Could You Date A Stripper?

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I was never lost. I went into dancing with a plan and followed through.

But are you the rule or the exception?

Would you advise a dude to date a seasoned stripper?
 

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But are you the rule or the exception?

Would you advise a dude to date a seasoned stripper?
Idk most girls don't make it a month. I saw more girls come and go then I saw stick around.

Some of the most seasoned strippers I know are happily married women. I would advise guys to judge everyone as individuals and go from there.
 
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I was never lost. I went into dancing with a plan and followed through.
EXACTLY!If a woman is there to just make her money keep a good level,logical thinking head on her shoulders,and keep it moving then she should be OK!Most of the women these fools are talking about,seem to be really impressed,and flabbergasted by the fast life style,and is foolish enough to caught up by the real dark side of it.Or this could be just ranting,and talking out my butt.
 

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EXACTLY!If a woman is there to just make her money keep a good level,logical thinking head on her shoulders,and keep it moving then she should be OK!Most of the women these fools are talking about,seem to be really impressed,and flabbergasted by the fast life style,and is foolish enough to caught up by the real dark side of it.Or this could be just ranting,and talking out my butt.
They don't know any strippers. They just echo each other. They just hate the fact that attactive women have a power over them that they can't resist so they pow wow about how these women will be unhappy to make themselves feel better about their weakness.
 

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In her mind we would be dating. I'd really just be having me p*ssy on call. That's how I would see it. But I wouldn't do anything long term. Just have her think were dating so I can fukk whenever and if I was to find a girl I really liked then that's when the steipper gets the :camby:

This. It would be a "Hey, lets chill on your off day(s)"

Other than that, no emotions invested at all.
 

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Let me start by saying I've always looked down on people who date strippers with disgust. I honestly dont understand how men could get themselves to the point where they would bring these women to their mothers or family functions and have to explain to them what said chicks do for a living.

With that said...

Ive never been a strip club guy. I'm 36 and only been twice and quite honestly i was dragged there by friends both times (first time i was 32. 2nd time was about 6 weeks ago).

Anyway i met this stripper and we exchanged numbers. Mind you that night i was drunk and horny as fukk so i tried to call her and fukk the same night but it didnt happen. I didnt contact her again for a good month until she texted me the other day.

Im not trying to date her but when im home and am bored the thought of calling her over to fukk has crossed my mind.
  • But problem is i just wanna fukk and (i'm thinking) a stripper is about her money. Just calling her over to fukk would probably take money which in my eyes is prostitution and thats not a line im willing to cross, ever.
  • If i was to take the approach of taking her out to try to fukk then that would be like im trying to date her and I surely dont want that. Dating a stripper is way out of bounds to me. Granted, i did go out with this chick who after i stopped seeing her, i thought may have been a stripper at some point in her life. But that can be said for almost any female because you never really know someones past.
Am I over thinking this?
 
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Let me start by saying I've always looked down on people who date strippers with disgust. I honestly dont understand how men could get themselves to the point where they would bring these women to their mothers or family functions and have to explain to them what said chicks do for a living.

With that said...

Ive never been a strip club guy. I'm 36 and only been twice and quite honestly i was dragged there by friends both times (first time i was 32. 2nd time was about 6 weeks ago).

Anyway i met this stripper and we exchanged numbers. Mind you that night i was drunk and horny as fukk so i tried to call her and fukk the same night but it didnt happen. I didnt contact her again for a good month until she texted me the other day.

Im not trying to date her but when im home and am bored the thought of calling her over to fukk has crossed my mind.
  • But problem is i just wanna fukk and (i'm thinking) a stripper is about her money. Just calling her over to fukk would probably take money which in my eyes is prostitution and thats not a line im willing to cross, ever.
  • If i was to take the approach of taking her out to try to fukk then that would be like im trying to date her and I surely dont want that. Dating a stripper is way out of bounds to me. Granted, i did go out with this chick who after i stopped seeing her, i thought may have been a stripper at some point in her life. But that can be said for almost any female because you never really know someones past.
Am I over thinking this?
Yes. Maybe you should reserve judgment until you actually meet the person.
 
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