women in the community dont want the men to lead. And you know damn well the black community has all ways(as a whole) been Ran by women.I'm not saying making moves isn't harder as a Black man but this is part of the problem. If we want the respect as leaders of the community we need to to lead. Respect is earned not given and that includes our women and children. Like I said in another aim for the stars try to make as much money as possible and focus on marriage and making Black families.
I get it. It's hard out there no doubt but we gotta keep on pushing.
Get this the fukk out of here. You know damn wel the women in the community dont want the men to lead. And you know damn well the black community has all ways(as a whole) been Ran by women.
Black Man if someone hit you with shyt like this tell that nikka get the fukk out your face. Spend your time doing whatever the fukk you want.
Talking earn your respect..... nikka please
No nikka, the community is exactly where they want it to be.Look at this negative attitude this is why the community is in the state it's In constantly blaming women.
How about this.
What is the solution then? Saying Black women are beyond saving and starting families with non Black women? Not even judging what is the solution?
Let's have a discussion.
"Saying Black women are beyond saving and starting families with non Black women?"
The problem is all y’all want to do is complain and feel bad about how women and cacs are treating you. We choose not to control our image and let whomever control it for us (homos, c00n rappers/athletes, passport bros & etc)
There’s no talk about taking back and controlling our narrative, it’s just this oppression Olympics, “woe is me” attitude towards our reality. It’s not masculine it’s not productive, that’s why some people call it bytching. There’s no plan besides complaining about it.
No nikka, the community is exactly where they want it to be.
You see Black man, even he think the Black community only consist of just woman.
Any black man worth his salt should do whatever the fukk he wants. fukk who he want, or start a famil with who he want.
I didnt misinterpret it. I took it for what it was. I just want dudes to see shyt for what it is.So you're just going to misinterpret what I'm saying to make a bad faith argument. I'm not even completely disagreeing with you. If starting a non-Black family is the most ideal solution for you that is fine. I advocate for mens happiness regardless of where they find it.