Could u be in love with a person and still cheat on them

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No...

My current woman and since I’m older, there’s no way I’m cheating on her..

My past relationships with I say a few decent women, I wouldn’t cheat on them physically but mentally when I’m fukking them I be thinking about the other woman who was ready to give me the p*ssy but I turned it down
 

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I personally couldn't but I don't throw the word love out recklessly like a lot of people. Loving a woman means they have to fulfill me physically, emotionally and we have to click very well. A lot of people can't even get 1 or 2 those right which is why they need to cheat.

This guy gets it. Daps
 

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You'll find that people they're cheating on each other were never feeling each other like that in the first place but settled for each other because they liked each other at the time
 

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What y'all think.

I asked this on fb

And got mixed results
love doesn't stop you from doing anything to somebody. abusers can love their victims, you'll cheat on your significant other, ruin someones life that you love, etc etc...

respect + love is a powerful combination though. you'll do right by someone no matter what your going through:wow:
 

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No, we all know that's not love. You wouldn't waver if it was true. We understand that we are flawed people. We don't always get up in the morning with the same feelings for those around us, but if you've committed to someone you have to dig deep spiritually and do what you say you're going to do. Otherwise, you're lying to them and yourself.
 
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Yes, of course you can. Cheating is often just about getting a nut.

No. Anything that you consciously do to intentionally* hurt your partner (emotionally, physically or otherwise) is the opposite of expressing love. Have urges? Okay, fine. Give into those urges? No bueno.

*Yes, that is exactly what you are doing by cheating. You are aware of the consequences of your actions, accountability is 100% yours.

You need look up the meaning of intent. Cheaters are typically not doing so with the intention of hurting their partner. That is not the purpose of the cheating.

You are correct that they consciously know it will hurt their partner, but selfishly choose to do it anyways. People do selfish things that will collaterally hurt people they love all the time. :manny:
 

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Yes. Could just be about the sex. Could be having feelings for both people. Feelings aren't black and white.
 
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