Could you seriously date or marry a woman with ZERO blue collar in her?
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My wife is bougie as hell, she ain't getting near no damn tools. 
Girl can barely pump her own gas. Most I've seen her do is put together a small IKEA cabinet and she messed it up, doors wouldn't close right when she finished.
I do make sure she can use certain safety equipment though like the fire extinguishers in the house.
Girl can barely pump her own gas. Most I've seen her do is put together a small IKEA cabinet and she messed it up, doors wouldn't close right when she finished.I do make sure she can use certain safety equipment though like the fire extinguishers in the house.
1. she's not fukking with my lawn. no other man or woman cuts my lawn.
2. she knows the difference between a phillips head and a flat head because her pops taught her.
3. she can jump start the car (using one of those small portable ones) if she does something like forgetting to turn on the ignition while she inflates pool toys (using the tire inflator that i put in there for emergencies) at a kid's birthday party and drains the battery. yes that happened.
4. she doesn't know how to change a tire, so she'll wait for roadside assistance on that one if i'm not in town or nearby.
2. she knows the difference between a phillips head and a flat head because her pops taught her.
3. she can jump start the car (using one of those small portable ones) if she does something like forgetting to turn on the ignition while she inflates pool toys (using the tire inflator that i put in there for emergencies) at a kid's birthday party and drains the battery. yes that happened.
4. she doesn't know how to change a tire, so she'll wait for roadside assistance on that one if i'm not in town or nearby.
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The Wolf Among You
Superstar
No. I can’t stand a damsel in distress ass bytch.
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
sounds like you want some dikk
If you call AA while you're driving you probably need it.
I actually get where you are coming from. I was with someone like this before. There will be a part of you (however small it is) that will feel some level of annoyance and maybe even start to view her as retarded or something.For example, you tell her to bring you a Phillips screw driver and she brings back a standard.
She doesn’t understand why safety glasses are shaped the way they are as her only reference to them are the designer type.
She’s never ran a lawnmower or operated a drill of any type
shyt like that.
I can’t do it brehs. I need a female who throws down in the kitchen, ain’t afraid to get dirty and knows how to use a hammer and level. I can’t do the super girly girls. Like what if I get injured, we just gon be having outside look like a scene from The Walking Dead?
RhodyRum
Mark Gassed-A-Heaux
Zero consideration of an engagement ring until she can identify a Ramset and thoroughly explain how it works. 
I don’t know man, I’ve had ex’s who were completely useless/helpless outside of the bedroom and that shyt wears on you in the long term. shyt gets frustrating because they won’t even do simple shyt like take out the trash. You can’t be away too long because they let shyt fall apart. They’ll literally do shyt like drop and break a TV remote and it’s like “goddamn just look at the TV serial number on the back and order a NEW compatible one off Amazon”. I kind of hate being relied on for EVERYTHING.
I’ve also had a couple of ex’s who were deep into some utilitarian DIY shyt. Like their dad’s had them helping during oil changes, engine drops, and all kinds of shyt. As someone who likes to work on my vehicles, do handy shyt around the house, it was kind of refreshing. One was so extreme that she didn’t like me opening doors for her. She liked learning how to do new shyt, and would just do shyt at her crib like pull up carpet and put down wood all on her own, then want to talk about it because she was happy that you proud of her.
My wife is in-between. She country as hell but prissy. When we visit her mom she likes to have me chill while she helps her mom do outdoor stuff. If something seriously needs fixing then I take care of it. If I forget to grab the trash in the morning, before work, she gets it when our kid is taking a nap. If there’s a bug and I’m busy or gone, she’ll kill it. If I buy her a plant she try like hell to take care of it (it’s still going to die, but that’s beside the point). If I’m on the ladder she’s holding it even if I say I’m good, because she loves me and doesn’t want to see me fall. If I’m up under one of the vehicles or taking something apart she’s learning about the tools I’m using so she can’t anticipate what I might need. I do 97% of the things that involve being dirty, but she’ll get dirty when she needs to.
I enjoy being wanted, not needed. Our baby is the only useless one in the house, but that’s expected and we love her for that. If I died or was incapacitated I know my girl is going to be fine without me. Yeah, she gon eventually jump on the next nikka dikk, but at least it won’t belong to some lame ass, Tyler Perry protagonist, captain save-a-bytch fukking up my previous yard work and home improvements.
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
I don’t even know what the fucck you’re talking about
He threw me off for a second too, but I think it’s that measuring tool you use when doing woodwork or some shyt…. I’m
and haven’t seen one of those in a minute if it’s what I think it is
JustRegularBlack
Pro
It's preference. Find a woman that you vibe with and have similar interest. Hella women out here doing yard work, shoot guns, physical labor and more. And they are "girly" too. Just like it's fellas out here that can throw down in the kitchen and keep a house looking superb. Neither men nor women are as one note as a lot of yall want to pretend like they are. And for those that are truly one note, they tend to find each other.
Another angle is most men and women are outsourcing everything so traditional gender roles aren't being maintained by either gender. Many coupes are ordering food more, going to mechanics for the car, hiring lawn services, hiring repair people and even hiring cleaning services for the crib.
Another angle is most men and women are outsourcing everything so traditional gender roles aren't being maintained by either gender. Many coupes are ordering food more, going to mechanics for the car, hiring lawn services, hiring repair people and even hiring cleaning services for the crib.
I’m sorry, my Mom is a hustler. Raised 2 sons with little help from Dad and bought her own home, took care of it and gave it to my brother and I. That’s why my Wife is a hustler and that’s why we work little hours and have weeks to enjoy each other. We hustled in our 20’s and 30’s and now get to enjoy the fruits of our labor in our 40’s . I’ve taken a soft retirement and she should be done in the next 5 years if plans go accordingly. She can be as beautiful as the most beautiful woman in the world but you can’t be a ding bat between the ears. A woman who doesn’t know the basics will only be a hindrance moving forward.